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Met a girl last Friday, sexy little number, law student - played some pool, kino off the hook both coming and going, wanted to see her again. Took action and closed the deal, got her number, set up a thing to play bar trivia w/her and her friends last night. Called and left a message to confirm...

THAT'S WHAT I SAID. Thanks guys. LMAO

SO - set up the date and going tonight. Female friend of mine just said something interesting though: says I need to have a plan or at least be aware of this. That if I like her and want to see her again, I should avoid hitting it tonight. And if she does come on strong and want that, it's...

Good tips, thanks. As usual, I'm in here again just checking to see if the DJ advice matches my gut instinct. To my credit I guess, it generally does. In this case, group bar trivia is a good chance to see if I even like her and go from there. My gut says yes, or I wouldn't have got her...

I expect it is a group outing. My sense tells me the same folks she was with last Friday night. So yeah - IF it goes well and IF we like each other - maybe set up the isolation date near the end of the evening. And yes, not too many Foster's, and I gotta hit the gym at 6:30am tomorrow. Unless...

Gonna have fun tonight, but wanted some DJ input. Made a lot of changes, hit the gym, spend a lot on clothes, been about 3 weeks of my "new attitude", and let me say, EVERYONE is noticing. Love it. Went out w/ the best wingman ever last Friday. Decided I wanted to find a hot woman and see...

You guys are all correct. Just validating my inner Jiminy Cricket. He's right too. He always knows the best thing. Tomassi is dead spot on with everything he's said. It is the sure thing, that's what's making me think that way. Trick for me is, I sorta have to "keep her around". She's the...

BOOM. We have a winner. And she's be happy to do it, too. She'd be an excellent wingman. My ex wife is, too. Ha! Reading my original post again, I may have left the impression that "winning her back" was part of my plan. Actually it wasn't, but this appears to be happening and I don't want to...

That's interesting but I can't imagine where they'd get numbers to back the claim. Especially self-reporting. I think 12 at 40 is NOTHING. She's a saint. Mine probably had five times that number by 22 and she'd admit it. She told me that on one of our first dates. But she's an outrageous...

Maybe friends should stay friends and call it a day. I can see a thread of consistency in the responses already. I remember hearing once that when enough people tell you that you've got a tail - you damn well better turn round and look. I think maybe I just want to hit it again because...

She's a malignant narcissist. Google it. Then leave her.

Mine did. Still does. She was married for 15 years but had 4 extramarital relationships that I know of, including one with me. Not one-off cheating. Relationships. I think mine was a malignant narcissist, brought on by years of the worst childhood abuse you can imagine. Now she's 100% together...

I hold open doors for anyone who's nearby. I agree it's kinda sexist to do it this way. It's not the act that's wrong, it's the motive. I would add that I'm a complete noob DJ, just getting back in the game. But this clearly violates one of the primary directives I've seen here. Let her hold...

Actually I was kidding, but.... Harsh words. I already knew the answer. I think most of us usually do. So are you saying that I should draw a hard line on this even if she initiates something? I feel like it's inevitable. And it'd be hard to not hit it, just once. Really respect the...

First time poster - addicted to this place, SO much positive energy here. I'll try to be brief. Divorced 10 years, just now starting to get back in the game. Because of a HB9 girl I was nuts about and she dumped me because I was an All World AFC. Now she has a new guy but it's been about 8...