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    Has anyone tried dating in Silicon Valley?

    What kind of job will you be getting?
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    This question might sound weird to all you, but... What is UGLY?

    I've seen a lot of posts about how looks are important and people debating about it, etc... Excuse me, but, what exactly is ugly? Better yet, what do you guys think women find ugly in men? Is it the way our hair is cut? Too big of a nose? Ears are too big? Is it being overweight? Are we...
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    AWAY with spinning plates!

    If swapping spit = friendzone, then idk what isn't a friendzone. I do have options, I can approach any girls I find interesting, how did you think I met her? I don't spin plates. Personally, my school work, part-time job, sport, and friends take a lot of my time. One girl at a time for me is...
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    AWAY with spinning plates!

    I believe that spinning plates is fun, but like I said, I personally think it is only to treat the symptoms and not cure the disease of one-itis. Some people DO spin plates YET they STILL have one-itis for a certain girl.. So how do you explain this? Spinning plates does not really cure, does...
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    AWAY with spinning plates!

    We often hear that we must spin plates. The bootcamp advices us to have at least 10 active numbers. Men here have at least 3-5 women in rotation. If you're a real Don Juan, I argue, then you don't need to spin plates. Why? We must recognize the true purpose of spinning plates or having...
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    How to put a plate into the FB zone?

    So I've been spinning this plate that I thought was girlfriend material. She definitely is expecting to be exclusive, but... I do not like how she's been acting lately. She has this jealous personality and a bit insecure even though she's one of the hottest women I've been seeing recently. I...
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    So how do you approach a random stranger without being creepy?

    Don't think of it as being creepy. If you do, then the tone of your voice, body language, energy, etc. will emit creepiness and women and can see it. Also, "judge by her actions, not her words." So just because your friend says it's creepy it doesn't mean it is. I bet if a Don Juan does a cold...
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    What is a Don Juan? What is a Don Juan to you?

    Is a Don Juan nothing but a player? A man who spins multiple plates and gets laid a lot? Is that it? What if you don't spin plates and are only committed to one woman? Are you an AFC then?
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    Major AFC. I am so sick of getting hurt, it sucks.

    That is the truth man, you are right. But it's hard to turn it around especially because I've grown up this way. I'm also a f*cking loner now since I had moved from another state so it is extra hard for me since I don't really have friends to talk to.
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    Major AFC. I am so sick of getting hurt, it sucks.

    Right now I'm beginning to think that the woman I've been dating is losing interest in me. This isn't a new thing though. All of the ones I had liked either rejected me, or dated me and ended up cutting me loose. This sucks. It can really take a sh*t on your confidence and I hate when it keeps...
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    I'm curious about you guys, yeah you, Don Juans!

    What.. nobody man enough?
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    I'm curious about you guys, yeah you, Don Juans!

    How do you mostly get a date? Do you get a date through mutual friends? Classmates? Clubs? Work? Cold approaches? Also, during the day time, what is your favorite opener when initiating a conversation? What do you guys use? I was reading Cajun's interview and I really like the part when he...
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    Angelo's path to enlightenment... a long one.

    Jesus today wasn't as great as I thought it would be, matter of fact it was pretty bad lol. I went to Wal-Mart to practice, but didn't really got much out of it. I was at the office supplies section checking out some notebooks when this hot middle aged woman walked by and I immediately initiated...
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    Angelo's path to enlightenment... a long one.

    If you guys have any advice for me, then please, give them. I want to be the best I can be. This is fun, but sometimes it is hard to do it by myself. I need your support guys!
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    Angelo's path to enlightenment... a long one.

    So today I went to my college. I went straight to the cafeteria since that is where the girls are at during this time, it was around 11 am. While I was looking around for food I saw my 2 friends and decided to join them. While I was in line I noticed this blonde ( I f!cking love blondes) HB8...
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    Angelo's path to enlightenment... a long one.

    Yesterday, I went to my local college earlier than I usually do just so I can practice speaking with strangers, especially with women I'd consider dating. So I decided to go to the library since there are always HBs there being bored out of there mind and needing some entertainment. I...
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    Angelo's path to enlightenment... a long one.

    I have always had trouble with women, matter of fact I only had one girlfriend in my life so far, which I ended because she ended up being needy/crazy, but it was only short-term. I am not going to post the AFC things I've done in the past (high school) and how embarrassing they were, I will...
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    Gladiators!::Approach Anxiety Competition!

    Count me in!!!
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    Failed Failed Failed.. Help

    Thanks guys. And Fuglydude, I get what you're saying by being in elite shape, however I'm around 5'7" 150 lbs and I do hit the gym, but getting real jacked to the level of elite body takes a lot of time and dedication, we both know that it doesn't happen overnight. So I'm trying to work with...
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    Failed Failed Failed.. Help

    I've been saying Hi to attractive women this past week with just little problems. Maybe I should start talking to them just for the point of talking to them, no pressure and expectations, just to practice conversing... However, I am dating a woman that I really like and been getting action, but...
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