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Funny you mention that, we were talking last week and she said that she was mad because I never proposed years ago. Said she had been mad about it for years. I had no clue. I though I had to own a house and have a decent career before asking a girl to marry me and she said no no no that isn't...

Yeah same here. She feels that I let her down in the past and cannot let go of it. We have both done each other wrong in the past and I guess if both cannot let go then you have nothing. I know when I finally move all my stuff out and she comes home to an empty house next tuesday night she...

That is EXACTLY how I feel. Last night we cooked up lots of food and had drinks while watching the super bowl. It was like we were happy again like old times, yet I knew and she knew just under the surface that our relationship is over. Its like the twilight zone. It sometimes freaks me out. I...

I asked her to be nice while I was still here as I knew I had to stay for a couple more weeks due to needed money to move. She has been cool. She has been acting like we are really happy(including having a lot of sex). Its odd but whatever. Sometimes it seems she has decided to continue our...

Update-> We have actually been getting along really well the past week or so. However, I am leaving next tuesday, my friend is coming from FL to help me move. I am looking forward to getting on with my life and meeting new girls.

I was on the other end of that, it usually ended up with my girl getting sleepy and going to bed after some threesome action which left me to have the other girl to myself all night. I agree that it probably isn't the best idea in the world although its fun as heck! Its usually a little...

I have had several threesome's with my girl(well ex girl at this point). We have been together for a long time and the threesomes never really caused any issues for us. They are hella fun but at the same time it is a bit overrated. We had a playtoy girl for awhile that would come over, hang out...

Well, last night after I picked her up from work she said she was going to a house warming party and wasn't coming home until the next day. So I asked her if she could at least wait until I am gone to start her new life. She swears up and down that she isn't seeing anyone and doesn't plan to...

Well I picked her up, told her I was moving out in a couple of weeks or less if possible. She didn't really respond. Its what she wants anyway. She says she doesn't know who she is anymore, and neither do I frankly. You are right, I am NOT in love with her anymore, I am in love with the her that...

Keep the comments coming guys, its helpful! I will be back on in a bit, I have to pick her up and then I assume she will be going out so I will jump back on here then. I vow to be a rock. NO emotions whatsoever. We'll see how I do. I am going to pop in some Soulfly for the ride to pick her up...

I thank God I found this board, I really do. It, combined with Tony Robbins has changed my outlook on life. I screwed things up with girl in so many ways I could write 20 paragraphs about it. We BOTH screwed things up but if you read the "be a man" article on here, I did NONE of those things...

Again, yes. I am getting some money from my parents which will help. I completely agree that I need to be detached as possible. Emotional loss of control spells disaster.

Yes. ;)

Well I have to pick her up, its her car. I don't have a car right now, I sold it to start a business that flopped. Makes things a little difficult. I am going to need to stay for a couple weeks so I can save up enough to leave. As much as I would like to leave immediately I don't think I can...

Hey man, yeah I am up for whatever. I feel dejected, rejected and numb but I know this has been coming for a long time. Nothing more I can do except realize the reality that her love for me withered a long time ago. I am 31 so I have been through this before. This time I don't want to mope...

christz, you are right my friend. She has been trying to leave me for a long time and I always cling to her. I never wanted to lose her breaking a cardinal rule of manhood: nothing is forever. I have been through so much with her that is physically,mentally and emotionally almost impossible to...

Good words Wyldefire. You are spot on with your assesment of the situation. I just got this email from her after I wrote her a long letter stating how I felt about us: "I understand your view of the situation and I understand you don't want me to stay out all night. But what you fail to notice...

Yeah she did that the first time we broke up, never came home and showed up the next day. I am in a bit of a bind. I don't know anyone where I live(except the young college girl) and so I either need to get an apartment here and keep my same job or move out of state and stay with my mom until I...

Some good advice but I just emailed her and asked her what her intentions were as far as going out and if she was looking. She completely ignored that and said she would be staying overnight because "she didn't want to drink and drive" so as far as I'm concerned this relationship is OVER. I will...

What say all of you? When my girl goes out tonight even though I have said I didn't want her to, should I call the college chick and go party with her or stay home and play xbox and wonder if my girl(if Ican still call her that) is meeting other guys, screwing around, etc. Not long ago she said...