A Woman Can't Flake On You; If You Do This...MODE ONE!!! Part 2

[BillyPilgrim]

Mode One attempt on phone. Disaster

Update. So I called, ended up talking longer than i should have probably. About 40 minutes. I was really just throwing word salad out until I could frame my Mode One properly. I hadn’t spoken to her in about 3 months so it was some catching up but that got out of the way quickly enough.

It got complicated when the conversation got into the topic of her divorce. It wasn’t somewhere I was trying to go but it was inevitable. I tried to steer away from that but she asked how the kids were doing and then she explained her daughter has this tablet and texts her after awhile because she is clingy….She’s sexy so I want to hit it but the adage from Jerry McGuire is so true about the single mom. I guess my ideas vs real life are not close.

We got to that point at least because I was saying, look honestly it would be great to just have you over here, throw a movie on and see where it goes… and she was receptive (love that at least) but she said that she was going to miss putting the kids to bed and then I tried to figure out a midpoint. I know what you guys are going to say… I fvcked up and made an offer to hang on Monday at a local place and grab drinks but I may get bailed out on a snow day. If we do hang Monday, maybe we can fvck in the car? If we don’t hang Monday it’s probably going to be a week or longer which is whatever at this point. Pretty sure mama bear wants to fvck but that kid with the tablet is gonna block me I can feel it.

idk man. I kind of felt her with seeing the kids. Ok tear me apart folks.

You gotta catch up over text and go for the call once she's in a sexy mood. Otherwise the phone call is a minefield, it can go too quickly into interview mode where you can't self-censor your responses or direct the convo in the way you can over text. The fast pace of a phone convo makes it too chaotic and unpredictable, phone calls are too hard to steer compared to text.

With text, you can cut off cans of worms before they are opened.

 

[Divorced w 3]

 

[Divorced w 3]

You gotta catch up over text and go for the call once she's in a sexy mood. Otherwise the phone call is a minefield, it can go too quickly into interview mode where you can't self-censor your responses or direct the convo in the way you can over text. The fast pace of a phone convo makes it too chaotic and unpredictable, phone calls are too hard to steer compared to text.

With text, you can cut off cans of worms before they are opened.

I thought I had … see shots. And then it got sidetracked… I was waiting multiple hours in between, but when I texted she replied immediately… and after she sent the selfies I didn’t say a word, called almost 8 hours later. She picked right up. So I figured IOI wise I was in business….and I still am, the first thing I suggested on the phone was how about just coming here, let’s get something and watch a movie. And that’s when the can of worms about clingy daughter with the iPad messenger came out. Mama drama. I guess it’s a real thing. First time dipping into this water.

Was gonna try throwing the moves on my former neighbor at my sons party this weekend. We used to eye fvck each other constantly in the course of our respective marriages. But maybe not. Lol. And that neighbor went out of her way with he girlfriend to walk like halfway across the public venue with her girlfriend to come see me during the Halloween parade.,, Maybe her daughters don’t do the iPad message

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

@Divorced w 3 nothing you are doing is mode one bro. Have you even read the book? If you go longer than 15 min in a convo (phone or in person) without telling her you want to **** her or share her company one on one in an intimate fashion than you are being mode 2. Everything you've showed on this thread is mode 2. @We_ArE_VeNOM seems to have a decent grasp on mode one, but please dude stop calling wtf you're doing mode one because it's not, respectfully. @BillyPilgrim made a great point about the pros and cons of phone vs text. As I said before, you have to be a smooth and erotically dominant verbal seducer to really reap the benefits of mode one, especially on the phone. ARC's book Oooh Say It Again is where you learn all of the verbal seduction techniques that are needed to get girls wet with your words. MODE ONE is the book where you learn how to state your intentions and desires in an up front and highly self assured manner IN ORDER TO DETECT whether the women is a reciprocator, rejecter, or wholesome pretender... This is why it saves time, effort, and teaches men how to grow a pair of balls and be indifferent to rejection.

There's nothing wrong with being vague, ambiguous, subliminal, it's just that it is pro longing rejection, hence why many beta male types prefer this because they are scared of rejection. Mode one is a legit toolbox for beta males to transform into alphas with their COMMUNICATION.

