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It's tough, but at the beginning, when the phone starts to ring and you notice it's her, sometimes you need to let it ring through. It adds an element of mystery as to what you're actually doing, and gives her a better feeling when she calls and you do pick up, or when you call her. There's...

I see this so much when people are posting stories online or even with my friends in person, so I figured I'd write about it. I'm sure it's been covered in the past. So many guys that see initial success with a woman get over-excited and want escalate things as quickly as possible by being...

I'm aware of this, but I don't know how to change my perception if it's still there when I've developed the skills socially and know, through reason, that they aren't above me.

It's illogical, but it's hard-wired in my mind. On a college campus, I can pick out the people that generally flip this switch in my mind. Football player/cheerleader types (know everyone, get invited to everything) People who seem to already have one foot out into the real world and have...

I want to bring back the self I had 6 months ago, when I was comfortable socially no matter what setting I was in. It's there somewhere, I just don't know how to bring it back.

I've been on pills for depression and ADD before, I think of those as absolute last resorts. When studying abroad, there was the language barrier between me and the locals, but not with the group. That seemed to give us something in common. I got to know all of them. For the locals/people...

Some views, no responses. Where is my issue really and what can I do to fix it?

My first two years in college I spent mostly in my own little shell. Very few friends, very little socializing, whatever. I read up on a lot of stuff here and elsewhere about pick up, but never put any of it into action. I study abroad last year, and I decided that I wasn't going to be the...