Strong Personality is Vital in Seducing HB8-10s

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Have you ever met a dude who you just knew couldn't succeed in seducing HBs because of his weak personality alone as soon as you spoke to him.
Success with the HBs will never happen to a dude whose personality is very weak, no matter how confident and bold he may be.
If your personality is weak, your voice is soft, you are very nervous, and you come accross as being timid, no strategy or technique is ever going to enable you to seduce the HBs.
Work on the strength of your personality, HBs don't like nervous dudes, they like powerful speakers, those who portray a strength, not a weakness.
Within an instant the dudes weak personality can put the HB completely off him forever, no matter what he says after that in their conversation, he will never be empowered to win her over.
In a similar way the dude who possesses a very powerful personality will make an instant impression on the HB, that is likely to stay with her.
Make sure that your personality is very strong, this is a must if you want to fvck the HB8-10s. :yes:
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Success with the HBs will never happen to a dude whose personality is very weak, no matter how confident and bold he may be.
If your personality is weak, your voice is soft, you are very nervous, and you come accross as being timid, no strategy or technique is ever going to enable you to seduce the HBs.

That doesn't even make sense. If you're confident and bold, then you aren't nervous and timid. Thanks for the advice, chief noob.
 

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So, weak personality = appearing nervous? The fix should be easy, just relax.

U seem to describe properties which are part of outer-game:

-wrong bodylanguage
-too soft voice
-weak eye contact

These are all things that can be fixed rather easily. It takes some time and someone has to first point out what should be corrected.

BUT these are not same as strong personality.

U can fix ur bodylanguage and voice tone and still be "weak" person. The innergame must be polished aswell. That's the reason this site exists. But yeah, having problems with the bodylanguage WILL put girls off forever. That should be the first thing to fix for anyone new.

And what? Confident + bold ain't timid/nervous.
 

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....and how do I get a strong personality Mr pimpman?
There is only one way to get a strong personality, that is to study the type of dudes who have it and also those who don't.
If you walk around an environment where there is lots of people and you study them you will be able to pick out the dudes who are strong and those who are weak without even talking to them.
Their speech is the final thing that enables you to assess their strengths and weaknesses of their personalities, but you can tell in most cases even before this.
It is very rare to meet a very timid nervous wussie type of a dude who has the ability to attract HB8-10s towards him like a chickmagnet, no matter how much of a hunk and a success he may be in his life.
On the odd chance a dude like this might find a HB8-10 to be his partner, though it doesn't happen very often at all, if he does get one though she is probably going to stay with him because she must really love the dude to be with him despite his barriers at the beginning.
Dudes reveal their cards by the way they walk, their energy, their body language, the way that they dress, and the look in their eyes.
It has only been in recent times that I have noticed that HB8-10s make an immediate assessment of us dudes within the first few seconds of their meeting us.
What you have to do to change your personality into a powerful one is look at yourself in photos, listen to your speech on tapes, look at the clothes of which you are wearing, then you can begin to change them.
It isn't an easy thing to do though you will be able to do it with practice, the most important things are how you talk, the look in your eyes, your body language, the type of energy which you eject, positive energy is a must, so is the strength in your eyes and the power of your voice.
When I first looked at the photos of myself I could understand why HB8-10s wouldn't have been attracted to me, I was shocked at how pathetic I came accross even in a photo.
I had to learn how to look like a much stronger dude if I was ever going to impress any HBs.
I then studied the hunks, the dawks, and the in between types of dudes so that I could remodel myself on the dudes who looked powerful.
It was amazing to study myself to realize what the HBs were really seeing in the way that I was.
I discovered small things that were making me come accross as the type of dude that HBs wouldn't desire about me.
As soon as I discovered these things I began to change them and my success with the HB8-10s began to change very quickly.
Even now I am still in the process of changing many of these things, though my life has already become so much better.
The changes don't only make it easier to get HBs, it makes everything in your life so much better.
Even tonight whilst I was watching tv I saw something in a dude that was offputting to a HB and it has me thinking.
I discovered that I didn't even know what most of my negative traits were until I began to look at myself in these ways. :yes:
 

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I don't mean to pick on you or anything homeboy, but I gotta bust up this bad advice.

PigAdlemPimp said:
There is only one way to get a strong personality, that is to study the type of dudes who have it and also those who don't.

The ONLY way? You sure about that? What about actually becoming a strong, confident person, and then let that be expressed by your personality?

If you walk around an environment where there is lots of people and you study them you will be able to pick out the dudes who are strong and those who are weak without even talking to them.
Their speech is the final thing that enables you to assess their strengths and weaknesses of their personalities, but you can tell in most cases even before this.

You're right about this one. Body language, posture, and eye contact are the first things I can read about a person, and you can tell quite a bit about them by just observing these three things.