 

[Divorced w 3]

@Divorced w 3 nothing you are doing is mode one bro. Have you even read the book? If you go longer than 15 min in a convo (phone or in person) without telling her you want to **** her or share her company one on one in an intimate fashion than you are being mode 2. Everything you've showed on this thread is mode 2. @We_ArE_VeNOM seems to have a decent grasp on mode one, but please dude stop calling wtf you're doing mode one because it's not, respectfully. @BillyPilgrim made a great point about the pros and cons of phone vs text. As I said before, you have to be a smooth and erotically dominant verbal seducer to really reap the benefits of mode one, especially on the phone. ARC's book Oooh Say It Again is where you learn all of the verbal seduction techniques that are needed to get girls wet with your words. MODE ONE is the book where you learn how to state your intentions and desires in an up front and highly self assured manner IN ORDER TO DETECT whether the women is a reciprocator, rejecter, or wholesome pretender... This is why it saves time, effort, and teaches men how to grow a pair of balls and be indifferent to rejection.

There's nothing wrong with being vague, ambiguous, subliminal, it's just that it is pro longing rejection, hence why many beta male types prefer this because they are scared of rejection. Mode one is a legit toolbox for beta males to transform into alphas with their COMMUNICATION.

you’re either not reading the thread or youre trolling… I am reading Ooooh Say it Again already.

tell you what,even though I have been very open that I am trying a new technique here, how about you post some of your own work so we can learn from you?

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

you’re either not reading the thread or youre trolling… I am reading Ooooh Say it Again already.

I'm not trolling I'm teaching. Nothing you have showed is mode one lol

 

[Divorced w 3]

I'm not trolling I'm teaching. Nothing you have showed is mode one lol

Read my edit

 

[Divorced w 3]

I invite criticism.. that’s why I’m on the thread with a new girl every day that I’m working on… a lion doesn’t care about the opinions of sheep. If you want to point out and critique individual examples go for it. This dude tells me get off text and get on the phone, I literally did that. If not interested in helping, make me a sandwich and watch while I work

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

@Divorced w 3 I commend you on your openness to share your texts my guy. I'm not sharing my opinion, i'm correcting you with facts. You should be thankful that I came in here and put some order to this nonsense. Not hating on your text game at all, I love the banter. Just understand you can't call this mode one behavior.

 

[Divorced w 3]

@Divorced w 3 I commend you on your openness to share your texts my guy. I'm not sharing my opinion, i'm correcting you with facts. You should be thankful that I came in here and put some order to this nonsense. Not hating on your text game at all, I love the banter. Just understand you can't call this mode one behavior.

A lot of people don’t know, due to lots of reasons but Jersey Mike being a key one is that a good sandwich with oil and vinegar should have a light to moderate level of Mayo on the bread and then you stack your other condiments and the meat. Grab something good, just don’t do what I said if the sandwich is hot. This is cold cuts only.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

@Divorced w 3
lions don't share texts with an online forum nor state false claims without being open to factual criticism and correction. Nor do they say some dumb **** about sandwiches because they're embarrassed and defensive that someone who knows what they're talking about came in and ruined they're little show-and-tell party with a bunch of online strangers.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

I invite criticism.. that’s why I’m on the thread with a new girl every day that I’m working on… a lion doesn’t care about the opinions of sheep. If you want to point out and critique individual examples go for it. This dude tells me get off text and get on the phone, I literally did that. If not interested in helping, make me a sandwich and watch while I work

Not you playing the blame game bro lol I thought you were a lion...I am helping you, but you're ego won't let you admit that you're not being mode one. I never told you to get on the phone, I said if you WANT TO TRULY BE mode one than you can't do it on text. I didn't say small talk for 40 min about her kids, that was you.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

@Divorced w 3 nothing you are doing is mode one bro. Have you even read the book? If you go longer than 15 min in a convo (phone or in person) without telling her you want to **** her or share her company one on one in an intimate fashion than you are being mode 2. Everything you've showed on this thread is mode 2. @We_ArE_VeNOM seems to have a decent grasp on mode one, but please dude stop calling wtf you're doing mode one because it's not, respectfully. @BillyPilgrim made a great point about the pros and cons of phone vs text. As I said before, you have to be a smooth and erotically dominant verbal seducer to really reap the benefits of mode one, especially on the phone. ARC's book Oooh Say It Again is where you learn all of the verbal seduction techniques that are needed to get girls wet with your words. MODE ONE is the book where you learn how to state your intentions and desires in an up front and highly self assured manner IN ORDER TO DETECT whether the women is a reciprocator, rejecter, or wholesome pretender... This is why it saves time, effort, and teaches men how to grow a pair of balls and be indifferent to rejection.

There's nothing wrong with being vague, ambiguous, subliminal, it's just that it is pro longing rejection, hence why many beta male types prefer this because they are scared of rejection. Mode one is a legit toolbox for beta males to transform into alphas with their COMMUNICATION.

