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Yeah but in the grand scheme of things I'm sure she's better off with her high school sweetheart and her low interest level in him than being alone and a cat lady. So I don't see it as a waste of time. That's something I find funny sometimes. I take most not all of the advice on this board as...

Yeah if I responded and she try's to lead it towards friendship instead of a physical relationship. I would cut her off completely again. Right now as it stands where we left off I told her that I was starting to think of her as more than a friend. Told her to only contact me if she started...

The only way I see your friend finding a man with her approach is the friend route. I have had a few women in my past that were friends on and off for years then we started dating and when it's over I stayed friends with them as much as a man can be friends with a woman. In my opinion it's a...

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How many drinks are the magic number for you? How many drinks for her? Of course some of you do not drink and some of you younger and older guys may drink like a fish. I was out with this somewhat composed 25 year old 2nd date. By the time she had 5 drinks a few hours in I paid up and split...

50/50 perfect advice but you better be willing to walk away forever because if her interest level is low she ain't coming back. The video makes it look like she will be back in 10 minutes the truth is if she ever comes back it's after she takes a few rides on the caulk carousel and that could...

Sounds like you have a captain save a hoe mentally or a save all the animals mindset and that's not a bad thing for humanity or a knock on you it's just an internet observation. That is not a position I would ever put myself in personally. Since I know the sad fact is no one can save a woman...

70k a year is a fortune in the suburbs, or just above the poverty level in some big city's depending on lifestyle and where you live now a days. I'm sure it happens all the time but I don't know any LTR'S over 7 years where the woman makes the Lyon share of the money.

You would have to be setting your bar low if you got tricked by Chelsea Manning. I could see it happening with some of the Asian and Latin ones and some black one. But the white ones are almost always a dead give away with the voice or hands. I would have to put prison sex on that anger list as...

Yeah the only way I could justify that is some sort of religious views. Or she's a virgin either of which I try to steer clear of those. But your average American 41 year old female in a big city that has not put out by then it's either you have not escalated or she's not interested. Keep in...

You did not miss anything your not a private eye nobody has time for that. You just came across a dishonorable dishonest human being and there is such a high percentage of them out there that its bound to happen again. As long as you stand firm this to shall pass.

I think your going to get the spin plates speech from most on here and I would agree to some extent. Unless your in a place where you want to or need to go into monk mode to work on yourself or something. Sounds like she's looking for a friend on a leash not a relationship. Women in their 40s...

Amen that's what I planned on doing. Thanks for the mental reinforcement. I'm pretty sure she is going to go for the standard happy birthday, Bs small talk how are you doing and that's not going to cut it with me.

I don't want to be the fly in the ointment but have any of you ever worked with millennials. I worked for a fortune 100 company a few years back and with numerous millennials and there were fewer than a handful that were worth a dam. It's like the lot of them were on the spectrum and I'm not...

On the planet where 80 % of women are lamer than that statement. It's worked for me before that's just the opener to get them over not for the close. For me it really doesn't matter what is said to her as long as it's one step above her head it will work like hypnotizing chickens. Your telling...

Yeah some of these women can be heartless. I have been in a few situations where the woman who I picked up and was banging had guys come by crying literally crying and banging at the door while I was up in her. I'm like who's that you said you were single? I am single ! Well that guy banging at...

Yep to soon so that's two for continued no contact. When I started out I thought long and hard about walking away before I did and when I did it was forever. Unless she wanted to turn it into a relationship or at the least FWB. But the more time that passes the less I would want either of...

Dam you think so ? I got her erased from everything just not blocked so if she voicemails or texts me unfortunately I remember the first 3 digits of her number so at least I'll know if she caved if she calls. Yeah I have been reframing, working out eating rite and focusing on work and a few...