Been out with this girl once and she showed me all the positive signs and been lighting my phone up this week. I've reached out the odd time but she's mostly been reaching out (75% of the time) with very detailed fun texts, emoji's, keeps the texting going, etc. We have a second date arranged...
She did contact me first today though, in fact she sent me three texts in a row which would suggest interest to some degree, just my problem was sending her that text because we both sent ours at the same time, she might have missed it because she's been quite overly eager these past two weeks...
Ok, should I just go to the place/time still because she might have read it and understood but not replied.
Honestly tomorrow i'm considering sending "see you tonight" or "wear something cute tonight", that first one is a line i've used before both dates with her and confirmed whether she might...
I've told her to meet me at the same place for 7 though, so I have lead with my plans. My problem right now is that I texted her those plans today when I had rubbish phone signal and as it was sending she sent me a text, so i'm unsure she saw it with the lack of a response.
And we've had two...
I see what you're saying, but do I still go to arranged place at arranged time tomorrow? Because if she ended up not receiving the text, don't want her thinking i'm ignoring
The text I got off her last night was "i'm going to start killing drunk people in 3,2,1..."
I replied at midday today to confirm my time on the rota, turns out I am off Sunday. My reply was "Didn't have you down as the naughty type... I'm off tomorrow so i'll see you at 7 at the same place"...
She's just initiated text now but i'm about to go sleep anyway. I think i'll only initate with her to set up a date, but what if we have one set and she tries texting inbetween?
Part of me was 50/50 writing the cuddle bit, so i'll keep it in mind not to write stuff like that too early on. No doubt i'll be working until 10pm on Sunday though, manager likes to keep us until then on that day to get stuff done. I'll have to re-arrange.
Text her last night, she was working late but replied. I'll include timestamps.
[23:33] girl - Today?? Haha I put the christmas tree and I'm working until late
[00:05] me - I'll send my midget ninjas to steal your tree then. If you're feeling better, I'd like to show you my famous bowling...
To be honest, we were nowhere near her place and I don't want to think i'm using her for quick sex, if it happens then it will. But no doubt you're right, she most likely is flaking on me, something I should be used to by now.
Before I sent her "I wonder what mischief you've been up to today" and she's just replied "Today?? Haha I put up the christmas tree and working until late".
I've sent one back joking about something she's said and asked when she's next free to get together.
Does anyone think her responses are...
Would two days after cancelling to set up a date be too soon? Was thinking to be direct, because I don't want to waste much time with idle chatter, rather see her face to face.
Sent her a text at midday today saying "Hope that you're feeling better. Doctor (my name) suggests drinking ten cups of tea, cuddles and a smile".
She replied three minutes later with "I'm feeling better, thank you :D Oh yes, I need some cuddles!"
Two hours later, as I was working, I sent her...
Thank you for the helpful advice.
I plan to drop her a message tomorrow to see how she's feeling with her fever, but I won't make it a conversation unless she makes it one with a question.
You're right though, if she is interested then I can't see her not initiating again.
Good point.. I guess because it has been two dates I didn't want to move two fast but i've noticed her english is fairly good although she does mix up a few words, wasn't wanting to misinterpret her either.
Should I text her tomorrow checking in on her and how she is feeling?
I met this Spanish girl on an online dating website and we've had two dates, in which she has shown plenty of IOIs like touching, laughing at my bad jokes, asking me questions and getting very close to me in the cinema.
After both dates she has contacted me as normal, we've teased one another...
She's someone i've been in contact with for quite a while, no idea why. Just started off friendly and then got flirty, until now anyway with overusing the technique.
Today we had a normal conversation, it came out naturally and more witty rather than thinking too hard on what to say.
Thing...
How come no smilies? Need explanation on that bit, because in person I wouldn't act emotionless like a robot. I've used smilies briefly before to girls prior to being in relationships with.
Yeah, I am too wordy. I know that really I should be matching her level of interest such as matching...
I never depended on advice at first, i've been myself until recently. I wouldn't be over-analysing everything in person, I've had girlfriends before and relationships have worked out, I've just been too reliant on other people's advice of late.
So do you mean I shouldn't dally about and just...
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