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  1. touma.akagi

    How to identify a girl who is dtf?

    You just have to judge by the fun you're having/how she's responding to you. If she's responding positively you can escalate, and if she's not, then you know not to waste any more of your time. Think about it like this: you take some girl from Tinder (OK, maybe from real life too, but whatever)...
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    Just Play the Game

    There's a saying that there's 10% of people who always just won't like you, 10% that will always like you, and the 80% remaining are the group that you, with the right decisions, can get good at influencing and winning over. Learning to let go of the 10% who don't want you is pretty important...
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    Oh good grief, now there is a website for women to find "let's just be friends" men!

    It's all fun and games until half of these women have a guy force themselves on her and then they cry rape. It's a stupid game with stupid prizes for both teams involved.
  4. touma.akagi

    Validation allergy

    Don't be afraid to experiment a little, then. If you've got a nice little rotation on your phone then you can come up with a few differing approaches and test them simultaneously, and hopefully formulate a better understanding of what works and what doesn't.
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    Validation allergy

    The whole "never validate a woman thing" is just PUA, gamey bullsh it. The kernel truth to this is compliments on appearance, which you do want to keep to a minimum. You don't want to validate someone too much. This is where you look bad. Giving too many compliments, gifts etc. This behavior...
  6. touma.akagi

    When she calls you Bro

    I personally would inspect her other actions and attitude towards you because her calling people "bro" isn't inherently indicative. Use common sense. If she's still responding positively to you she's probably still into you. Else if she's treating you badly, being disrespectful, asking for...
  7. touma.akagi

    Girl doesn't wanna put out

    Either she's genuinely a porn addict (possibility, although not quite a remote one) or she's just baiting you. Either ghost her or bait her also, your call dude. I personally would text someone who intends to meet up.
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    You must tell yourself she's already left

    I'm going to share a line that's always going to be true of dating and relationships. "If it's not fun, it's not optimal." You aren't supposed to bend over backwards. You aren't supposed to be desperate to appease someone. Every guy on this site has more or less come to the realization that...
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    Girl initiating texting but not meeting up?

    Attention *****/time waster it seems like. If she's done this 10x already, it's probably just time to move on.
  10. touma.akagi

    Do you think fat chicks are ugly because of "bad posture"?

    An overweight person's posture usually deteriorates faster than that of a skinny person. That's not to say that skinny people never **** up their posture, mind you, I'm just saying that when you've got a huge belly and arm fat the size of breasts, your shoulders and back just gravitate forward...
  11. touma.akagi

    Beta buxxing can't be all that bad.

    Just use common sense and hindsight on this one. If "beta buxxing" women gifts never ends well for you, what does that tell you? Inversely, if it consistently ends well for you, what does that tell you?
  12. touma.akagi

    I failed the no contact rule... Heres what happened

    While there may have been a few things you could've done to change what happened, the tells of an impending breakup are sometimes not as present. Don't beat yourself up over it too much. Grieve if you've got to, but try to move on as best you can. I never understood things like the NC rule to...
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    Anyone here actually find chubby girls attractive?

    A handful of chubby women manage to be kind of cute, but morbid obesity on the level of Tess Holliday is never sexy.
  14. touma.akagi

    How to get from 20 years old virgin to successful DonJuan?

    So, you said you looked at "PUA stuff." Just stop. These people try to tell you that you should "be a good salesman" and "know how to sell your self." And since that's their main thing, it makes PUA pretty worthless. This is just bad advice! Trying to sell something is convincing. At best...
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    Where are the bitcoin lovers now?

    Bitcoin was ruined by scammers. Crypto in general has become a currency of thieves despite being in its infancy. A classic example about how ****ty people in our world never let us have nice things for very long. I intend to never touch the stuff.
  16. touma.akagi

    Computer Science Personal Projects?

    Ask students who've taken the succeeding classes you're about to about the material that's being covered and you can try to pursue some of that to be better prepared for what's coming. You can probably find bookstores (online or brick-and-mortar) which have textbooks w exercises that you can do.
  17. touma.akagi

    Why do women waste their youth being Fat?

    Because years and years of fat shaming never has the exact same effect on someone's body. Some people simply grow out of being too fat, some people go lose the weight with exercise, some people turn to "fat acceptance" to band-aid their situation and simply choose to continue living with it. The...
  18. touma.akagi

    Back/neck problems and sleeping

    The one I see mostly is actually a woman smaller than me. I went to another chiropractor who was a man ($10 special appointment)and he was able to do more thorough stretches because he's actually big enough to lift me up etc. Obviously the woman can't do that although she probably can with...
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    Back/neck problems and sleeping

    I got a posture correction brace about a month ago, and it's been pretty good. It slightly rides up me because I'm a little overweight. This is the full one for both back and shoulders, and I can wear it while working or while sitting at home. The straps irritate my sides after a few hours...
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    Beware of the Jaded

    Half this site is whining, the only parts of the forum I don't have to wear my gas mask on is Anything Else and Health and Fitness.
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