JohnyTheArrow
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I got burned so learn from my mistakes.I would like to warn you guys about even dating single moms. Keep hand on pulse all the time, you and her are both players. It's just a game, never forget this. Here are my thoughts ...
1. Dating moms looks like a great idea right ? They are hot and easy and SO NICE ... yes, but you must take into consideration you may fall in love with them or get addicted to easy sex.Single moms are always fishing and remeber it's the bait.There is no free lunch.
2. Single moms may give you a lot of attention and sex you like rock star, it will inflate your ego, beware, you are not so-damn-hot-and-cool , it's illusion, what you are is a disposable asset which will be dumped if you don't play along the script. If they dumped the father it will be so much easier to dump you, keep emotional distance or heartbreak will follow. Sex is suppose to make you addicted to her.
3. The endgame is to get you into provider mode. Many of them will want to get pregnant to make sure you won't walk away and if they get pregnant by accident it's almost sure they will keep a baby, they are already ****ed so one more child doesn't matter.So suddenly you go from bachelor mode to the family with 2 children which you must support.That's three or more people on your back. Moms often feel entitled as they are in victim mode so don't expect her to earn money.
4. They will try to bond you with the child and shame you for not being a "true man" or "strong". Don't let her shame you into emotional guilt.
5. Being in LTR or marry hot single mom may not be as good idea as you it looks. They are 1-2 points or more of SMV higher than you, it's only the child that lowers the score but ... in their heart they still value themselves high .They may have sex with you but it's will never be truly passionate experience because they will consider you 'inferior'.
6. She already went through trauma to get rid of father is she is divorcee, it will be much more easy to get rid of you as soon you lower or loose your providing ability.
7. You are not love of her life. Child is. You are nanny, ATM, emotional support, bodyguard and most important a loser who exchanges his life and money for a easy *****. She knows men don't want her so she may call you true man or strong man but in heart despise herself that she ended up with "the loser".
8. If you happen to have babies with mom you have no idea how your babies will get along with other's man spawn.
9. Single moms are nice, sometimes "too nice", they tolerate your **** but make no mistakes, deep in heart they boil from anger they must cope with such "disrespect", they still consider themselves princesses. They will keep their anger hidden from you as long as you are needed but if you fail to deliver they will unleash all the **** on you.
10. Many of them got pumped and dumped and hurt by men they may become men hater later.
11. You are cool as the kid likes you but if you will start to conflict with the kid, her "love" will vaporate, such relationship is like walking on eggshells. You may invest a lot of time and money and it may all end in one day.
12. Do you really want to live with the fact you didn't conquer her but you are a 'reasonable choice' ?
13. They may try to use you as bodyguard to protect from her ex. You may risk your life or health if you are "true man". Two men and a woman when they are emotions involved it can lead to agression or even tragedy. Don't white knight or it may end really bad for you. Never let yourself into bodyguard mode, she sets you up to show ex who is "the boss".
14. Your sex life may not be as amazing as it looks in the beginning. Remeber children will be around it means being quiet at night. She will be always afraid children will see you having sex, she will never deteach, she will have sex with you but one ear and one eye will be always watching and hearing.
15. Ex ... she may spill poison about him but later they often get "friends".
Basically if you are not older like 40+ or guy with no options you should really beware , these women are often really sweet because they must. It's easy to fall in love or get addicted to them even if you know what the game is about.
Keep your emotions and sex addiction always in check or you will fall into their ***** trap and will start to get thoughts about settling down with them. You may really regret it later. Single moms are not evil, actually I love them, many of them are sweet and feminine, but you must remind yourself all the time what is the endgame. It's not about you. Your ego will get inflated with them. Keep ego and emotions in check or you may fall in love. You may start only dating for **** but may end up marrying them and their problems.
I have weakness to single moms, many of them because of their lower SMV, are sweet,nice and feminine despite being hot. Their must keep their *****y side in check if they want a man. If all women would have to "adjust" so much as they we would live in heaven.
