I haven't asked her though. But what if ignoring her is the wrong decision? What if for once, someone goes against the norm? And sporadic, no. This has been the first time she's been like this, the rest she's most of the time replied quickly, give or take if she's been on facebook at the time or...
Thanks, tends to be me all over that, I make a rough job but have to work on some bits.
Was it "try hard" because I overdid it? I've tried to lower the ****y side, use it very sparingly and just be myself, making it interesting of course. Not saying I'm uninteresting naturally :up:
Two...
Okay guys, you were right about waiting. Two days later, no reply. Tweeting a few things on my phone, then I get a pop up from a text message with her name saying ':)' so I was right to trust my instinct and assume she was still slightly interested. She could have just left it and carried on...
I get your point, but last week things were going fine. It's until I started acting a bit too ****y and she said "Is that what you'd prefer? Because you seem to be making everything difficult lately, you've got dead ****y!"
The thing is, it isn't what I prefer and she was fine until I acted...
Either way I'm useless at this. Hardly get female attention as it is and when I do I end up wrecking it. She still didn't respond anyway but continued to update her Twitter.
So i'm gonna leave it until after the weekend and tell her straight that I don't want to play games with her, be straight...
Screw it I did, asked what she got up to last weekend. Got to take a risk and not play games now, hoping it isn't too late.
Hoping things get back to how they were and she doesn't see me as immature etc like you all said, then i'll arrange to see her.
I would have earlier but the problem was getting her to be confident to meet earlier on. She told me at the start she wanted to make sure she got used to me over text/calls first.
Btw, I sent her that "Maybe" reply but I think it was the wrong idea. 10 minutes after she saw it her tweet was...
A very good post, thanks. When you say I'm not flirting/seducing her, what are the things I should be doing in that department? Because sometimes I feel I am, but others disagree. Before these conversations, I've asked her how her weekend was, complimented her, etc without going overboard.
Actually, I need to open my eyes more..
She even says "God knows with you". Thing is, I do want to be a challenge but to stop playing games with her. I do fear being straightforward with her though. There's rapport there going off previous conversations, just hope it hasn't gone now.
So should I just get asking personal things? (without it being like an interrogation).
Best to ask to meet up soon? I only want to do that when I know she isn't being short with me.
From what I noticed from my two conversations, she seems to want me to be upfront with her. She even mentioned I...
Yeah, like my last reply I may leave it and see if she's keen enough to get my attention again.
I'm not doing the date thing though, I'll come across as trying too hard to make her jealous, especially in that way.
I'll go along with the "maybe" reply and leave it for a while. Even considering just forgetting about it and see if she initiates some sort of contact be it twitter/facebook, etc then fair enough.
We've spoken on the phone also, probably the closest contact we have had.
How should I reply to "behave", I was thinking something like "haha", "yeah", or "okay" but not too sure, something short like you said. Best idea?
I see a good point there though. If I keep pushing sentences and getting a word or two back, it makes me look more eager and she'll expect me to...
ME - Try to read this and not think of me
HER - Try to read this and not think of me :)
ME - Looks like we're both thinking the same thing
HER - which is..?
ME - That you ended up thinking about me when you read my message ;)
HER - and you ended up thinking about you aswell? or me..?
ME - That'd...
Been flirting with a girl, haven't met her but we've spent a while being 'penpals' of sort, she had been reacting playfully too, messaging on Facebook.
Earlier in the month, I wrote a tweet saying "But taylor swift woulda been up there for me though #fit" and she replied "i'd be #1 obv :)"...
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