It is very rare to meet a very timid nervous wussie type of a dude who has the ability to attract HB8-10s towards him like a chickmagnet, no matter how much of a hunk and a success he may be in his life.

You probably don't know many of the "tortured artist" types do you? Those guys rake in emo girl ***** like nobody's business.

On the odd chance a dude like this might find a HB8-10 to be his partner, though it doesn't happen very often at all, if he does get one though she is probably going to stay with him because she must really love the dude to be with him despite his barriers at the beginning.

I would certainly hope so

Dudes reveal their cards by the way they walk, their energy, their body language, the way that they dress, and the look in their eyes.
It has only been in recent times that I have noticed that HB8-10s make an immediate assessment of us dudes within the first few seconds of their meeting us.

Good thing you realized this when you did. Women, generally, are more socially aware than men, and they've been noticing these things about us since they were young girls.

What you have to do to change your personality into a powerful one is look at yourself in photos, listen to your speech on tapes, look at the clothes of which you are wearing, then you can begin to change them.
It isn't an easy thing to do though you will be able to do it with practice, the most important things are how you talk, the look in your eyes, your body language, the type of energy which you eject, positive energy is a must, so is the strength in your eyes and the power of your voice.
When I first looked at the photos of myself I could understand why HB8-10s wouldn't have been attracted to me, I was shocked at how pathetic I came accross even in a photo.
I had to learn how to look like a much stronger dude if I was ever going to impress any HBs.
I then studied the hunks, the dawks, and the in between types of dudes so that I could remodel myself on the dudes who looked powerful.
It was amazing to study myself to realize what the HBs were really seeing in the way that I was.
I discovered small things that were making me come accross as the type of dude that HBs wouldn't desire about me.
As soon as I discovered these things I began to change them and my success with the HB8-10s began to change very quickly.
Even now I am still in the process of changing many of these things, though my life has already become so much better.
The changes don't only make it easier to get HBs, it makes everything in your life so much better.
Even tonight whilst I was watching tv I saw something in a dude that was offputting to a HB and it has me thinking.
I discovered that I didn't even know what most of my negative traits were until I began to look at myself in these ways. :yes:

Now THAT'S some pretty solid advice, however, unless you have the true, real confidence to back up your "strong personality" front, you will eventually crumble back to your AFC ways. You have to be congruent, and you can'ty go from a shy Clark Kent dork to an overbearing ultra-confident Superman in a few weeks or months.
 

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Serialized3 said:
I don't mean to pick on you or anything homeboy, but I gotta bust up this bad advice.
Thankyou for your feedback on this dude, confidence is very important though if a dudes personality is weak he will be rejected immediately with most HB8-10s before his confidence is allowed to be released.
I just studied the dudes who had the most success with the HBs and those who had the least then I worked towards my transformation.
I don't know what you mean by the tortured artist dude, if you mean a dude like, Elvis Presley, Mel Gibson, Keith Urban, Pat Cash, etc, dudes who might be psychologically and emotionally tormented and depressed though their talents and fame enable them to allure the HBs.
As the old saying goes, Rome wasn't built in a day, nor does a Tadpole turn into a Frog overnight, the transformation from being an AFC loser to a DJ winner doesn't happen immediately, it is a slow process, that takes a long time to fully master and it never will be fully mastered, though you have to start somewhere and you see the changes whilst you are working towards that.
You seem to know alot about this and it is great to get feedback from those who are experienced DJs as I can still learn alot from dudes like you. :yes:
 

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That doesn't even make sense. If you're confident and bold, then you aren't nervous and timid. Thanks for the advice, chief noob.
This may seem like a strange statement though I was actually like this myself in that I thought that I was confident and I was bold enough to ask HB8-10s out though I was continuously being rejected and knocked back by them.
I couldn't understand why this was happenning because I was doing everything that I had read in both David DeAngelos and John Alexanders AlphaMale books though it wasn't working.
I have a great buddy who is one of the best dudes you could meet though he can never find a HB to go out with him.
This intruigued me and so I began to search for the reasons of why this was the case, which was his weak timid wuss type of personality.
He even looks weak in photos which made me look at my own photos and I also recorded my voice and listened to that.
I quickly realized that I portrayed the image of a weak timid wuss type of appearance which was the major problem.
Applying the dating gurus strategies and techniques would not work for my whilst I was portraying the image of a weak timid male.
It was like I thought that I was being confident until I heard how nervous my speech sounded even though I wasn't nervous when I did speak, if you can get my drift.
As soon as I began to work on my speech and on my body language things began to get alot better, then applying the dating gurus strategies began to work for me.
It probably seems strange to you though it was like I felt very confident when I was sarging HBs though to them it seemed like I was weak timid and nervous, I myself didn't feel this way at all.
As you could imagine it was very frustrating for me because I thought that I was portraying a confident image yet I wasn't at all.
I guess you have to experience this type of thing yourself before you can really understand it, but that is what it was like for me. :yes:
 
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