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That's what sosuave is for. You can take yourself from the 50th percentile and put yourself in the 80th. In terms of success Talking to women is like learning sales. You get better as you get more experience and gain confidence in yourself. But you have to put in the work. Nobody is gonna...

It typically would not be enough at your height. Sometimes, there are outlier guys. Neil Strauss is a common example of a shorter guy (5'6") who turned himself into a master seducer by spending time with Mystery and other PUAs. Strauss is considered an outlier in the seduction community for his...

That is the better advice. In dating apps, the ideal positioning is to be an 85th-90th percentile + man. It's very difficult to get into that top 10-15% of men. Men who are more in the middle of the bell curve are better off spending them in more analog forms of meeting people where some of...

This analysis in all 3 of these quotes is all accurate. The dynamics of the sexual marketplace have changed from the sexual marketplace of the 1960s-1990s. Men who are Boomers and Gen X'ers who entered the market during this era would have a more difficult time comprehending what has changed in...

Busy is good. This is a numbers game and this only helps you. The bartender is never too busy to look you in the eye. They don’t know you need a drink if they’re not looking at you at some point. Stick with what I said. You have every right to lean into the bar, holding conversation with your...

I can do that, but one question. This is a big-ass college town. These bars are PACKED. It is ass to ass in these bars, all the time, and the bartenders are too busy to even look you in the eye. There is absolutely no sense of "presence" in these bars because it's just one massive mob. What...

I know plenty of spectrum in and over the top 10% money. A red pill view and game for a specky, usually doesn't play well. Understanding is ok, but ability to do it is not. Non specky will tell; just do it. Its like telling a cat to bark, and being sure that they did not try hard enough...

Coming back from yet another unsuccessful night extremely disappointed. I go to college with an uncountable number of beautiful women. And yet, every time I talk to one of them at a bar, I hold their attention for maybe a few seconds, or a minute. They're initially excited for me to come up to...

The exact estimates (as far as percentage) vary. It's a fact, however, a massive percentage of adults on the spectrum are either jobless or working low end jobs. Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, and Elon Musk are the exception; not the norm. In other words, my low income is typical for a man on...

I'll keep that in mind....maybe I should sign up for art classes at my nearby Community college or something.

Well-said (especially the part about socially awkward men coming across as creepy if we try to mimic a smooth alpha)

I agree that the dating landscape has changed, and for those seeking partners or FWB, having a strong internal foundation is still crucial regardless of the objective. This site can be helpful for members to avoid being discouraged in today’s dating environment and to learn how to have fun...

@Clockwerk50 @characternote Makes a really good point, which is people that are doing well with their dating lives, relationships, etc. will not be feeling the need to come on here. I guarantee you that the overwhelming majority of non-troll posters on here joined because they were having some...

I wrote an answer on Quora why it's not a good idea to refer to women as 'chicks'. And if you check the comments under the answer, you see that many women do not like to be called 'chicks' or 'babe'. And 'broads' is a term from fifties PI movies. You might as well show how antiquated you are by...

I remember the term chick was commonly used when I was in middle school through college. Not a whole lot anymore.

If getting tunnel vision about my next door neighbor is bad, wouldn't it be equally bad to get tunnel vision about the new girl? Besides, it doesn't have to be my next door neighbor. All I want is for my next free sex to be with a woman old enough for my liking. The new girl falls short by 20...

I have noticed that women can be strategic, cunning, and Machiavellian. Women are good at getting men to part with their money. OnlyFans women do that, strippers do that, and even breastaurant workers (Hooters, Twin Peaks, etc.) do it. While it seems that betas/simps fall prey to this most...

I'm risk-averse (in some ways) and lazy (in some ways); I totally admit it. But there's still the problem I mentioned where I failed to pick up (even after knowing these girls for several months) on the fact 2 of my female college classmates weren't open to getting hit on. The fact I came out...

Which is why it's insulting (to me) that the 2 girls from my freshman year college clique each dated 2 dudes from our clique (one of the dudes was even lucky enough to date both girls), yet never expressed anything more than platonic interest in me. And even of the 2 dudes in our clique who...

Your bitterness over this is really pathetic, reducing humans to clams and sausages. You could learn all the PUA tricks in the world, but with your attitude, I don't think you will get anyone LTR.