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Good job closing and getting the number, but only time will tell where this goes. The problem with talking on AIM is that it's like wasting time on the phone. You want your communication to be on the date so that she anticipates your time together and you are more of a challenge. So don't IM...

If any of you have ever been to www.heartless*****es.com and read their nice guys rant , you will notice an interesting take on the whole deal. The author of one of the articles says that Nice Guys are actually manipulative *******s who disingenuously get into platonic friendships just because...

So I was reading a slashdot style blog at www.plastic.com , where people post stories and links and then a forum discusses the topic. Somebody wrote up a story about an article on www.heartless*****es.com called "Nice guys--blech!" That was the beginning. I was extremely frustrated with...

I've gotten it once.

I would say there's a good chance you delivered it wrong, especially your tone of voice and body language (didn't see you smile while you said it?). Otherwise, she could be insecure or just uptight, two qualities that are big turnoff for me. I know personally that I can at least laugh about my...

She has to want to save the marriage, remember? Marriage counseling is great, but it won't work if she's completely lost interest, nor will all the self-help books in the world. Give those options a try, but if she's hardened herself then it may just be too late.

You shouldn't have gotten yourself into a position where you were occasionally bugging her about hanging out with her ex. Expressing jealousy makes you look fearful, and DJ's are not fearful, but they aren't morons either who let themselves get played. You should have made a decision more...

If a chick is crunked (whether through substances or just being caught up in the moment) up at a club she'll give you all sorts of false signals, which is why I'm never shocked when they give you the run around later on.

Women never forget, so the odds are pretty damn slim.

This is a pretty common occurance man. Let's assume you didn't make any errors between when you got her number and when you set up the date. The only real reason then is that she didn't know how to say no to you when you tried to get her number. She's a flirt and a high-interest faker. There...

I agree with therisingson. Watch out for these types of girls. I'm serious. Most girls I've run into with a majority of male friends hypocritically complain about drama while being a source of it themselves. They can't get along reasonably well with women, unlike most women. They are...

How do you know this girl was interested in him? Did he hook up with her, or was that just a nervous smile?

swish the mouthwash. Next time you take her out, kiss her. I don't recommend you "Head to her house, call her out, grab her and give her the best kiss she's ever had" as your first kiss. You could scare her man if you come off as too aggressive. Some guy posted a thread about that in the...

Bah! Sometimes the best way to get a woman to change her mind is to agree with her. Stop touching her in public completely, and odds are she will find little ways to touch you once in a while. Lots of women get uncomfortable in many situations when you touch them, but will touch you whenever...

First of all, why are you bull****ting with her on the phone? Why don't you talk to her on actual dates? Call her in a few days, set up a date, then get the hell off. It should be five minutes max.

Last year, when I was a senior in highschool, I went to prom with this average looking chick b/c honestly I was just beginning my transformation from AFC. She was nuts about me, but I didn't return the sentiment. She didn't care (or at least didn't show it) when we both split up and hung out...

The United States of America dude. The drinking age is 21 pretty much everywhere. I'm gonna take her out to this ice cream place I think. She just called me and told me that she can only stay out a couple hours tonight anyway.

yeah call her two or three days after she was supposed to get back.

yeah that might work for a bit but her flakiness will ultimately make you next her.

I've been in a situation like that. A girl rejects you as far as dating goes, then throws a fit when you don't want to be friends, telling you how much you mean to her. So you're good friends for a while and then she finds another dude and gradually backs away from you, eventually blowing you...