How would you proceed?

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30 year old woman invites you out for a drink. All social media pics very provocative. Invites out for a drink after telling her that I wanna take some pics of her, she accepts. The convo online escalates to complete porn, but then when I tell her "Shall we meet tonight?", she just leaves it "seen" LOL
 

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She didn't get the pics yet. Or you mean she got what she wanted with escalation?
 

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She didn't get the pics yet. Or you mean she got what she wanted with escalation?
She got the attention she was looking for.

How to proceed? You proceed with the next girl. This one is looking for attention. Not a date.
 

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My first thought was "next right away", but you know, sometimes you want a couple of other minds to tell you "yes, do it, son".
 

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My first thought was "next right away", but you know, sometimes you want a couple of other minds to tell you "yes, do it, son".
I find when chicks like this are obvious attention *****es , don't give them what they are looking for. Don't feed the beast.
 

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I find when chicks like this are obvious attention *****es , don't give them what they are looking for. Don't feed the beast.
Here's the thing: as I told you, I know exactly what she was doing, but damn, are these women weird LOL to have a 30 year old woman tell you she's gushing wet and tell you "I will suck you dry, you be convinced of that" to then just disappear...you know what I am talkin' about. But whatever, not that I am fixating over her, I will just next her coldly and it's all OK.
 

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Here's the thing: as I told you, I know exactly what she was doing, but damn, are these women weird LOL to have a 30 year old woman tell you she's gushing wet and tell you "I will suck you dry, you be convinced of that" to then just disappear...you know what I am talkin' about. But whatever, not that I am fixating over her, I will just next her coldly and it's all OK.
Yes girls normally act like this in their 20s and mature in their 30s. However in her case, the pics on social media and such behaviour tells me she is using her 30s as over time for her 20s. She obvious still has some sexual market value and knows it and is displaying it with a huge ego.

You are doing the right thing by nexting her. Bring her ego down a peg or 2
 

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Yes girls normally act like this in their 20s and mature in their 30s. However in her case, the pics on social media and such behaviour tells me she is using her 30s as over time for her 20s. She obvious still has some sexual market value and knows it and is displaying it with a huge ego.

You are doing the right thing by nexting her. Bring her ego down a peg or 2
Unless she asks to come to my place or asks me to go to hers, I ain't even responding to any future messages she might send.
 

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Unless she asks to come to my place or asks me to go to hers, I ain't even responding to any future messages she might send.
Why not? You can't get butt hurt about this stuff. You got other plates right?
You just hit her up in a week like nothing ever happend. You know how many chicks have flaked on me and because I didn't get all butt hurt I banged them in the future?

We teach men here to next way too fast.
 

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It's not about the sex, man. I don't suffer to have sex. It's not like my tongue is stickin' out lookin for sex. Sex, to me, is not the do all, be all of this world. I wanna have a nice communication, one that flows. If you tell me you're gushing wet for me to just ghost me then, you're probably just an attention ***** and a fake person, too. This woman probably is a freak. I ain't got time for **** like that.
 

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She a hoe. Is 'no go' for me.
 
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Here's the thing: as I told you, I know exactly what she was doing, but damn, are these women weird LOL to have a 30 year old woman tell you she's gushing wet and tell you "I will suck you dry, you be convinced of that" to then just disappear...you know what I am talkin' about. But whatever, not that I am fixating over her, I will just next her coldly and it's all OK.

I would not next her coldly just next her and keep her as a bottom bivch. I have one like that that over the years I have banged her a handful of times and I do not invest much in her at all. She swings around about 3 times a year and I fit it in when I can.
 

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Why not? You can't get butt hurt about this stuff. You got other plates right?
You just hit her up in a week like nothing ever happend. You know how many chicks have flaked on me and because I didn't get all butt hurt I banged them in the future?

We teach men here to next way too fast.
sounds like a complete waste of time. wasting time on a lost cause is for when you have no other options at the moment
 
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