First Date Question

Paris1968

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 5, 2012
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
Location
Norman, OK
SO - set up the date and going tonight.

Female friend of mine just said something interesting though: says I need to have a plan or at least be aware of this. That if I like her and want to see her again, I should avoid hitting it tonight. And if she does come on strong and want that, it's likely a sign that she's not that into another date and it's one-and-done.

She says men don't play the game the same way women do, and it's a damned shame, cause things'd be so much simpler.

Thoughts?
 

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,115
Reaction score
136
Age
43
Location
Manhattan, NY
Paris1968 said:
Thoughts?

Yeah, I have a thought:

Why are you even THINKING about that nonsense? Go on your f**king date and have fun.

...god...seriously? You're worried about the "rules" that some female friend established? She probably read that sh!t in Cosmopolitan. Who cares. Go on your damn date and don't come back until you do.

Christ.
 

Robert28

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
5,435
here's another thought. if you want to completely screw the pooch and screw this date up, then take the advice of your woman friend....or ANY woman for that matter when it comes to dating. if you want to hit it off with this girl, have a good time, and want to see her again then listen to YOURSELF and just remember that she's going out with you for a reason. girls don't go on dates with guys they aren't interested in potentially(or at least most don't, there's some weird fools out there). now all you have to do is keep/get her interest in you even higher and go with it.
 

Buddha_Mind

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 4, 2009
Messages
981
Reaction score
43
Location
not here. in the real world.
Iceberg said:
Yeah, I have a thought:

Why are you even THINKING about that nonsense? Go on your f**king date and have fun.

...god...seriously? You're worried about the "rules" that some female friend established? She probably read that sh!t in Cosmopolitan. Who cares. Go on your damn date and don't come back until you do.

Christ.
Listen to this man here.

You know, my female friend says if she bats her eye lashes twice, but once before a sip and once after, it means she's subconsciously horny and wants you, while if she blinks only once, she may just see you as a friend.


...

MAN don't believe any of this bullshiz!! Do what feels right! Don't let your female friend be on this date with her...let YOU be on this date with her..YOU attracted her..YOU set this up..now YOU ride the horse and manage the journey son...YOU GOT THIS.

Don't overthink it.

Stop thinking of it ENTIRELY right now.

Say to yourself "Tomorrow is going to be a great fvcking night and I'm going to show her the TIME OF HER LIFE"--she never knew a trivia night could be so enjoyable...THIS should be your attitude, she's lucky to get to spend time with you and you'll do great brotha!! Don't pull a me and get too mentally tripped up son! It just breeds confusion and weird action! Just go with it!
 
Top