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    How to change while staying myself?

    People already notice, but I'm slightly afraid that I'm getting a little bit self-delusional about this. I need little more time. As I've said, I didn't really do much to get girls and I'm still thinking about one girl who's just my type. It's not like I think I love her or anything, but damn...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    I came back to school after another break and I must say I really enjoy myself right now. I managed to develop a care-free and positive attitude, almost like Oddball from "Kelly's Heroes" (watch this movie if you haven't). I'm not sure if people like me more, but I definitely feel this way. At...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    I didn't write anything here because I didn't really anything notable. I worked out and freestyled with my friend (I LOVE that), but other than that, I didn't really do anything interesting. That was until today, when I went to my friend's house party and vodka started to work its magic. It's...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    Seventh day without masturbation. Life without jerking off isn't that terrible, but I do have very strong urge sometimes. I called a chick from my class who always seemed to be into me. I always ignored her, but I decided that if she likes me, why shouldn't I at least spend some time with her...
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    How to STOP Cave Dwelling?

    I'm not sure if you'll want to listen to my advice since I'm just a recovering 18-year old AFC, but I managed to make myself work out but I'll tell you what worked for me: I asked my friends for help. If you know someone who works out a lot, ask him if you can join him. If he is your good...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    You may be right, but I think becoming confident is like learning to walk. Walking is easy and natural, but when you were learning to do it, you had to put a lot of effort. Now imagine someone who didn't even try to walk properly for 18 years. Don't misunderstand me, I learned to walk on two...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    I loved winter break. I didn't go out a lot because of crappy weather, but I worked out a lot, lost two pounds, then gained one back, but most importantly I relaxed and gained some confidence. However, when I came back to school, a lot of bad stuff came back. People from my class still...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    I went to a bar today. Not a lot of people came and there was supposed to be karaoke (there weren't), but I approached some girls I didn't even know and then two girls I knew a lot time ago but haven't talked to for like 4 years, and you know what? It was great! Neither of them were really...
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    New years resolutions

    JerryFl08, don't work out alone! I am just as lazy as you, but I work out regularly, because I always do it with my friends who sometimes just force me to get my ass from couch. Find someone to motivate you if you can't do it on your own. However, you also need to try motivating yourself, even...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    I actually humiliated myself few times too many and I wouldn't say it is a good thing. I actually sort of made it a habit. I'm not sure it is good - few humiliations were actually fun (I can't prevent myself from wild dancing anytime I hear some cheesy song from 70s or 80s and I don't even have...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    I actually worked on that, because I got up very early today : o. Actually I have written all that I wanted to write, but I can't really DO anything that will help me meet girls, because you know, it's christmas and I will spend time with family.
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    How to change while staying myself?

    I hope that it'll have great time! I often go out, but I usually go with the same people and don't anyone new or just use going out just as an opportunity to get drunk. Two months ago, I went to disco and it was absolute disaster. I approached all the girls I knew to make them dance with me...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    Jack Wealthy, actually I have realized that I'm not smarter than my friends a long time ago. I think that intelligent person is someone that can solve problems, and I'm not very good at that. It's just that since I'm interested in more than just trivial stuff. I've said that in junior high I've...
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    My post doesn't get published

    Hey, I have written a long post and i I can't get it published! I didn't find any help in FAQ and I can't even find out who is the administrator here. I have censored all the swear words and I tried to publish in two parts to make it shorter.
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    How to change while staying myself?

    Jack Wealthy, actually I have realized that I'm not smarter than my friends a long time ago. I think that intelligent person is someone that can solve problems, and I'm not very good at that. It's just that since I'm interested in more than just trivial stuff. I've said that in junior high I've...
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    How to change while staying myself?

    Hey guys, as you can see from my nickname, I'm a guy with a problem. In fact, I have A LOT of problems and none of them are big - it's just that somehow even small problems somehow become big for me. I'm a 18 years old guy from small town in Poland. Since I remember, I always been the...
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