I attended a speed dating event today

[corrector]

I don't know why I even bother...

Because you are addicted.

 

[GoodMan32]

Find another female at a bar on a regular bar night.

If I recall, you made a post earlier in the thread telling me there's no way I'm ready for the bar scene in my city if I couldn't even succeed in the open floor setting at the speed dating event.

Some of the broads at the speed date had good discussions with me by the way. They really might have been open to receiving my contact information...if I had a chance to give my contact information.

 

[GoodMan32]

The obese chick I chatted with at the end of the speed dating event (in the hopes she'd offer her digits...but I wasn't into her enough to request her digits) reminds me of this hilarious song about dumpster diving:

 

[SW15]

If I recall, you made a post earlier in the thread telling me there's no way I'm ready for the bar scene in my city if I couldn't even succeed in the open floor setting at the speed dating event.

If you can't effectively navigate open interaction at a singles events/speed dating, then you're not socially equipped to handle a regular bar night.

Speed dating and singles events are dog crap quality.

You will need to enhance social skills before then.

You won't need as much in the way of social skills if you are fit/muscular. Attraction and seduction is the combination of looks, money, status, and personality. Looks and money are most important but personality counts for something.

 

[GoodMan32]

If you can't effectively navigate open interaction at a singles events/speed dating, then you're not socially equipped to handle a regular bar night.

Speed dating and singles events are dog crap quality.

You will need to enhance social skills before then.

You won't need as much in the way of social skills if you are fit/muscular. Attraction and seduction is the combination of looks, money, status, and personality. Looks and money are most important but personality counts for something.

My social skills are a lot better than they were in high school. Unfortunately, I'm wondering if I've reached the ceiling of how far an autist can ascend (in terms of social skills).

Perhaps @BeExcellent can chime in. She's married to a man with ASD who managed to put a ring on the finger of a woman as beautiful as her.

 

[GoodMan32]

If you can't effectively navigate open interaction at a singles events/speed dating, then you're not socially equipped to handle a regular bar night.

Speed dating and singles events are dog crap quality.

You will need to enhance social skills before then.

You won't need as much in the way of social skills if you are fit/muscular. Attraction and seduction is the combination of looks, money, status, and personality. Looks and money are most important but personality counts for something.

Also, I should ask: What would you do in an environment where, other than an obese chick, every woman is already engaged in a discussion with another guy?

(Even though that's the description of the open session of my speed dating event, I imagine a lot of bar settings come with similar scenarios)

 

[BaronOfHair]

Also, I should ask: What would you do in an environment where, other than an obese chick, every woman is already engaged in a discussion with another guy?

Go to an environment where this isn't the case. You wouldn't continue dear hunting in Downtown Chicago, after discovering that the only thing there in need of picking off were the dope fiends who litter The Windy City's street corners

Same is true when it comes to not only dating and mating, but everything else in life. Don't like the increasingly non-existent job market in Akron? Move to Tampa, where new tech companies are popping up faster than penises each time Sydney Sweeney slips into a string bikini, and film production is burgeoning now that folks are finally realizing what a shi-hole GA is. Accept that proceeds of your move will come with a few piss-ups, such as having to contend with the occasional hurricane

 

[corrector]

Also, I should ask: What would you do in an environment where, other than an obese chick, every woman is already engaged in a discussion with another guy?

(Even though that's the description of the open session of my speed dating event, I imagine a lot of bar settings come with similar scenarios)

You mentioned that you have wealthy parents. Have they tried to set you up with someone before?