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My friend is probably heading towards divorce (cheating first, likely). Her husband is a douche. I don't think I'm interested in a proper relationship because, for one thing, I don't like that she denigrates her man to another guy, but I am interested in sex. She asks my opinion. Should I be...

Bingo. Upbringing and classiness has a great deal to do with it. A smart, elegant and compassionate woman who's interested will toy with you a bit as a matter of due diligence, but no more than necessary. It's almost always the case that a trashy woman with the same interest level will toy...

Ha! No surprise, the tried and true way of things continues to serve. It's unusual for us to not communicate during a day, and nearly 48hrs of radio silence from my end has been getting her gourd. She probed with some paltry texts on Monday, which I let go, still unsure about deleting her...

Good advice. Dead on of course. It's weird how one can get under your skin even when you're sure that you've been there, done that, and that you know what you're doing. I'll take lessons from it at least.

We've gone out a few times in the last three weeks. Had dinner at her place once, kinda-sorta made out, her kid called crying about problems, no sex. We saw a movie since then. Last week I told her let's get together and she declined, so I left it in her court and dropped it. Today she texted...

I can't guess if she's messing around. However, something's certainly up. Making a saga of ending the night at his place is weird, especially if they have some kind of history, and especially if she's tied up about it too.

Update How'd I do? She dropped by to pick up something and I was friendly and jovial but not inviting and conveyed that I was busy/had plans without actually saying so. She made her eyes and tried to get a bit touchy. I let it fizzle, she removed herself. Later I messaged her to say that...

Yeah. You're right. I just needed to know that it's not what I did, it's what I didn't know how to do, didn't know how to see. Thanks.

Thanks all. I read the thread about HPD/BPD. A lot of those shoes fit. I've never chumped like this before, so it's a mindfvck. How do I make her feel bad about things without being a jerk outright, walking her through her horse****, etc.? It will help me shake this to know that she feels like...

How to tell if she's playing. Update: How to un-chump I'm in trouble and really appreciate your insight. Here's the facts: We've been coworkers-then-friends for about three months, and started seeing each other outside the office just more than a month ago. I'm 25. She's 32. 1) We get...