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I think you have to handle this before you deal with women at all. This is not normal, and I say this with respect.

Which brings us to yet another problem: I find it miserable to cross paths with a woman I got rejected by (I speak from experience. I've been in that position before. Never again. I was so glad when I graduated high school and college, as it meant I would never have to cross paths with a...

yeah, sometimes i have this mindset, if you're a guy, the world owes you nothing, but its the opposite for women. Just bringing this up because, i sadly came across some cases of guys, men, that just were angry and depressing reminders.

You may have more success pursuing schlong rather than beaver

The point is that in general, being worthy enough to get a hug is a necessary (but not sufficient) condition to intimacy. At the very least, if a chick hugs Adam but not Bob, it can be deduced that Bob will not get intimacy, whereas Adam might. Of course, this only applied to a particular...

I don't know for a fact he's a virgin. I just know I've never heard him mention getting laid, nor have I ever even heard of him having a girlfriend or going on a date. He used to make comments (back when he was in high school and college) about sex before marriage being immoral. Come to think...

Depends upon where a fella goes to uni, and also his mindset and behaviors while there. Just as the prison inmate who says to himself "This is an opportunity to hone my survivor reflexes" will bear up more hardily during his incarceration, the uni freshman who's eager to learn what his more...

Ok, even though I indicated on my last post that I generally agree it's easier to get a woman if you stay in the same place you were raised, I just thought of something: What about a guy like me who was known as the strange kid by the vast majority of my peers in my small town high school...

On that note (social circle helping you), my social circle in college was of no help. I even remember one guy from my college clique telling me I'd like sex if I gave it a try (I was 18, freshman, hadn't had sex yet...but I had never mentioned my v-card status to any of my college friends). So I...

Yeah that’s exactly what I’m getting at. My female friend either doesn’t hug me at all, or it’s an angled pat on the back one (FZ hug). Back when I took dance classes, there was one lady who would give me very firm hugs as a greeting and practically jammed her boobs into me. It was such a...

As I mentioned on my last post (in response to the question @corrector asked me), the 2 female friends from college would give me friend zone hugs. On this post, I'm going to address your comment about firm hugs. There have been broads in post-college years that have given me firmer hugs (one...

That is an interesting when you put it that way. I always thought if you got hugs it means that there is a high level of interest. What was the quality of the hug? Was it like a brief "friendship" type of hug, or was it a gropey type of hug where she'd let you fondle her a$$ if you wanted to...

It's better than nothing. :mad:

I've mentioned on this forum that I was in a sausage-heavy clique my freshman year of college (6 sausages, 2 clams) The 2 clams would hug me. Yet they never dated me or gave me sex. One of the clams gave sex to 2 different sausages in our clique (and the other clam, adamant about remaining a...

The game changes when you start looking old. I have a young face, but I'm bald and have greys in my beard. I can't pull college chicks like I once could. It's a sobering reality. Doesn't scare me, though. I'm not attracted to young women the way I used to be. I honestly prefer older women...

You got it although I will say looks are not that important. You will see relatively average looking dudes getting girls when they are in their teens. The circumstances you grow up in dictate 95% of your success with women before 22. In fact, I would say before 18 but you are still under the...

Stop blaming everyone and everything except the person who has no ambition. People who want to make it in life almost always do.

Good book. I have also read it. It was originally published in 2013 and is holding up well. In most USA cities, someone needs to live near the city center to position themselves well in the mating marketplace. There are certain neighborhoods that offer an advantage. Looks are still #1 but...

I get what you’re saying. I agree. If one hasn’t gotten female interest by, say, 22. one will have a tough road to hoe.

It's not the breaking of the V-card that is the make-or-break - it's that being able to get women at that age is a correlatative attribute with being able to get women after that, and so obviously, being an incel-tier man in later life correlates with having been incel-tier in the teenage years...