SW15
Master Don Juan
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True. Most men end up doing some inane activity more frequently than a woman having sex whenever, especially the longer a relationship lasts.A woman shouldn't expect us to drop everything to do some inane activity she feels is important in that moment unless she is willing to also have sex whenever and wherever we want it.
A lot of men would rather spend time with other men if it is just generally spending time together and not having sex.It sounds simple because it is. If she isn't putting out, there really isn't a lot of reason for the relationship. I tend to have more fun with the boys if I just want someone to watch TV with. And I don't have to deal with the attitude that comes with.
Male-male friendships are often lower drama than male-female romantic relationships.
This is true and part of why I have famously said on this board that the shelf life of goodness in an LTR is somewhere around 5 years. Male frame decay does start to become more noticeable around that point in time.The sad reality is that after a certain amount of time in an LTR (usually 5 years), this line in the sand approach only goes so far. They typically just become sullen, start shutting down, and giving you a sh1tty silent treatment. If you start throwing kids into the mix that get even get expedited. Really, your only option at that point is the threat to walk (dread game). Which in itself takes effort to apply effectively.