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  1. G

    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    High school sports teams don't guarantee success with the ladies. College sports teams (a super popular sport like football or basketball), on the other hand? Absolutely panty soakers (from my observations in college) A less popular college sport like baseball (despite the MLB being super...
  2. TheGambino

    Facebook "Are we dating the same guy" groups

    soldier. I was arrester about 35 times before I was 21. All for fighting on the streets, last time I broke someones nose and got 14 days locked up. After that I went to university and build my life up. That was 12 years ago. Being locked up saved my life, its such a nightmare that you cant leave...
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    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    Fascinating article about men and autism. Even when only counting documented cases, autism is way more common in guys than broads. I suppose it's too late to go back to 2010 and ask that football player I had a class with what he did to succeed. What works for a college football player isn't...
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    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    More than a handful of us (Yours truly included)lost our V Cards after being pulled into bed BEFORE the age of 13 by a much older, predatory woman, who was obtuse to our consent. I bring this up to point out to you, GM: We've all got obstacles to outmaneuver in the realm of dating and mating...
  5. G

    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    It's true, as the other poster said, there are obviously sexually active 13 year old males too (hell, I went to school with a guy who lost his v-card to his 13 year old girlfriend at 12). I also went to college (and had a class) with a football player who would boast to anyone who would listen...
  6. G

    At what point were tech methods easiest for a guy?

    Yeah, the fact I still had a flip phone at the time put me in the solid minority. I finally switched to a smartphone in 2016.
  7. BeExcellent

    Girl deleted my profile after date.

    To respond to @SW15: Venue is important because it does some pre-selection for you. If you are at a gallery opening at an art gallery (for example) you are going to meet people who value art and are going, typically, to be more sophisticated, cultured, and higher net worth. These people also...
  8. SW15

    At what point were tech methods easiest for a guy?

    In 2015, having a flip phone was dating suicide. Around 2010 is when bougie White women expected men to have smartphones on in-person approaches. I have tended to run in circles over time with bougie White women. If you were doing in-person approaches around then and pulled out a flip phone in...
  9. SW15

    Girl deleted my profile after date.

    Most of the newer LTRs have formed online (swipe apps & social media). It is now the primary way couples form. Far fewer couples are now starting their interactions through a social circle facilitation, through a bar approach, through a non-bar approach (including through college campus...
  10. B

    Shy good girls?

    Women don't make sense. I had a girl in college who I hung out with who said she didn't want to move too fast because she liked me. When I told her I didn't want anything serious right now she just went "oh ok, then let's fu**". If you're 33 and this girl hasn't been sexual with you after 3...
  11. Clockwerk50

    baggy pants on a woman

    (5) Why does some fashion repeat while others fad? | LinkedIn I wear straight jeans and prefer them to slim fit. The point is, that’s what’s in style for the younger generation. Trends like septum piercings and broccoli hair are popular, and for many young people, it’s all about “when in...
  12. G

    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    Yep. I certainly don't strive to be the guy with a different college girl in his bed every night. I admit that would be an unrealistic expectation.
  13. SW15

    America lowers men's self esteem

    Both of these are great posts. In early life, women's looks are extremely valuable in the sexual marketplace. The appeal of youthfulness and possible fertility have more value than a man's looks have to a woman. While male looks are valuable, it's not the same as female looks. With the...
  14. G

    baggy pants on a woman

    Yeah, I've noticed Gen Z young men wearing baggy pants too. I don't even like to wear baggy pants as a guy. I once wore baggy pants (they were in style, for a guy at least, in my younger days). By the time I was halfway through high school, however, tighter pants came into style. My pants then...
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    Your thoughts on men hitting their stride with women and being f*ckboys after 30.

    There are certain general lessons I've learned through the years (don't act overly thirsty, for example). In the specific instance of the college classmate having me share a seat with her, I have no idea what I did wrong (so no idea what I could have done differently) As for the "eat what the...
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    The college hype is unreal, true players get how overrated it is.

    I was raised in a small town where many stay in the same small town for life. Even for those who leave, they typically stay within a 1 hour (maybe 2 hours tops) drive. Many people I went to high school with are currently married to each other. You're damn right that staying in the same area...
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    The college hype is unreal, true players get how overrated it is.

    Part of it could be the small pond vs big pond thing. A college, even a big one, is a small pond compared to the real world. A popular college football player obviously has a lot of social status at college parties. Unless he makes it to the NFL, however, he becomes a nobody after college.
  18. G

    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    I must say your assessment of me is all over the place. One minute you'll compliment the fact I've nailed 9 free partners (6 of which happened during college) in spite of everything working against me. Then the next minute, you'll tell me the fact I got all my college sex through tech methods...
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    Your thoughts on men hitting their stride with women and being f*ckboys after 30.

    From my observations in high school, the male students with bad boy tendencies were the high school peakers.
  20. G

    Your thoughts on men hitting their stride with women and being f*ckboys after 30.

    In college, a female classmate asked me for assistance in the computer lab. Rather than having me pull up a chair, she scooted over in her chair (and told me to share the seat with her). Sounds like a pretty sure sign she was into me. Yet a short bit later when I expressed interest in her...
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