is it all too much?

[el torro]

Hey guys I’ve been reading some stuff on mirroring body language and pattering,
They both sound like cool techniques to get down but the pattering sounds a bit creepy and cheesy and I can imagine a girl thinking, what the fvck is this guy going on about!!??

Ive been trying to think in a sexual state when talking to women and trying to mirror their body language in the hope I can pick up some signs of their interest but they seem to be unaffected I have no idea if its working and they talk to me as usual,

Can anyone offer me some advice, its hard to try and think of all this stuff in one go, these are the thoughts im having….

Hey she looks nice I’ll go chat to her…..(think in a sexual state and approach 3 second rule. 1….2…go! but remember to walk tall, smile relax, lots of friendly eye contact ****Y AND FUNNY, ok say something….good…she laughs, ok thinking of making love to her but sticking with the eye contact, fvck!!! What did she say!!!! I wasn’t paying attention, relax, ok change the subject…**** im slouching, STAND TALL lower my voice, try and listen, B0ll0cks im not listening “fvck this is hard!”, ok mirror her body position, good good, ok now change….she’s not following me…..dam it…..smile…..ok…..say yeah to whatever she said and change subject ****Y AND FUNNY ****Y AND FUNNY ****Y AND FUNNY. dam im forgeting the KINO where does that go!

Its all frying my brain!!!!

Should I try and perfect one technique so it eventually becomes natural and move on to the next or should I just carry on with what im doing, I haven’t done anything embarrassing yet but its hard to concentrate on her body language, my body language and think of something funny and interesting to say while remembering to stay in a sexual state all at the same time…..is anyone else having these problems? I never used to find it this hard but I never really new what I was doing wrong


I’ve been reading weapons of mass seduction and the gunwich method along with “inner game” stuff from the DJ bible I haven’t even got to pattering yet.

 

[LionOne]

i want to point out that mirroring the woman's body language isn't effective. women use usually more closed BL and lean in.. it's not good.. not in seduction. i'm not going to elaborate now but consider taking it off from ur game and concentrate in taking the most relaxed and open position with your body.

what comes to rest of your post.. when u are playing the game u shouldn't concentrate in it that much. allow yourself to relax and just enjoy the interaction. when it's over you should ask yourself what you could have done better. it's not possible to remember all the things when you are in. analyzing the interaction afterwards has helped me tremendously. also making scenarios in your mind and visualizing yourself using some spesific technique is helpful in taking that part of your game.

but taking the most comfortable position with your body will be already much of help because it allows you to relax more.

 

[victor22]

Hi Mirroring body language can be done in a usual way.

when you see a girl and want to talk to her, see what she is doing, and while you start talking to her, use the same gesture as she is in,then you have to make her comfort, then slowly come into the open gesture, if she is comming into the open gesture then it means you are in right track, if not then you have to make her feel more comfort.

human beigns always think some thing in their mind and the brain is full of thoughts.

IF she is in open gesture you can clearly read the body signals wether she is intrested or not.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Mirroring and patterning is for those ugly guys who can't get girls any other way so they try to hypnotize them a sh*t. Go out and light it up and don't worry about that bs. Eye contact and kino is all you need in your bag of tricks.

 

[BuckwildNYC]

Originally posted by el torro

Hey she looks nice I’ll go chat to her…..(think in a sexual state and approach 3 second rule. 1….2…go! but remember to walk tall, smile relax, lots of friendly eye contact ****Y AND FUNNY, ok say something….good…she laughs, ok thinking of making love to her but sticking with the eye contact, fvck!!! What did she say!!!! I wasn’t paying attention, relax, ok change the subject…**** im slouching, STAND TALL lower my voice, try and listen, B0ll0cks im not listening “fvck this is hard!”, ok mirror her body position, good good, ok now change….she’s not following me…..dam it…..smile…..ok…..say yeah to whatever she said and change subject ****Y AND FUNNY ****Y AND FUNNY ****Y AND FUNNY. dam im forgeting the KINO where does that go!

Wow that's some funny stuff right there. It's like that episode of the Honeymooners when Norton was trying to teach Ralph how to play golf from a book. Head down, back straight, turn your arms, bend your wrists, lift your left leg straighten your right leg, look at the ball now swiiiiiiiiiing. LOL and he completely missed the ball.

Trying to think of every detail while talking to a girl is death. I'm no pro but I think the most important thing is to look relaxed. It has to appear that you can to talk to hundreds of girls if you wanted to. Not that you are a player but you are comfortable around women. Eye contact is very important. I have trouble keeping good eye contact sometimes. But those times that I'm feeling really confident and my eye contact is right on the money it makes a big difference. You can see right in their eyes how much they are feeling you.

 

[Desdinova]

Mirroring is a way to tell IL.

When a woman mirrors your body language, it's an indication she's interested. You sit back, she sits back. You lean forward, she leans forward.

 

[wowiehowie]

... and don't forget "inner game" !