Why Online Dating(OLD) is the best option for most men

[Hamurabimbi]

Great, please do that when you see them in July and let us know! So, two girls were both hitting on you, including the fat wing-lady? They were both competing over you or were they looking for a FFM threesome? It's just curious as a wing-lady normally supposed to hit on someone else in the group while the main girl focus on you. Did you get laid with one or both of them?

Did you get the same reaction with Black and Filipina girls too? Your 6 buddies, you've mentioned one of them was White, and the other was Happa, how about the other four? Lets say you go to conventions with your friends and you mentioned you hung out with a black girl(s) that came on to you. Where were your friends when you were with these girls?

A big game convention is coming soon. Should be interesting.

 

[corrector]

I’m not sure I understand this question.

Has other types of women, aside from the Latina ladies, approached afterwards?

 

[SW15]

You are very lucky if you genuinely enjoy that kind of stuff (if you are being honest). Most heterosexual men find salsa, bachata, etc. about as enjoyable as writing a math exam.

Most heterosexual men are losers, with an dead end job, overweight and with nothing going on for themselves.

It is an unfair categorization to say that most heterosexual men find salsa, bachata, and other forms of Latin music unenjoyable. Many Hispanic men enjoy Latin music and learn to dance the Latin dance styles associated with them. @All_Kindz_Of_Gainz is fortunate that he developed an interest in Latin music and Latin styles of dance. A Hispanic man who is good at dancing the Latin styles of dance often has to potential to do very well with Hispanic women.

@All_Kindz_Of_Gainz is also correct that most heterosexual men are not in a good position. Losers might be going too far. Too many are overweight though.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I think Black women is like shooting fish in the barrel for most white guys. Most of those hundreds of guys messaging her were probably black or mixed with black right?

one time I gave a black woman a chance and she gave me that feminist girl boss vibe and I unmatched lol

 

[kavi]

It is an unfair categorization to say that most heterosexual men find salsa, bachata, and other forms of Latin music unenjoyable. Many Hispanic men enjoy Latin music and learn to dance the Latin dance styles associated with them. @All_Kindz_Of_Gainz is fortunate that he developed an interest in Latin music and Latin styles of dance. A Hispanic man who is good at dancing the Latin styles of dance often has to potential to do very well with Hispanic women.

@All_Kindz_Of_Gainz is also correct that most heterosexual men are not in a good position. Losers might be going too far. Too many are overweight though.

I knew this mid 20s venezuelan white guy he said he meets many women from salsa and this guy told me he had no problems getting nsa sex from these women but he said he cudnt keep them and that seemed to hurt him still he told me he cud get all types of women from that and i believed him he that player friendly sleazy vibe to him, but he was a nice guy.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I knew this mid 20s venezuelan white guy he said he meets many women from salsa and this guy told me he had no problems getting nsa sex from these women but he said he cudnt keep them and that seemed to hurt him still he told me he cud get all types of women from that and i believed him he that player friendly sleazy vibe to him, but he was a nice guy.

He's a novelty item to them. You still need a cultural connection for LTR and that could've been a weak point for him.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

one time I gave a black woman a chance and she gave me that feminist girl boss vibe and I unmatched lol

You're in Florida, right? If you game black girls in an area where there are a bunch of hot girls from other races, they get edgy. Arizona is like this, Atlanta was not and San Diego was not due to it being a sausagefest. They *do not* like having to compete with women from other races.

 

[Solomon]

I think OLD had its peak at some point where it was efficient to meet women through. I think the 2010s were the peaks for the dating apps and I would have weeks where I got 4 to 5 dates off of them which turned to lays. However, I think that now, they have become a money grab infested with bots and fake profiles. They use deceptive marketing and other under-handed tricks to make you pay and resetting your profile to get a new ELO score has become darn near impossible.

Here is a good read

Attention men: get rid of online dating, now

Online dating is now a waste of time for men in 2021.

bowtiedplayer.substack.com

I remember I was online dating as young as college I was always a computer guy from a young age. I think OLD peaked a long time ago and agree with you. There are spurs of moments though where you can eat (Christmas-Before Valentine's) But if you're not handsome or the best-looking guy in 2023 you're gonna be swiping a lot and usually end up with a subpar match

OP you can message women all day on these apps , a lot of guys do

Women don't have that much going on in their lives they mainly download these apps to kill time and garner attention , ive actually had multiple women tell me they download the apps with ABSOLUTLEY NO INTENTION OF GOING ON DATES

If you are going to get led on a path to absolutely nowhere it will be on a dating app

As I've already stated a 1000 times here there are only so many avenues of conversation you can have with someone you haven't met and barely know

when you approach a woman in the real world you will know within about 10 mins wether she is interested or not , and the even bigger bonus is that you can actually judge her vibe and her personality

OLD is a waste of time for most men, not only are the women bottom of the barrel but just the energy you have to put into to get a date in 2023 is ridiculous

Totally agree I always talk about Social circle because it does work. A lot of guys don't wanna hear that but honestly, you can meet average to Uber hot chicks in those depending on your social circle type. The hottest chicks that are girlfriend material don't need to be on swipe apps it tends to be the 304s/party girls who already have been ran through that I see on these apps using it to supplement IRL(the reason they use it is because everyone in their social circle knows they are 304s so they tend to get pumped and dumped). If you can't get a social circle get a passport. There is a Youtuber who couldn't get a date making a 100K a year in the states hes now going on 2-4 dates a week overseas

This is a cringe thread

Most women above average women do not have a tinder profile mainly because of the quality of men they see is really bad

if you want to bang from the bottom of the barrel, then yeah might be a decent strategy… otherwise just go for game in real life

Excatly you have incels in here talking about being sub-5 crap. A lot of guys really need to focus on getting their money up. It's not about tricking but the fact that money gives you access to better women, social circles, venues, traveling, lifestyle etc. When I was broke I had to use swipe apps a lot and it was awful once I started to make more money the quality not just of my life went up but the quality of women I was dating. You don't have to be a millionaire in most cases. Just make 2X what the average guy in your city makes.

The reality is though the average member won't put in the work and that's fine. The game is survival of the fittest as it should be. Women don't want to procreate with weak men and Top tier guys don't want to procreate with ugly women. You have to adapt, improve or get left behind and die!

 

[Bigpapa]

I remember I was online dating as young as college I was always a computer guy from a young ag



Excatly you have incels in here talking about being sub-5 crap. A lot of guys really need to focus on getting their money up. It's not about tricking but the fact that money gives you access to better women, social circles, venues, traveling, lifestyle etc. When I was broke I had to use swipe apps a lot and it was awful once I started to make more money the quality not just of my life went up but the quality of women I was dating. You don't have to be a millionaire in most cases. Just make 2X what the average guy in your city makes.

The reality is though the average member won't put in the work and that's fine. The game is survival of the fittest as it should be. Women don't want to procreate with weak men and Top tier guys don't want to procreate with ugly women. You have to adapt, improve or get left behind and die!

I agree with you, as long it is does not get derailed that you need to be rich or stuff like that to have a dating life

if you are a lower, you can be Elon musk rich, you would still s8ck with women

what matters is how you spend the money ( even if it is not a lot)

For example you can hire a fashion stylist to come with you and help you with buying clothes, if you have no idea about fashion

or go to a solid hair stylist

or just go to the cool bars , cafes, clubs and spend enough till you become a regular and get some status

basically living a life of a true high value guy, that does exciting stuff most of the time

if you make 1 million a year and you just work, all the money in the world will not help you get laid ( unless you go for escorts and stuff along this line)

women do not care per se about how much money you have, but they do care if you are a guy who really respects himself and is an interesting person