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    New Guy here, need some advice

    Well, we got our coffee today. Really need you guys to give me your opeinion. I think it was good and bad... not sure if it was more of one or the other. We went an got a coffee cause lunch was impossible for both of us. As we walked we talked a bit about BS, until I stopped her and said "lets...
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    New Guy here, need some advice

    Danger- I am most definitely taking all advice here to heart. I appreciate it very much. So much so that I am already finding myself losing interest here. Its going to take some type of fireworks on her part to really ignite what was once a very intense flame. Now I am mainly keeping the fire...
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    New Guy here, need some advice

    How cool to get advice from Rollo. I love your blog.. probably the only one I really read on game. I added the age and loc. I had a different impression. We've never really been one date one, much less another. The first time we hung out was a date, in a way, and I should have escalated more...
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    New Guy here, need some advice

    Update: I get to work today and she is walking in early. She comes to where I am and starts talking about the weather etc, as she talks I continue my trajectory towards the spot I sit at outside during my break. I act normal because I felt normal. She realizes I am continuing on my path and...
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    So Suave posters problems summed up in one sentence.

    Seems to be alot of over generalizing here. We live in a weird society. Men are not taught, as boys, how to behave around women and how to attract them. Nowadays, the message sent to even the youngest of men can be very confusing. Popular movies and culture tell men to be a certain way (nice...
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    'you're too good for me' sh!t test. (Rollo & other vets)

    As a newbie to this forum, but not to women, let me add my 2 cents here. I've learned women, actually people in general, are always revealing themselves in subtle ways. We almost can't help it. When a woman I like starts deprecating herself- not in a flirty, fun way, but in a semi-serious...
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    New Guy here, need some advice

    Well she never called, and thanks to this forum I'm really ok with it. I don't think it will take much effort to be casual about it when I see her. I'm hoping to remove any sign of awkwardness at all when I do.. but I think I'll manage just fine. Thanks to you guys. I have my perspective back. I...
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    New Guy here, need some advice

    Thanks to everyone for all the responses so far. For the record I do have several options and fall backs (plates) that are available. I guess I developed a bit of one-itis here. It really is sad that we've reached a point on our society that a man can never really ever just fall romantically...
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    New Guy here, need some advice

    Bible-Belt. I see what you're saying and I am sure it has alot of truth to it. My dilemma, even when I accept what you're saying is how to go forward from there. I feel that if I act as if its all ok, I am telling her that I'll put up with anything..I am lowering my value in her eyes. So...
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    New Guy here, need some advice

    Mauser- Yeah, its now almost 11am and no response. So by this point I'm not seeing her even if she texts me now. My chasing is now, officially, done. GreasyPig- It really is a mystery to me this time. We've known each other for a year, and since I wasn't considering anything with her we...
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    New Guy here, need some advice

    Hey man, thanks for the advice. So you see as I do- **** testing for position. **** man, women really are stupid, aren't they? Its like they are too dumb to realize that they can have everything they want simply by being pleasant! They act up and we get mad, so we lower their value in our eyes...
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    New Guy here, need some advice

    Hello all. I am new here.. Its kind of cool to see a section for those of us who are a bit older. I am 42. so here is the deal. I moved to a new city a year ago and started a new job. There is a 35 yr old, hot woman there who I will call D. D is hot- about a 7, very smart, cool etc. From the...
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