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    hypothetical Birthday wish

    Back story I have an ex-Oneitus I posted about it a while back. I'm pretty much over it but not completely. I have a birthday coming up soon an she may or may not contact me. If given the opportunity I'd like to pump and dump an slip it in the upper deck. So hypothetically if she contacts me my...
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    Chili's

    Yeah bartenders and the like are in the hospitality industry so they always seem to be flirting. Its kind of their job and kind of their quest for attention. In my view they are kind of nightmares for LTR'S if that's what your looking for. If you really think they are into you and your...
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    Divorced man carries sign and protests marriage on road.

    I was not talking about you specifically more in general terms. In reality you are both putting up with each other's crap from time to time in a LTR has been my experience. I was just trying to make a point that there were and are times and moments in my life where I don't even like myself so...
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    Divorced man carries sign and protests marriage on road.

    Truer words have never been spoken. I was talking with an honest female friend a few weeks ago about marriage. She was raging on about how someday she will have her Disney wedding etc.. even though she is in her mid 40s non desirable and single. I told her I would never be getting married. She...
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    Let's face it, the only way your going to meet quality chicks....

    Work is a sketchy proposition the older you get. I don't have to worry about it anymore since I work for myself now. But the older the women the more litigious they get it seems and no one wants a sexual harassment lawsuit from HR. Network of friends is always a good one for me. Also if your...
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    A tricky situation [Quick Advice please]

    Yeah if you focus to much on the facts and negative aspects of women and life in general, you will be living the Howard Hughes life. And not the dashing playboy lifestyle but the stuck living in a hotel room shying away from human contact paranoid life. Over analysis leads to paralysis...
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    Got a female perspective of online dating and realistic expectations

    Crazy I saw 4 or 5 women I knew online dating and they all still have their accounts. They will be the cat lady's of the future here in a few years at this rate.
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    How would you proceed?

    I would not next her coldly just next her and keep her as a bottom bivch. I have one like that that over the years I have banged her a handful of times and I do not invest much in her at all. She swings around about 3 times a year and I fit it in when I can.
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    Depression & Frustration--Must Read

    A man can dream can't he, oh now your taking our dreams away :)
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    Even elite Playboy centerfold models hit the wall

    Come on don't be fooled by the hype. If you bumped into any of them at the supermarket they would all look like grandmas. Except for maybe the black one since most beautiful black women seem to age better. They were all airbrushed, photoshopped, lighting and makeup used to hide Crows feet...
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    Depression & Frustration--Must Read

    Yeah you can only invest so much time and money in plates before it becomes a bad investment. I'll clip them and not bat an eye lid.
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    A tricky situation [Quick Advice please]

    Nothing trickey about it , you blew it. I did something similar to that when I was younger with an older lady. I basically made her feel like a piece of meat. On to the next one
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    How long has it been for you?

    I try to have a bless your heart approach to red flags myself. If it's to good to be true it usually is and if you start believing the hype that you built her up to on a pedestal then get ready for weeks, months and or years of depression in your future over something you built a person into in...
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    essay: I’m Interested In You. That Doesn’t Mean I’m Trying To Have Sex With You.

    Yep for some reason most women believe the hype that is sold to them on tv, media and magazines etc..some men to. Then if and when they realize the reality of life is not a soap opera or reality tv show it's to late for them because their looks have left them and they have nothing else to offer...
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    How long has it been for you?

    Since I was unaware of red flags so 25 years ago. I'm sure we have red flags ourselves but I have not seen a woman alive who had less than 3 red flags. For me I just hang out with them till I can't deal with their red flags or I find one with less red flags.
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    essay: I’m Interested In You. That Doesn’t Mean I’m Trying To Have Sex With You.

    Some girls make out with their girl friends. In this hookup culture making out is not really a sign that a woman has a high IL or likes you. I've slept with women who left soon after so some women will sleep with you with a low IL. In my view you can't trust words only actions. I've had women do...
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    To the guys thinking about marriage

    There are those rare finds but for the most part I agree with you 100%
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    To the guys thinking about marriage

    It's such a toss up now a days mentally. I went out with a 41 year old weeks back who was mentally like a teenager. It's kind of a big let down when you see one you gel with acting like a little girl. Then another one 43 playing the same games. If I wanted a little girl I'd be dating one. Yeah...
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    Why do females remain "friends" w/ past lovers?

    Yup that's text book, maybe in the future I heard that a few times over the years. That's their way of letting you down easy. You only put stock in that one time before you learn the deal.
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