I have some constructive critique for him as well lol.

Perhaps later tonight.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I have some constructive critique for him as well lol.

Perhaps later tonight.

I’m looking forward to it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Not you playing the blame game bro lol I thought you were a lion...I am helping you, but you're ego won't let you admit that you're not being mode one. I never told you to get on the phone, I said if you WANT TO TRULY BE mode one than you can't do it on text. I didn't say small talk for 40 min about her kids, that was you.

Thug life bro.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Thug life bro.

You think you're coming off witty, but you're coming off as defensive, clueless, and childish... @SmoothHendrixPS2 is trying to give you tips on a seduction method that you're attempting, and painfully failing at...

Here's my successful Mode 1 attempt:

me - You've been selected to apply for a position as my fwb.. Do you:
Like casual sex?
Dislike drama?
Dislike needy people?
Like bald guys?
If yes to any of these, reply to this message. If you don't like bald guys, I can always wear a wig of golden curls.

her- Your offer is straightforward and tempting. I can answer yes to all of the above. I have my own preliminaries.
Are you open minded?
Are you kink friendly?
Do you smoke weed/ 420 friendly?
Would you describe your sexual personality to be submissive or dominant?

me- Yes
Yes
not at the moment / Yes (if you want to dab while your thighs are squeezing my head with your toes curling and legs twitching. That's fine by me)
Depends on our sexual energy of the day/mood/situation

her-What’s your name?

 

[Divorced w 3]

You think you're coming off witty, but you're coming off as defensive, clueless, and childish... @SmoothHendrixPS2 is trying to give you tips on a seduction method that you're attempting, and painfully failing at...

Here's my successful Mode 1 attempt:

first of all, your chat never happened. Screenshot or it didn’t happen.

I never said Ihad Mode One down. I said, and have been posting experience from, women I actually know IRL that I met cold approaching (still not arrested) … Venom has offered pointed criticism…I used to beef with him and then I realized the dude was trying to teach us something. smooth has offered his ego and not pointing out anything… what venom is saying is likely tenable even with the stepford wife *****s

have you guys even been reading? I could fvck Julia right now if I wanted to go spend $$ on a drink. I am literally suppressing my own satisfaction to learn this properly. You wish you had the abundance and patience to learn the craft with such dedication

You should be thanking me. This is what it looks like when real, actually attractive women talk to you.

I’m doing not just myself but the board a favor. I don’t care if I fail and I don’t care if it’s public. Im inviting criticism, not a circle jerk because you found a new friend.

I’m on Instagram with my own name. I am in a public job in a major company.

That’s balls yoj will never have (or likely status).

You’re not in the bigs yet and not being a clubhouse guy ain’t gonna help

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

@Divorced w 3 Offered my ego? @ me next time you speak of me sir. I actually pointed out the most important things you needed to hear if you want to be great at mode one. You obviously don't have the right patience to learn this craft if you can't take constructive criticism from someone who is way more of a mode one seducer than you at the moment, and then get defensive with non valid and irrelevant remarks. I'm here to tell you that sharing text convos does nothing to help improve your mode one approach, since mode one is defined as direct VERBAL GAME. If you shared your texts without claiming it's mode one than I would have no problem.

I actually did my research, own all of ARC's books, listened to his audiobooks, have real life experience and success being mode one. Until you are able to conversate with me about any talking points that have to do with mode one philosophy, you my friend are actually a clubhouse guy.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

 

[Divorced w 3]

@Divorced w 3 Offered my ego? @ me next time you speak of me sir. I actually pointed out the most important things you needed to hear if you want to be great at mode one. You obviously don't have the right patience to learn this craft if you can't take constructive criticism from someone who is way more of a mode one seducer than you at the moment, and then get defensive with non valid and irrelevant remarks. I'm here to tell you that sharing text convos does nothing to help improve your mode one approach, since mode one is defined as direct VERBAL GAME. If you shared your texts without claiming it's mode one than I would have no problem.

I actually did my research, own all of ARC's books, listened to his audiobooks, have real life experience and success being mode one. Until you are able to conversate with me about any talking points that have to do with mode one philosophy, you my friend are actually a clubhouse guy.

1: said I was learning
2: when told that it was verbal not text, switched to verbal
3: someone then mentioned to use text first and then go to verbal
4: you like jerking yourself off so you made general observations with the intent to demean the thread
5: you then started your own thread
6: it’s converse
7: if you want to join the conversation nobody’s stopping you