Guys who have used Seeking Arrangements and done Sugar dating, experiences?

[Jesse Pinkman]

To clarify, I paid the membership fee for the site, but not the girls for their "time."

Yeah, I had to filter those out hard but I think it could be a location thing. In South Florida, the Sugar Dating culture is more prominent than maybe anywhere else in the country. You get a lot of older guys who are retired with women who are just waiting for them to pass so they can inherit their stuff. Tons of simps willing to please her so women feel entitled to a PPM.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Update, I am getting some traction with Seeking Arrangements and @Dash Riprock has given me some advice over DM. I will let everyone know of how it all goes relatively soon. You do have to screen hard on the site though, it is crawling with escorts and women looking to leech off of you at every turn.

 

[eli77]

Do not take what I said as an insult man, even if I sounded harsh, but I am genuinely trying to help you. I know I went on a rant because I have dealt with so many crappy wings that ruined my game sessions in recent weeks. Please take my feedback serious bro, I bet if you started a cold approach log right now on this forum and had it go for 20+ pages of you taking action, dudes would proactively reach out to network with you and meet up. I have had this happened plenty of times since I did my field report thread.

I really meant well and hope your legal case goes for the best.

Not at all i know what my strength are no worries.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Update, I am getting some traction with Seeking Arrangements and @Dash Riprock has given me some advice over DM. I will let everyone know of how it all goes relatively soon. You do have to screen hard on the site though, it is crawling with escorts and women looking to leech off of you at every turn.

If you can try and get a feel for the different ways in which the cool dtf chicks and the escorts/diggers look and present themselves. Dress, vibe, eyes, etc. I do this on Tinder and can get a good feel just from a very quick glance at their main pic.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Not at all i know what my strength are no worries.

Persistence is a virtue.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I Know some guys who have done, it's a degenerate rabbit-hole OP.
I remember talking to a buddy of mine and he mentioned something I found very interesting. The same girls on these sugardaddies sites that want their rent/bills paid for are the same girls looking for love on Tinder/bumble. Imagine the girl won't give you the time of day Unless you go "Zion WIlliamson" on her(for those that don't know Zion Williamson is a 22 year old 2-time All-star NBA player who allegedly is paying an ex-run-through pornstar a 107K allowance a month)

There is a guy who has to pay and a guy who gets it for free, why pay for something you can get for free?

Why buy a take out meal instead of cooking one yourself? The answer is:

a) laziness;
b) lack of time to make it yourself; or
c) lack of skill to male it yourself.

Same logic applies to why men pay for wh0res.

 

[Solomon]

Why buy a take out meal instead of cooking one yourself? The answer is:

a) laziness;
b) lack of time to make it yourself; or
c) lack of skill to male it yourself.

Same logic applies to why men pay for wh0res.

Fair point but I rather not pay for pom pom with money It's degenerate loser behavior IMO there are girls giving up Pom Pom for free every day. If it means I gotta spend more time than the guy paying so be it.

Genuine burning desire cannot be bought

 

[Dr.Suave]

Fair point but I rather not pay for pom pom with money It's degenerate loser behavior IMO there are girls giving up Pom Pom for free every day. If it means I gotta spend more time than the guy paying so be it.

Genuine burning desire cannot be bought

"Degenreate loser behavior" is a fair personal opinion in most cases. But I would imagine a few guys out there that have way more money than time. I wouldnt recommend them to wife one of them up and start a family but if the goal was only some casual sex, I guess it just makes sense for them.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Genuine burning desire cannot be bought

To be fair, it's often not easily sold (i.e., removed when necessary)

 

[BillyPilgrim]

But I would imagine a few guys out there that have way more money than time. I wouldnt recommend them to wife one of them up and start a family but if the goal was only some casual sex, I guess it just makes sense for them.

Imo it's a valuing of both time *and* focus

 

[The Duke]

Fair point but I rather not pay for pom pom with money It's degenerate loser behavior IMO there are girls giving up Pom Pom for free every day. If it means I gotta spend more time than the guy paying so be it.

Genuine burning desire cannot be bought

I've had "genuine burning desire" burn out 6wks later too. Must have been the cluster B in her! haha

 

[Solomon]

I've had "genuine burning desire" burn out 6wks later too. Must have been the cluster B in her! haha

Those are the best in the sack but their crazy I was dealing with one earlier this year, a hot chick with a tight body in her late 30s but the sex wasn't worth it, I remember we got into a fight one night via text I went to bed and woke up to 800 text messages

 

[corsica]

If you can try and get a feel for the different ways in which the cool dtf chicks and the escorts/diggers look and present themselves. Dress, vibe, eyes, etc. I do this on Tinder and can get a good feel just from a very quick glance at their main pic.

I was just checking my dormant account and it's from 2016!
I'm checking again and most of the girls look too prostitute/gold-digger vibes. I searched for 18-25 and see a bunch of late 30s-40s instead. Strangely enough, I am seeing many pictures I've seen before. Probably fake accounts or girls who created a new profile years later (and are using old pictures).

There's a reason I stay away from OLD. Bad vibes.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Fair point but I rather not pay for pom pom with money It's degenerate loser behavior IMO there are girls giving up Pom Pom for free every day. If it means I gotta spend more time than the guy paying so be it.

Genuine burning desire cannot be bought

Can’t argue with that.

 

[corrector]

Where is the update?

 

[Slowhandluke]

Fair point but I rather not pay for pom pom with money It's degenerate loser behavior IMO there are girls giving up Pom Pom for free every day. If it means I gotta spend more time than the guy paying so be it.

Genuine burning desire cannot be bought

50% of the burning desire are snuffed out within a few years ending up with the woman taking half the $$$, the house, and the kids... and both hating each other.

Genuine burning desire is over rated.

 

[corsica]

Fair point but I rather not pay for pom pom with money It's degenerate loser behavior IMO there are girls giving up Pom Pom for free every day. If it means I gotta spend more time than the guy paying so be it.

Genuine burning desire cannot be bought

Tell me how to bang a 25yo girl as a 60yo man without being a degenerate loser? I don't think my preference will change two decades from now and if I have to pay for the age gap, I will do it happily.

How do you deal with a burning desire to bang beautiful 20yo girls if you're ugly, short, bald and let's say... Indian?


Both the Indian and the old man have the opportunity of banging young and beautiful girls by paying. The girls might not like it but I'm sure the guys would rather do that than banging an old and/or ugly woman. I would not call them losers since I think they're closer to winning.

 

[bat soup]

I supposed at least you are guaranteed that the women on there are skanky. They can't join seeking arrangements and then say they´re just there to "make new friends". I haven´t tried it, but I´d imagine you´d meet women that are willing to put out than the timewasters/Instagram attention seekers on Tinder. Also, you´d filter out the average picky woman looking for Mr Right. Yawn.

 

[bat soup]

50% of the burning desire are snuffed out within a few years ending up with the woman taking half the $$$, the house, and the kids... and both hating each other.

Genuine burning desire is over rated.

Burning desire to date a chubby sidekick with a CEO t-shirt.

 

[eli77]

If you can try and get a feel for the different ways in which the cool dtf chicks and the escorts/diggers look and present themselves. Dress, vibe, eyes, etc. I do this on Tinder and can get a good feel just from a very quick glance at their main pic.

Love it