Because you are addicted.I don't know why I even bother...
Because you are addicted.I don't know why I even bother...
If I recall, you made a post earlier in the thread telling me there's no way I'm ready for the bar scene in my city if I couldn't even succeed in the open floor setting at the speed dating event.Find another female at a bar on a regular bar night.
If you can't effectively navigate open interaction at a singles events/speed dating, then you're not socially equipped to handle a regular bar night.If I recall, you made a post earlier in the thread telling me there's no way I'm ready for the bar scene in my city if I couldn't even succeed in the open floor setting at the speed dating event.
My social skills are a lot better than they were in high school. Unfortunately, I'm wondering if I've reached the ceiling of how far an autist can ascend (in terms of social skills).If you can't effectively navigate open interaction at a singles events/speed dating, then you're not socially equipped to handle a regular bar night.
Speed dating and singles events are dog crap quality.
You will need to enhance social skills before then.
You won't need as much in the way of social skills if you are fit/muscular. Attraction and seduction is the combination of looks, money, status, and personality. Looks and money are most important but personality counts for something.
Also, I should ask: What would you do in an environment where, other than an obese chick, every woman is already engaged in a discussion with another guy?If you can't effectively navigate open interaction at a singles events/speed dating, then you're not socially equipped to handle a regular bar night.
Speed dating and singles events are dog crap quality.
You will need to enhance social skills before then.
You won't need as much in the way of social skills if you are fit/muscular. Attraction and seduction is the combination of looks, money, status, and personality. Looks and money are most important but personality counts for something.
Go to an environment where this isn't the case. You wouldn't continue dear hunting in Downtown Chicago, after discovering that the only thing there in need of picking off were the dope fiends who litter The Windy City's street cornersAlso, I should ask: What would you do in an environment where, other than an obese chick, every woman is already engaged in a discussion with another guy?
You mentioned that you have wealthy parents. Have they tried to set you up with someone before?Also, I should ask: What would you do in an environment where, other than an obese chick, every woman is already engaged in a discussion with another guy?
(Even though that's the description of the open session of my speed dating event, I imagine a lot of bar settings come with similar scenarios)