First Date - Heavy Kissing - She left for 2 Weeks - what to do?

SirMFD

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Hi DJ's!
I got the Number from this very beautiful girl and wrote her 4-5 days later if she had time on wednesday. She wrote back no she has to leave to honduras for two weeks. If I could see her tonight. I had to work but told her afterwards I'd call her and we'll see. I met with some friends and she told me she is coming to the bar I am staying. We had a very interessant conversation and connected extremely well. Everything worked great.

Then I got a phonecall from my father at about one o'clock in the night. He told me about a familiydesaster and I was completely destroyed. I talked to a good friend of mine for about one hour outside of the bar till I got myself together again. I thought great this evening is screwed. But she really managed to cheer me up. I brought her home and on the way we laughed all the time. She showed high interesst and we tried everything to not get to her door so that the evening would last a little longer. That was 4:30 in the morning I guess. But finally we arrived and after some few spoken words I kissed her and at 5 o'clock I still kissed her. I guess she wanted that I come upstairs with her but I had to work at 8 in the morning and my mental state wasn't very secure because of the things I heard from my father.
My cousine from france got violated and lays in hospital after a suicide try. So please excuse all you DJ's out there that I missed this situation.

She asked if we are allready saying good bye and I sayed it isn't fair that she is leaving for 2 weeks. She ment she will be thinking a lot of me and that she is looking forward to see me when she returns. So I gave her another kiss and than she wanted to know if I am going home. I sayed: I am tired, I have to get up in 2 hours and tomorrow is an important day but no I think I say hello to my girlfriend at her place. We laughed and then the final kiss and I left.

So the last two weeks were very hard. I had 3 other dates and made out with 2 of them but I missed her very much. Every morning I counted the days till she returns.
So she should have came back the first of June. I thought it is normal that the one calls who was away but no word from her. I think I even told her she should call me when she returned. But I am not sure anymore.

So please guys help me. Is it a good sign that we kissed allready on the first date? Should I call her or wait some more days? And if she still didn't call should I do it? And when we date again where should I meet her and how should I handle the situation. I think I am really into this girl even if I don't know her very much so I really would apreciate your help

Thank you all!
MFD
 

DankNuggs

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if you have her number, give her a call to check up on her....
 

rjherche

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yeah call her two or three days after she was supposed to get back.
 

NewMan

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Use this two weeks to go find other chicks, that way you won't be obsessing over this one.

Seriously - do you need us to tell you what to do?

Have you read the DJ bible?

So in summary:

1) Keep looking for chicks and having fun.
2) Don't email or call while she's away for 2 weeks.
3) Don't call her when she comes back - she'll call you.
 

FratAndDiddy

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call her and remind her she's back.
sounds like you are approaching this with your tongue hanging out, so be careful you don't trip over it.
 

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if she doesnt call you till friday 6 7 afternoon give her a buzz and meet her up in a bar and catch up on things....

trust homei
i ve been in that situation

peace good luck
 

SirMFD

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OK Thank you guys. So I'll call her tonight. Spontaniously if she wants to meet saturday afternoon cause at the moment I am kind of busy. I'll try to stay cool and keep the next date kind of relaxed to see what she is up to. What do you think?
 
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