If you are begginner DJ single moms may be your playground, I hope what I've written will save you possible heartbreak.
1. Dating moms looks like a great idea right ? They are hot and easy and SO NICE ... yes, but you must take into consideration you may fall in love with them or get addicted to easy sex.Single moms are always fishing and remeber it's the bait.There is no free lunch.
2. Single moms may give you a lot of attention and sex you like rock star, it will inflate your ego, beware, you are not so-damn-hot-and-cool , it's illusion, what you are is a disposable asset which will be dumped if you don't play along the script. If they dumped the father it will be so much easier to dump you, keep emotional distance or heartbreak will follow. Sex is suppose to make you addicted to her.
3. The endgame is to get you into provider mode. Many of them will want to get pregnant to make sure you won't walk away and if they get pregnant by accident it's almost sure they will keep a baby, they are already ****ed so one more child doesn't matter.So suddenly you go from bachelor mode to the family with 2 children which you must support.That's three or more people on your back. Moms often feel entitled as they are in victim mode so don't expect her to earn money.
4. They will try to bond you with the child and shame you for not being a "true man" or "strong". Don't let her shame you into emotional guilt.
5. Being in LTR or marry hot single mom may not be as good idea as you it looks. They are 1-2 points or more of SMV higher than you, it's only the child that lowers the score but ... in their heart they still value themselves high .They may have sex with you but it's will never be truly passionate experience because they will consider you 'inferior'.
6. She already went through trauma to get rid of father is she is divorcee, it will be much more easy to get rid of you as soon you lower or loose your providing ability.
7. You are not love of her life. Child is. You are nanny, ATM, emotional support, bodyguard and most important a loser who exchanges his life and money for a easy *****. She knows men don't want her so she may call you true man or strong man but in heart despise herself that she ended up with "the loser".
8. If you happen to have babies with mom you have no idea how your babies will get along with other's man spawn.
9. Single moms are nice, sometimes "too nice", they tolerate your **** but make no mistakes, deep in heart they boil from anger they must cope with such "disrespect", they still consider themselves princesses. They will keep their anger hidden from you as long as you are needed but if you fail to deliver they will unleash all the **** on you.
10. Many of them got pumped and dumped and hurt by men they may become men hater later.
11. You are cool as the kid likes you but if you will start to conflict with the kid, her "love" will vaporate, such relationship is like walking on eggshells. You may invest a lot of time and money and it may all end in one day.
12. Do you really want to live with the fact you didn't conquer her but you are a 'reasonable choice' ?
13. They may try to use you as bodyguard to protect from her ex. You may risk your life or health if you are "true man". Two men and a woman when they are emotions involved it can lead to agression or even tragedy. Don't white knight or it may end really bad for you. Never let yourself into bodyguard mode, she sets you up to show ex who is "the boss".
14. Your sex life may not be as amazing as it looks in the beginning. Remeber children will be around it means being quiet at night. She will be always afraid children will see you having sex, she will never deteach, she will have sex with you but one ear and one eye will be always watching and hearing.
15. Ex ... she may spill poison about him but later they often get "friends".
Basically if you are not older like 40+ or guy with no options you should really beware , these women are often really sweet because they must. It's easy to fall in love or get addicted to them even if you know what the game is about.
Keep your emotions and sex addiction always in check or you will fall into their ***** trap and will start to get thoughts about settling down with them. You may really regret it later. Single moms are not evil, actually I love them, many of them are sweet and feminine, but you must remind yourself all the time what is the endgame. It's not about you. Your ego will get inflated with them. Keep ego and emotions in check or you may fall in love. You may start only dating for **** but may end up marrying them and their problems.
I have weakness to single moms, many of them because of their lower SMV, are sweet,nice and feminine despite being hot. Their must keep their *****y side in check if they want a man. If all women would have to "adjust" so much as they we would live in heaven.
If you are begginner DJ single moms may be your playground, I hope what I've written will save you possible heartbreak.
