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To respond to @SW15: Venue is important because it does some pre-selection for you. If you are at a gallery opening at an art gallery (for example) you are going to meet people who value art and are going, typically, to be more sophisticated, cultured, and higher net worth. These people also...

In 2015, having a flip phone was dating suicide. Around 2010 is when bougie White women expected men to have smartphones on in-person approaches. I have tended to run in circles over time with bougie White women. If you were doing in-person approaches around then and pulled out a flip phone in...

Most of the newer LTRs have formed online (swipe apps & social media). It is now the primary way couples form. Far fewer couples are now starting their interactions through a social circle facilitation, through a bar approach, through a non-bar approach (including through college campus...

Women don't make sense. I had a girl in college who I hung out with who said she didn't want to move too fast because she liked me. When I told her I didn't want anything serious right now she just went "oh ok, then let's fu**". If you're 33 and this girl hasn't been sexual with you after 3...

(5) Why does some fashion repeat while others fad? | LinkedIn I wear straight jeans and prefer them to slim fit. The point is, that’s what’s in style for the younger generation. Trends like septum piercings and broccoli hair are popular, and for many young people, it’s all about “when in...

Yep. I certainly don't strive to be the guy with a different college girl in his bed every night. I admit that would be an unrealistic expectation.

Both of these are great posts. In early life, women's looks are extremely valuable in the sexual marketplace. The appeal of youthfulness and possible fertility have more value than a man's looks have to a woman. While male looks are valuable, it's not the same as female looks. With the...

Yeah, I've noticed Gen Z young men wearing baggy pants too. I don't even like to wear baggy pants as a guy. I once wore baggy pants (they were in style, for a guy at least, in my younger days). By the time I was halfway through high school, however, tighter pants came into style. My pants then...

There are certain general lessons I've learned through the years (don't act overly thirsty, for example). In the specific instance of the college classmate having me share a seat with her, I have no idea what I did wrong (so no idea what I could have done differently) As for the "eat what the...

I was raised in a small town where many stay in the same small town for life. Even for those who leave, they typically stay within a 1 hour (maybe 2 hours tops) drive. Many people I went to high school with are currently married to each other. You're damn right that staying in the same area...

Part of it could be the small pond vs big pond thing. A college, even a big one, is a small pond compared to the real world. A popular college football player obviously has a lot of social status at college parties. Unless he makes it to the NFL, however, he becomes a nobody after college.

I must say your assessment of me is all over the place. One minute you'll compliment the fact I've nailed 9 free partners (6 of which happened during college) in spite of everything working against me. Then the next minute, you'll tell me the fact I got all my college sex through tech methods...

From my observations in high school, the male students with bad boy tendencies were the high school peakers.

In college, a female classmate asked me for assistance in the computer lab. Rather than having me pull up a chair, she scooted over in her chair (and told me to share the seat with her). Sounds like a pretty sure sign she was into me. Yet a short bit later when I expressed interest in her...

On the first page of the Dallas Scene thread, I wrote... Dallas is a rather mediocre mating environment. I wouldn't recommend moving here as a means of improving mating outcomes. However, this does not mean that it is not a good place to live when considering all lifestyle variables. If...

Almost all of the sexual marketplace experiences before 22-23 are based solely on circumstances. Height is an important factor and dependent on your parents' genetics. Geographic constancy will help a lot if your parents keep you in the same geographic for the entirety of the K-12 years. The...

When the bars started becoming more popular my age and hanging around freshmen became "weird" & "not fun" I definitely took a nose dive in lays because it is much harder to talk to women at bars/clubs then it is at a house party. In addition, I felt like alcohol had to always be present when...

That was my experience too and yeah it was miserable. That was another bad thing about community college is that living at home is your only option.

Not sure if it is just me but I noticed that almost every guy I knew that was good with women in college fell off hard after it if he relied on social circles or parties his friends threw. Like something about this means that the guy cannot transition into cold approach in the real world at...

@SW15 So many posts for me to respond to but I will speak on men peaking after 30. What I have personally found is that men who peak earlier in life just had easier lives and easier circumstances growing up. This is what people miss. Success with women when you are young is based on...