See my above post.... Will Smith has options beyond what any man in history could dream of. So if the mindset part is moot, why doesn't he have abundance, why did he develop onetis?
Only if every man in history started his career as a gay Black dude in 90s Hollywood, who's now trapped in a marriage that exists just for the sake of maintaining his image
I think it's actually both.
Yes this is pretty much spot on
it’s well known and documented that celebs are completely depraved and have been involved in crazy sex orgies, sans p. diddy. With will smith i think it’s more complicated because there’s hundreds of millions of dollars involved if he were to get a divorce.
Looks really don't matter a whole lot (when it comes to abundance)
Eminem is another celebrity example.
I'm, if anything, less desirable than I was in my early 20s. Yet I have much higher standards now than I did back then (in terms of how much nonsense I'm willing to tolerate from a woman). In my early 20s, I was willing to be with just about anyone.
when I was 13 I was a complete nerd and considered ugly by all my female classmates. My mother enrolled me in boxing and kickboxing classes and I developed a more masculine body after puberty. With that, the abundance started rolling in. I was “instinctually” abundant. I could try to develop some pseudo psych technique called “abundance mindset” but none of that would have been as effective as being a physically masculine dude that made teenage girls wet.
Fat chicks can have standards too (and many do), but that doesn’t create abundance. Raising your personal value is what creates actual abundance.
Both. They're congruent with each other.
I appreciate your responses. I come from the zen tradition of being mindless. The equation with women is very simple. Increase your value = getting laid. You don’t have to waste a single brain cell. There are millions of people in therapy that never get anywhere.
It's because they're not evolved which is their choice. I see it on every forum I'm on.
The people who do not get laid, despite wanting to and receiving constant advice from those who do, often suffer from conviction bias. This means they believe in their ideas so strongly that they assume they must be true. Deep down, they may have doubts, which drives them to go the extra mile to convince themselves of their beliefs and to contradict anyone who challenges them. They struggle to stay true to themselves, especially when their ideas seem undeniably true and evoke such strong emotions to defend them.
Yes, emotional intelligence comes from the gut, not the mind! If anything if you find yourself out in the field thinking about mindsets, you’re screwed! lol. Everyone with field experience knows the goal is to be out of your head. And that “gut instinct” can only be developed from personal integrity of having daily habits that improves you as a person.
I will have to think about that one!
The way for emotional control and to bring out the rational self is through self-awareness, examining emotions, delaying reactions, accepting people's nature, and finding a balance between thinking and feeling. It's not just about "gut”.
Speak for yourself. I'm an attractive dude and women give me a lot of looks...but I will go from being invisible and repulsive to desirable and chased, and it is entirely dependant on my mental state and it's happened so many times it's incredibly self-evident it has nothing to do with my current "roster" of plates or lackthereof.
And what do you think determines your mental state? Is it not daily habits that improves your value? So doesn’t that make abundance a process and not a mere mindset that anyone can adopt? Can a lazy person have the same mentality as Michael Jordan or Kobe Bryant? These guys take 1000 shots a day. They don’t wake up in the morning thinking about their mindsets. They put in work.
