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Day 6.... Never responded to her text and was fine all day til now. Can't get it out of my head. Not going to reply at all just can't clear it out of my head as to why she texted.

Day 5... since contact 13 overall. She texted me tonight. Just hi. I did not respond and know I should not anytime soon. Based on when I got the text can be certain she had been drinking. Any insight as to what this text was? Wht she texted?

Exactly.... Do not contact her. If NC is broken let her be the one to do it. Which will happen for one of two reasons. 1. The guy she was seeing left and she feels lonely and thinks that you will comfort her. If you do she will use you and sh*t on you all over again. I had this happen to me...

Yonggg.... Keep it up. You're doing good. I was doing the same thing. Finding any and everything to tell me to contact her even when 99% of everything out there says NC. Stay stong man. You are a 14 days, not a good feeling to see that go back to 1 and have to start all over.

Ari.... Tough way for it to end. But if she doesn't even care enough to tell you it's over then F* it. I wouldn't even want her back. LDR really is hard and adds stress. I've been in them twice. Once right after college when I moved away and this time which was only an hour and change away...

Day 3..... Still thinking about her a lot but no desire to contact her. Sticking with the NC. Doing more of the what I could have should have done which is pi$$ing me off even though I know what's done is done. Yonggg, keep it up man. Your doing good.

Yonggg... It no longer matters what was said at the break up and no it is not immature to delete her contact info. You have to now do whats good for you and not her. Ultimately once you started doing what was good for her is when the attraction started to fade. Take care of yourself, what's...

Yonggg.... Keep Strong. You're getting there. Trust me. If you cave you will feel even worse than you do now. Back on Day 2 for me.... Still thinking a lot but keeping myself busy.

Don't do it Yonggg.... Look what I just did. It got me nowhere and put me back at the beginning.

WTF...... Here comes the regret boys.... In the midst of the comments she said she had a self pity weekend... I just F*ed that up. She was starting to miss me and I thought I'd reach out. Gave her what she wanted. Your mind and it's tricks. Day 1 of NC starts again tomorrow.... I will no...

Dgwizdal... You are right. Emotional tampon - check Beta as F* - check During the end yes, I offered this crap as advice when she was an emotional mess instead of just saying get over it. Which I know is what killed it. I was too available. For some reason didn't see this right here...

Dgwizdal..... Good words. I'm on day 8 and over all this. I may sound like a hypocrite right now b/c is you look at my day to day thoughts I have been all over the place. Dgwizdal is right... F* it all. We are men ans somewhere along the lines we have lost that. As I say Day 8 I am...

Yonggg.... Don't ever regret loving anyone. We love and we lose. Just be happy that you are able to love. Mine left me because she said she didn't know if she was able to love. Now that is a miserable life. She is gone and you are only under your spell. Just smile, it'll go away.

Yonggg.... Don't text, call, or anything. Looks desperate and you are NOT depserate. You have to believe and know that. Stay strong. Day 8..... Last night was rough. Hot me like a ton of bricks. Barely slept and just kept thinking about her. It was hard to get up this morning but...

Day 7... made it a week and got through the weekend. Almost texted Saturday but didn't send it. Was back out on the rugby pitch today and started the bike rebuild I've been talking about for a year. Checked out her insta and wanted to tell her how gorgeous her pic was. What stopped me was not...

Terrible feeling indeed. Almost makes you want to give up loving people.. as to why would I ever want to feel like this again, why would I do this to myself. Don't let anyone in and it won't happen. But then you realize, the other end of it is far better and every time you do love it's so much...

Yonggg..... Tripod has is right. You know what you have to do just like I do. But I'm sure your questioning your every move right now as I have been. NC is the way to go but you feel it isn't and will find anyway to encourage yourself to go against it. I found threads on the web that say NC...

Day 5.... Feeling good. Didn't cave and send the email. In this for the long haul. Thanks for everyone's words yesterday. Came arcross this quote this morning... fits well with what a lot of us are going through. "LIFE is about trusting your feelings and taking chances, losing &...

Tripod... Thanks man. Just going through the back and forth since I never said I was going no contact. Just up and vanished... Then again she ended it and does need time. There was no disprespect in the break up or anytime before it and she really did need to do it for herself, for her own...

nd of course I'm still on social media. She just posted a pic if a song called 'take me for one last ride'. Is that a sign of she is starting to miss me? or am I just creating things in my head and she is just posting her emotions.