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Respect, regular love making and intimacy, initiates love making, does things regularly for me because she is thinking about me, is there for me in every conceivable capacity, gives me space, does not interfere with what I want to do or who I hang out with, not a slob, is able to compromise, is...

I played drums for the first time, last night at a jam session. I wasn't too bad, so I'm going to invest in a kit. A drunk chick was really getting into it.

Dodged a bullet.

Well she brought donuts which I did not way. She is talkative. She has not brought up the exes, which is good because it got old. She did bring up dating profile, again, which I forgot to mention that she does often. She tells me that someone contacted her on her d.p., and said that they...

I was mistaken. She will be here tomorrow, not Tuesday (later today, my time zone.) I plan on simply saying hello. Then I will go about my business, probably jam on my guitar, and do the things I mentioned in the last post. Any ideas on anything snarky if she brings up her (ex)boyfriend...

I play the guitar. Mostly metal, across different subgenres. However, I play some non-metal with my Variax. I'm actually going to a jam session tonight. Might start a band. If you can sing and/or play = value.

My harshest was, NEVER become complacent or passive in a LTR.

Thanks! I will get there. It was a high impact motorcycle accident. I will never be 100%, but my attitude will always be 110%. I will get myself back to just about where I was. I can use the issue to trigger nurturing emotions from women, while maintaining my frame. Maybe that is why the...

A woman who is attractive and the subject of another thread has a teenage daughter. If I ever hook up with the woman and things are good, I will simply avoid moving in with her. Her kid will be an adult and go her own way in a couple of years. BAM! Single mom issues eliminated. I have...

If things are going well with a chick and she asks for exclusivity, I will say, "I really like how things are going with us (as long as they actually are,)" and tell her that I am not seeing anyone but her. In this way, my theory is that I didn't actually agree to it, but the wording will...

She hasn't contacted me since Tuesday, but I will see her again in a couple of days. But I think her interest waned. Mine has a bit, since she is not on my mind as much. Maybe she is playing it safe now that the knowledge of my split with the wife is out in the open. Or yet, she hooked up...

I recently left my wife, due to a lack of intimacy, passion, and initiation on her part. Some women are just simply comfortable with a situation in which you may not be. Your situation may be an interesting experiment, though is your time invested in this woman really worth it? If I am with a...

I shattered my leg, it is scarred up, and I currently have to walk with a cane, and I still exude confidence. In fact, I may use the situation to my advantage. It is all about attitude, man. I have value that I see in myself. Look for value in yourself, and make it a part of your psyche...

My crazy BPD LTR involved kids. My 1st wife had an affair and let me take our son with me when I left. I eventually hooked up with this chick with two kids because I rationalized that since I was a single father, I should be willing to date a single mother. She was as described in this...

I was 7 years older than the chick, a couple of LTRs ago. It was a nightmare. I know that it wouldn't be like that with every chick, but there was a combination of BPD, narcisistic behavior, and immaturity. I know another chick that is 8 years younger, probably has different issues, but has...

I listen to music for the musicianship, mostly. Also, I write music. My lyrics cover multiple topics. However, the lyrics about women are either how crazy they are, or about what we are about to do in bed, due to what I want to do with her in bed, as though I'm guiding the action. I cannot...

In my LTR experience, women want the man to make equal-to-or-greater-than the amount that she makes, or she loses some respect, no matter how awesome and bad azz that you are. Well, my not counting my lazy and crazy ex from a nightmarish LTR... With that said, whenever I am single, I am debt...

I lost a lot of weight due to a motorcycle accident. However, it is of no benefit yet, as my muscles atrophied and need to be rebuilt. I do get compliments from people who know me on looking much better.

During our casual convos, she mentioned having a disdain for married men who hit on her. After she learned of the split, she said that maybe my wife and I would repair things, so if she is truly interested, she is playing it safe. That is why I started the thread, because of the signals that...

The split was inevitable before the other women were coming around. There was no intimacy or sex, and I told my wife over a period of time that if it wasn't addressed, we would not make it. Once she sensed I was finally bailing, she became more touchy-feely, but at that point, I became...