Getting with older women

[GoodMan32]

As for Iron Rule #5, think of my preference for older broads as my version of taking birth control into my own hands.

 

[SW15]

you don't find early 50s broads attractive.

I don't.

When I was under 25, I could admit there were attractive women in their 30s/40s. Right now, I still find women near my own age attractive. However, even an attractive 40 year old isn't looking as good as most 20-25 year olds.

As for Iron Rule #5, think of my preference for older broads as my version of taking birth control into my own hands.

That's an interpretation of Iron Rule of Tomassi #5, but far from what Rollo had in mind when he wrote that iron rule.

 

[itouchyou]

oldest I've been attracted to is 50, and she took really good care of herself.

can't imagine 65+. grannies? wot.

 

[Lean Baby Face]

Genuinely enjoying this thread. Just finished reading through it start to finish. Lots of informative and interesting inputs.

I'll admit my age preference is nearly identical to that of @GoodMan32, and my attraction to older women has only intensified since my divorce (ex-wife similar age to me).

I've come to a point now in my life where I love myself, my independence, my economic stability, my free time, my hobbies, and my physical and mental well-being, all which are things older women often love/feel as well, and therefore wanna continue living their lives that way. For that reason, older women are the perfect match for me.

I no longer want a full-time relationship with big plans and living in the future rather than the present. I just want a hot (at least for me and @GoodMan32 ), feminine, stable, and relaxed partner to be with on weekends, days off, or holidays, when I'm in need of feeling loved, desired, and feel masculine and sexy. Most older women want the exact same thing, unlike young women, whose standards have massively inflated and exclusively dates up to chase the best (and often unrealistic) living standards in the future.

Talking about looks, I also find that women below 30 look like girls to me. It's not that they're not attractive, I just can't imagine a partnership with them, including sexually. Maybe it's just a part of my personality, or my style, or maturity in comparison to my age. I also find that I thrive among older individuals in general as well. Most people at my job are also significantly older than me, and it has made significant (positive) changes to my personality.

Speaking of hot coworkers, my current job crush is a woman in her 60s, and soon we'll have an event and I'll be approaching her real deep this time. We've spoken and danced before, but I was married at that time, so wasn't really approaching back then.

 

[SW15]

oldest I've been attracted to is 50, and she took really good care of herself.

I can't recall a time in my life where I was attracted to a physically attracted to a woman 50+.

When I was under 25, there were times where I found women older than me physically attractive. A lot of woman are older than a guy who is under 25. I don't think it would be unusual for a 20 year old man to find a 30 year old woman physically attractive.

 

[GoodMan32]

I don't.

When I was under 25, I could admit there were attractive women in their 30s/40s. Right now, I still find women near my own age attractive. However, even an attractive 40 year old isn't looking as good as most 20-25 year olds.



That's an interpretation of Iron Rule of Tomassi #5, but far from what Rollo had in mind when he wrote that iron rule.

In that case, you're going to be in for a world of disappointment as you age.

As it is, it sounds like you aren't exactly thrilled about a 40 year old (even an attractive one). When you're 50 (which will come quickly; less than a decade away), you'll have a hard time getting a 40 year old at all (I remember you've said before on the forum that once you dip 10 years younger, it becomes next-to-impossible to get into her panties, as the broad thinks you're too old)

I, on the other hand, have nothing to fear about aging. If anything, I'm going to become more appealing to my preferred demographic as I age.

 

[GoodMan32]

oldest I've been attracted to is 50, and she took really good care of herself.

can't imagine 65+. grannies? wot.

I admit it's somewhat rare for me to be into 65+ (but it happens)

I know a 66 year old who looks awesome for her age. I'd be ecstatic to bang her.

Then there's the 65 year old I've been banging since she was 57. My attraction to her is fading. If it weren't for the fact I met her when I was more attracted to her, I'm pretty sure I'd cut her loose.

 

[GoodMan32]

Genuinely enjoying this thread. Just finished reading through it start to finish. Lots of informative and interesting inputs.

I'll admit my age preference is nearly identical to that of @GoodMan32, and my attraction to older women has only intensified since my divorce (ex-wife similar age to me).

I've come to a point now in my life where I love myself, my independence, my economic stability, my free time, my hobbies, and my physical and mental well-being, all which are things older women often love/feel as well, and therefore wanna continue living their lives that way. For that reason, older women are the perfect match for me.

I no longer want a full-time relationship with big plans and living in the future rather than the present. I just want a hot (at least for me and @GoodMan32 ), feminine, stable, and relaxed partner to be with on weekends, days off, or holidays, when I'm in need of feeling loved, desired, and feel masculine and sexy. Most older women want the exact same thing, unlike young women, whose standards have massively inflated and exclusively dates up to chase the best (and often unrealistic) living standards in the future.

Talking about looks, I also find that women below 30 look like girls to me. It's not that they're not attractive, I just can't imagine a partnership with them, including sexually. Maybe it's just a part of my personality, or my style, or maturity in comparison to my age. I also find that I thrive among older individuals in general as well. Most people at my job are also significantly older than me, and it has made significant (positive) changes to my personality.

Speaking of hot coworkers, my current job crush is a woman in her 60s, and soon we'll have an event and I'll be approaching her real deep this time. We've spoken and danced before, but I was married at that time, so wasn't really approaching back then.

Interesting how much we have in common. Per your profile, you're even younger than me. Yet you prefer the same age cohort I do.

I know what you mean about broads below 30 looking like girls.

Another thing we have in common is the fact we don't want a full time relationship; just a weekend smash-piece.

The coworkers I associate with the most tend to be much older female coworkers. I even had a mutually flirtatious dynamic with a 60 year old woman I worked with back when I was in my late 20s.

 

[GoodMan32]

I can't recall a time in my life where I was attracted to a physically attracted to a woman 50+.

When I was under 25, there were times where I found women older than me physically attractive. A lot of woman are older than a guy who is under 25. I don't think it would be unusual for a 20 year old man to find a 30 year old woman physically attractive.

Here's actress Helen Hunt back in her early 50s.



Then here's actress Kim Basinger in her early 50s



You're telling me you don't find either one attractive?