If u are good looking, muscular, social and funny girls will come to u. Mine almost raped me and i didn't do anything to get her. Her friends want me too, maybe i let them borrow me. I used to be afc but slowly got my sh1t together. Be the man Pook used to talk about and women will come to u and...
HB: so, how old r u?
DJ15: old enough to handle u my darling (or sth c&f & avoiding)
HB: hah, really, how old r u?
DJ15: i'm actually 35. i'm very well preserved, u can thank my good genes :7 <change topic here>
later..
DJ15: i've always loved a bit older girls. when i was 13 i used to...
first congratz, i read u r only 15 yrs but seem to have very good understanding of this stuff (not that this is rocket science).
the first question that arises is that can u also keep up this c&f persona face to face?
it's obvious that u use lot's of canned material from DYD and Swinggcat...
c&f is a great way to start but you must tone down that sh1t and get some rapport too! another thing is that u didn't say anything in ur messages that would add ur value but u still qualify them hard. no wonder girls get fed up with that bs, they will think "who the **** he thinks he is"...
There isn't some one liner to start interesting convo, it all depends on the situation. I'm situationally relevant. That's the key. Then I have major topics where I can direct the conversation into and make it good. It's just process of vibing between topics and good stories you have.
Don't...
Here's how to stop playing games (and how i did stop):
-understand that they don't have anything to give you, they have no value. You want to develop yourself as a person and video games can only mess up your head.
-commit yourself to quitting. it's not "i can reward myself with a game or...
"HB: Is this how you always pick-up women?"
-->"*Look at her like she's not getting it* YES! You got it! This is how I always pick-up women!"
Drop that and move to some topic.
Don't try to defend yourself from her accuses, it makes you look weak.
"HB: Are you always like this?"...
Man.. You sound like your life is already over. Stop thinking that. Stop saying that. Stop that. You realize what are you problems and you have found this site so you don't have to deal them alone. But man.. stop that negativity thing. :trouble:
I don't know your situation so I can't offer...
So, weak personality = appearing nervous? The fix should be easy, just relax.
U seem to describe properties which are part of outer-game:
-wrong bodylanguage
-too soft voice
-weak eye contact
These are all things that can be fixed rather easily. It takes some time and someone has to...
I think u refer to this comment when u say there's "no real distinction in her mind between approaching (to get a date, i.e. sexually - not platonically) and "hitting""
[What about having something INTERESTING to talk about? Here's a novel concept: What about NOT seeing women as sex objects...
ummm.. it sounded like the girl was trying to get some wisdom into young man's skull.
it says: "Don't HIT on total strangers. It's creepy." Don't >>HIT<< not don't APPROACH. The image of this nice guy is very clear. He tries to force some weak rapport and then his motivation is to jump into...
are u serius??
she asked where u live and what kind of music u listen? wow, she must be all over u.
i'd say forget about her.
but here's one suggestion what u can do:
1. befriend these other guys flirting her. vibe with them. she must first perceive ur value equal or higher than these other...
It's more about the guy having zero value to offer these hot chicks, that is what this b!tch implies. Why the hell would ugly b!tch tell a guy go and make urself more interesting? Guys who are interesting score hotter girls. Then she says go to develop yourself, make urself more interesting...
The mindset and motive behind that nice guy disgusts this b!tch who did that reply.
It is creepy for any girl to know that this guy only wants to **** her, and besides, he has nothing to game her with. He is not being suave and the interaction lacks all the good VIBE. Girls love to be ****ed...
Hmmm.. actually i have done this to some extend.
I found that dreams and LD:s are best for testing the frame I have. The way you handle the actions of dream characters can tell you how strong your frame is. But you can hardly advance your game in any manner because it's not pushing the...
You might already be doing this on some level. But those of you guys who think yourself as overly serious at times listen up.
Remember Pook’s great post of three keys to DJ? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16417
Keys are:
1) Her sexuality and YOURS shall be...
I started with DYD material, it's good but I found it didn't explain how to have the good rapport with girl. It's more about breaking it with c&f, push&pull and other techniques. But you cannot keep breaking rapport if there's not ways to get it back.
So, I had to complete the DYD material...
hilarious :D
I didn't like this part - ejecting with a neg (unless she really got something in her teeth of course :P). They had their b1tch shields up and a simple frame could have opened them.
How about this:
HB9.5: Can you leave us alone please?
:: Sure, I let u girls have some...
i want to point out that mirroring the woman's body language isn't effective. women use usually more closed BL and lean in.. it's not good.. not in seduction. i'm not going to elaborate now but consider taking it off from ur game and concentrate in taking the most relaxed and open position with...
With writing you will change yourself bit by bit
Good stuff Double. Sucking vast amounts of knowledge here is not good if it's not chewed by your own brains and explained to yourself someway. I tend to write to myself too much from analytical mindset and ignore to put in some emotion too...
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