I had a flirt session the other day. Ran into her again today. What to make of her behavior?

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Pregnancy phobia is the only reason I don't want to bang her.

As I mentioned on a prior post, I'd still like to go on a date with her, kiss her, fondle her, and watch her pee.

Or even if none of the above were to happen, it would at least be nice if she'd continue flirting with me on subsequent visits. When I was 26-ish, I worked in the same shopping center as a Starbucks. A female Starbucks employee would flirt with me every time I went in.

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[Gamisch]

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I missed the "watch her pee" part.

I'm out dawg. This dude is a certified troll , probably bored in a stale marriage with a dead bedroom. Just messing with us and laughing whenever we respond.

PEACE

 

[GoodMan32]

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I've never mentioned the Starbucks flirter from when I was 26 before.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I agree with this if she was truly interested in that moment. I tend to think baristas/waitresses generally aren't interested in customers. On the off chance she was interested, then your analysis is perfect.

I think waitresses, tellers, and other customer service workers often show interest in you during the first 2-3 interactions. After that, if you continue returning, you become just another regular customer.

When I was younger, I used to go to this bank where an Eastern European woman would flirt with me every time I went in to make a deposit. I even earned some extra brownie points with her because one of my friends worked with her at a shoe store. Unfortunately, I never had the nerve to ask her out for various reasons.

More recently, in the past couple of months, I started picking up pizza from this hole in the wall spot instead of ordering through UberEats. One of the cashiers was a mid-sized woman who wore a push-up bra that noticeably increased the size of her breasts and made them bigger than what they were. During the first few visits, she seemed genuinely happy to see me, and there was one instance where I could have asked her out and she would have said yes right away. I didn’t, though, because I have a lot going on in my life. Now, she completely ignores me whenever I go in. It’s clear to me that the change in her behavior is her way of signaling disinterest, and I’ve subtly conveyed that I’m not interested either.

In the end, it’s clear that customer-service interactions are often fleeting, and the initial interest can quickly fade once you settle into the role of a regular customer. Whether it’s due to busy lives or changing dynamics, sometimes what seems like a potential connection just doesn’t develop the way you might hope.

 

[Gamisch]

I've never mentioned the Starbucks flirter from when I was 26 before.

I'll take the bait

A woman peeing is part of having a woman who feels comfortable around you. She won't care to do that with the door open. Another reason to cut out this bs and follow the principles. You read my thread about the basics. Shows again you know absolutely nothing about women...

You fecking freak.

 

[BaronOfHair]

She talked about my hair an awful lot. She asked if I dyed my hair, she said my hair looks good, she said she likes my haircut, she said my hair looks good a 2nd time.

After the 2nd time she said my hair looks good, I said "You look good too."



(To give you an idea of her looks, she's a busty Latina. I'd estimate she's early 20s. And even if she's older than early 20s, I'd say the odds are close to 100% she's below 30)

This is all likely much more foreboding than you recognize, if she's Latina from The Carribean