This thread has been hijacked lol, but everything seems fine. She isn't a 'girl' she's a woman and her texts sound light hearted and flirty. Don't read into it too much. Get her on the date, hang out and have fun. Don't force anything and don't be disingenuous, she'll see through it. You can be direct in your interest and it sounds like you have, she knows you like her.
This^^^
The thread is about a situation on text gone poorly after a successful pickup if memory serves. I then posted mine which was moving in the right direction. It serves two purposes: one, what a good exchange looks like so others can maybe learn something from it (that’s why we’re all here right?). Two, to get technically proficient. I am not a ‘dater’ I am a meet a middle 20’s 7+ girl on the weekend and attempt to smash kind of guy for the moment. But what can I say, someone did catch my eye. I have not withheld that. at the same time, ask the women on this thread if I am being overly needy, I think they’d agree if anything i am almost icing the girl out. But to your point, yeah I am way in my head. I need to loosen up. I always go form first and then go style, that’s just how I operate. When I get this down I’ll be ****ing my kids teacher
Nah I think you're doing totally fine and the ladies input was great. Nothing wrong with genuinely being interested in someone
I know right? crazy! lolAnd showing it....
Whackos, leave em with love and if they come back leave em with a restraining order
Yeah she sounds like a whack job.
Like two pages earlier you were saying I basically dgaf
Alright so, I’m going to work in the city today, drive in and I’ll call her end of day. last time out we discussed the best slice in Brooklyn maybe the city. So I’m grabbing that and their Spumoni and then I’ll ‘drop off the hat’.
Save the pizza for another night. She texted me this morning telling me she was freezing and confirming I was coming by later, and that she would have to grab me dinner to thank me for the trip. Kinda like the locked door test in Bronx tale, like the attitude
You weren’t wrong about this. She mentioned just in passing that she figured I wasn’t into her when I didn’t text her that time I got back My head is a little disconnected atm so I’ll add later it was a long night
The biggest thing people do to screw themselves out of chances with women these days is to obsess over texting frequency and start double texting asking if "everything is OK" as if they are afraid they are going to lose the girl. I don't think you are doing that so that's good.
I hate NYC pizza. I know it's designed to be able to fold and walk with but it still tastes like cardboard with sauce on it to me.
Not Sicilian. Deep dish, sauce, sprinkling of parm. Totally different. Probably the best slice in the city
That's Chicago Style haha
No, look up Sicilian. Trust me I did not get Chicago style last night in Bensonhurst Brooklyn lol
If it don't have cup and char pepperoni on it, I don't eat it. For those that have never had cup and char pepperoni you haven't had good pizza yet
I messaged her to go out on a date and her texting sped up to the point I've had to pull back and focus on my day. Like a complete role reversal. We are both busy over the next couple of weeks so just need to keep her warm until I can get her out.
