We often hear that we must spin plates. The bootcamp advices us to have at least 10 active numbers. Men here have at least 3-5 women in rotation. If you're a real Don Juan, I argue, then you don't need to spin plates. Why?
We must recognize the true purpose of spinning plates or having different women in rotation. It is to rid of the AFC disease of oneitis. Oneitis is a terrible virus that can strike down a poor AFC if he isn't careful, and if his immune system is weak, this virus will destroy a man's life.
I argue, that although spinning plates is a one good way of getting rid of this virus, it isn't the cure, it isn't the end solution. It is just a temporary fix that will ease the symptoms.
Let's look at it this way, the guy has oneitis so he approaches more women, get their numbers, set up dates, and close if they are lucky. Sounds fun, really fun. But there is another way of surviving oneitis and completely curing yourself from this virus so it can't ever enter your body again.
BE COMPLETELY HAPPY WITH YOURSELF!!
This is the only way, the only through way of getting over and curing oneitis.
Oneitis gives the woman a lot of power over you. Spinning plates, same thing, it ALSO GIVES women the power over you. The only way to be strong is to learn to be happy by yourself, with women or no women.
Pursue your goals. Start that business, work to get promoted, kick ass in school, improve in your sport, build stronger friendships, hit the gym, etc. WHATEVER! Do something that doesn't rely on women. Build your castle.
I argue that a true Don Juan never needs women. A true Don Juan does not spin plates just because "he has to." A true Don Juan can get any girl, but he does not have to waste his time spinning plates, his time is better spent building himself and growing.
"But I'm confused, what do you really mean Angelo?"
For example: I am in school trying to get my computer science degree, I'm also invested in Brazilian Jiu-jitsu and compete as much as I can, I also hit the gym at least 3 times a week, I also have a part-time job, and recently I took up Boxing. On top of that. I NEXTED this dumb broad, then approach another girl I thought was interesting, got her number, got a date this Friday assuming she does not flake.
See.. I am not spinning plates here, rather I date one women at a time. With my schedule I don't have time to waste on chasing tails. I'm perfectly happy getting dates with one girl and dating her until she does something stupid and I have to next her.
So away with spinning plates, and keep yourself busy! LEARN HOW TO BE HAPPY WITH THE THINGS YOU DO AND YOU WILL BE A BETTER MAN. A BETTER DON JUAN.
We must recognize the true purpose of spinning plates or having different women in rotation. It is to rid of the AFC disease of oneitis. Oneitis is a terrible virus that can strike down a poor AFC if he isn't careful, and if his immune system is weak, this virus will destroy a man's life.
I argue, that although spinning plates is a one good way of getting rid of this virus, it isn't the cure, it isn't the end solution. It is just a temporary fix that will ease the symptoms.
Let's look at it this way, the guy has oneitis so he approaches more women, get their numbers, set up dates, and close if they are lucky. Sounds fun, really fun. But there is another way of surviving oneitis and completely curing yourself from this virus so it can't ever enter your body again.
BE COMPLETELY HAPPY WITH YOURSELF!!
This is the only way, the only through way of getting over and curing oneitis.
Oneitis gives the woman a lot of power over you. Spinning plates, same thing, it ALSO GIVES women the power over you. The only way to be strong is to learn to be happy by yourself, with women or no women.
Pursue your goals. Start that business, work to get promoted, kick ass in school, improve in your sport, build stronger friendships, hit the gym, etc. WHATEVER! Do something that doesn't rely on women. Build your castle.
I argue that a true Don Juan never needs women. A true Don Juan does not spin plates just because "he has to." A true Don Juan can get any girl, but he does not have to waste his time spinning plates, his time is better spent building himself and growing.
"But I'm confused, what do you really mean Angelo?"
For example: I am in school trying to get my computer science degree, I'm also invested in Brazilian Jiu-jitsu and compete as much as I can, I also hit the gym at least 3 times a week, I also have a part-time job, and recently I took up Boxing. On top of that. I NEXTED this dumb broad, then approach another girl I thought was interesting, got her number, got a date this Friday assuming she does not flake.
See.. I am not spinning plates here, rather I date one women at a time. With my schedule I don't have time to waste on chasing tails. I'm perfectly happy getting dates with one girl and dating her until she does something stupid and I have to next her.
So away with spinning plates, and keep yourself busy! LEARN HOW TO BE HAPPY WITH THE THINGS YOU DO AND YOU WILL BE A BETTER MAN. A BETTER DON JUAN.