I will make separate topics on what type of men benefit from Cold Approaching & Warm Approaching/Social Circle Game, but lets start with the most viable option for most men. -
Sure it is the most
viable option..
It is the most
viable option for men who are afraid to cold approach.
Time and Cost Efficiency: When someone claims that dating apps are a waste of time, it's clear they're just talking without experience in approaching women in the field.
OLD isn't a waste of time.
If the aim is to get as many women as possible, then OLD is just one tool in the toolbox.
But again, most men only use that tool because they are too chicken-sh!t to use one of the other tools (cold approach) because that tool is to big and intimidating.
How is online dating a waste of time when you can swipe and message women while multitasking, like when you're on the toilet, between workout sets, on the treadmill, at work, or on your couch? Cold approaching requires a significant time commitment, and unless you live near a popular spot (which often comes with high rent), you need to consider logistics and social expenses like food, transportation, and drinks.
With all due respect, that's bullsh!t.
Sure, generally speaking, OLD is very convenient for the reasons you mentioned.
But so is cold approaching..unless you are a fat lazy slob who sits on your azz all day (beyond the scope of what you mentioned).
If you actually have a life and do normal sh!t like, I don't know; going grocery shopping...or, going to the gym...or, going to work.
If you live a normal life, you will pass and encounter countless women, all of whom you can approach if you had the balls to do so.
Enhanced Chances of Meeting Outside of Clubs/Bars:
Guess what, cold approach provides that as well.
It is called: DAY GAME.
Do you know what you can do if you want to enhance your chances of meeting women outside of club/bars??
You approach women OUTSIDE OF CLUBS AND BARS.
Elimination of Dead-End Encounters: Dead-end encounters are rejections beyond your control due to factors like a woman's emotional availability, personality preferences, height, race, or the timing of the month. For example, as a person of color in the South, many women may not consider dating a brown guy. Cold approaching random women under these circumstances could result in 99 rejections out of 100, negatively impacting your confidence.
What is this, the 1950's?
Interracial dating is higher in society now more than it has ever been, along with the public approval of it.
So miss me with that bullsh!t.
On dating apps, every girl you match with is open to dating a brown guy, eliminating that barrier. Similarly, for white guys, you can go out, look your best, have great game, and still face rejection for not meeting specific preferences like height, tattoos, vegan lifestyle, or glasses. Wasting 5-10 minutes on a doomed from the start cold approach is more devasting than wasting time on a Tinder conversation. Every girl you match with on online dating has some interest in you for a reason eliminating these Dead-End Encounters.
Yeah, and with cold approach, you eliminate dead in encounters by only approaching women that you are attracted to.
If you (in general) follow my advice and not spend 5-10 minutes talking to the bytch in the first place..then those 15 secs it takes to ask for her number (whether you get it or not) in real time will give you quicker closure than it will take for an online bytch to respond to your messages.
Mitigation of Social Repercussion Risk: Approaching every girl at your workplace risks consequences such as termination or facing allegations. Similarly, hitting on every girl at a party can lead to being escorted out for making women uncomfortable. Mistakes in approaching a girl within your social circle, or even breaking up with one, can result in being excluded from friends and social activities.
Whewww thank goodness there is a big world out there besides
workplace or
party environments.
Thank goodness there are places like grocery stores, libraries, parks, coffee shops, beaches, malls.
Advantageous Numbers Game: Cold approaching is only viable in a few locations nationwide, and social circle or warm approaches typically yield limited results.
What?????
Dude, that is complete and utter NONSENSE.
WTF are you talking about "few locations national wide".
Women are EVERYWHERE. Wherever there are women, there is the opportunity to cold approach.
???
In contrast, online dating provides access to hundreds of potential matches.
So does cold approaching.
With cold approaching, you have the opportunity to approach hundreds of potential
matches, in real time, up close and personal.
I'd rather have azz & titties in front of me, instead of via pictures.
For many men, warm approaches and social circles are not even feasible options. With Tinder, you receive five likes per day, which totals 150 likes per month, while maximizing cold approach efforts, comparable to dating coaches, may result in around 120 approaches.
Um, no.
The difference is, with cold approach,
you decide how many women
you approach.
To hell with 5 likes per day, I can approach 5 women PER HOUR...easily.
And I am out between 3-5 hours per day.
Now, YOU do the math on that one.
Reduced Threat from "Chads": In warm approach and social circle environments, the presence of a Chad can pose significant competition, with every girl vying for their attention regardless of their relationship status within the group. On dating apps, although these men may receive the most matches, they can only devote their attention to a limited number of connections (1-3 at best). This lowers your chances of directly competing against a "Chad."
Competing against a "Chad"?
Dude, with OLD, you are competing against DOZENS upon DOZENS upon DOZENS of horny men.
Good luck with that.
And those same guys that you are competing with, I'm not.
Because those same guys aren't out in the field cold approaching..so I have the whole bag of money to myself.
Personal Safety: Cold approaching in popular city spots can expose you to encounters with criminals or drunken individuals. Engaging in day game in the wrong area may result in encounters with beta males or police interventions under the guise of "rescuing a distressed woman."
And guess what cold approaching doesn't expose you to?
Catfishing.
Showcasing Instead of Telling: Imagine being a wealthy individual who owns a G-Wagon, travels first class to destinations like Dubai or Monaco, and has a beautiful golden doodle. Instead of verbally boasting about these accomplishments to random women upfront and appearing as a showoff, you can simply present them on your dating profile, allowing hundreds of girls to see them instantly.
Orrr..
You can be a wealthy individual who owns a G-wagon, cold approach a chick, hit it off, and she gradually gets to see what a man she is lucky enough to encounter.
