Cold approach is becoming impossible

[Don of the north]

Indeed, it's extreme but I'll make 2 comments: if that is the 3rd unasked for 'hi' on that day and comes from a guy with an aggressive look/body language and she's having a bad day, I can't blame her. I will brush aside one nuisance call, but the third one in a day annoys me.
2. some guys like OP need a telling-to from a cop or HR otherwise they simply don't get it. They still don't get it as OP makes it obvious, but at least they'll probably refrain from that behavior because they're aware of the negative consequences.

I had to react to this then I'll ignore. The third approach in a day that annoys "me". Are you a woman? I think you just told on yourself. lol
Most women don't get approached 3 times in one day and can you imagine being so entitled and stuck up you complain about the number of suitors you have!

Can you imagine a man complain about the amount of emails he gets on the online dating apps. I've literally heard women complain they have too many emails in their inbox. They COMPLAIN about everything! Their women. That's what they do. uhhh...honey try having NO emails like some men.

Get over yourself!

A man said hello to me today...... first world white female problems

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Wow. Not gonna disagree with your experience but this does not happen in my neck of the woods (SoCal) where Chads are a dime a dozen.

Chads don't even typically approach on the street where I live, they've got such abundance from simply living their lives they don't need to.

I also think many women view men who approach on street as desperate.

I've heard them say so.

To be fair, socal is a unique market. The male competition is such (too manydudes.chads) that women can afford to view street-approaching chads as desperate.

Are you in LA county CM?

 

[pipeman84]

I had to react to this then I'll ignore. The third approach in a day that annoys "me". Are you a woman? I think you just told on yourself. lol
Most women don't get approached 3 times in one day and can you imagine being so entitled and stuck up you complain about the number of suitors you have!

Hey man, I was talking about nuisance calls. Read the whole sentence, not just the part you bolded. I used it as an example to put myself in a woman's position and see where she's coming from. Even one nuisance call is too much.
Here's another idea: go to Egypt, to the popular tourist attractions and witness first hand the harassment from the street sellers. Maybe you'll return as a changed man with a whole new perspective on unwanted attention.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Lol, excuse me but did you miss the part where I stated I DO have experience in U.S. employment/labor laws? Over five years in fact. Direct experience.

Did you also miss the part where I said I am on men's side here, having witnessed the unfairness of men being falsely accused?

Lord, I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone lol, read posts.

You’re doing nothing besides seeking attention from a small swarm of posters here … you are essentially a case study in the other running thread “do words matter to women?”… clearly not. You have no legal experience. If you want to opine on how to type, make coffee, research what you’re told to look up, send emails etc. then yes, you’re a wealth of information… outside of that you’ve done nothing but attempt to create boogeyman scaremongering so that men here won’t go out and attempt to talk to women under the complete false pretenses that sexual harassment is possible striking normal workplace conversations (btw not the theme of the thread, just one you infested it with) ….. if you want to add value, which we all know you don’t, tell men here how to actually frame and defend if necessary…. But you can’t… again, because your a sexually frustrated housewife looking for attention under the fact that you sat in an office sending someone else’s faxes, cutting their checks and booking their lunches, and there are a couple posters here who will Grace you with it

 

[Divorced w 3]

New cold pickup; hey miss, I heard I can get sued for saying hi to you

 

[Gamisch]

Totally disagree. A hot guy can go out and get a TON of numbers from women on the street. That would never happen if what you said were true. They simply don't want someone who they deem unattractive approaching. They've simply be trained that way with metoo. This is purely entitled princess nonsense. Also, they are not FORCED to interact with anyone they don't want to. A simple no thanks is too much work? Give me a break. In a FREE country you can approach anyone you want and ask them for coffee. It's literally protected free speech if it's only done once.

Of course most would, and they'd love the attention even if they weren't single.

So what it your goal with the thread? Do you wanna know something or teach us something? Are you just venting?

Oke so you are maybe too unattractive and women dont like you. Suck it up. Find other ways to get women. Become more attractive. You sound like a blackpiller. Mad at women because they do whatever the F they want with who ever they want. No woman owns you shyt. Who cares that she gives her panties to a Chad she doesn't know. I can already tell by the way how you argue over here you are a passive aggressive type of guy, who likes to blame others for your failures. No wonder women reject you.

And yeah, I agree with @pipeman84 .It went completely over your head that its men like you who pushed things so far that companies came up with strict HR policies. Just like you have the freedom to say whatever you want, any random woman has the freedom to have her own boundaries. Apparently it's necessary to give guys like you boundaries.

Stop acting the whole world is against you. I have approached 100's of women and NEVER something like this happened. At worst some friend of her that cuckblocked me.

If I were you I would take a few steps back, look in the mirror, improve your self where ever necessary and invent a new strategy.


@pipeman84 let's not forget most men think with their D. So a guy is at his job, simply simping HARD. You dont know how a dude looks out of eyes and his body language when he gives her a compliment. Maybe like you say, she subtlety ignores or politely answers , but many men lack the ability to read up social cues. If you deal with a hot woman(7+) you'll see just how pathetic men are. Some men simply have no quit in them and keep pushing. Some men believe " no means yes".

 

[Divorced w 3]

Lol, feel better now? After getting that off your chest?

Lord.

For the record, paralegals do essentially what lawyers do except make court appearances.

They (I) did legal research, located appropriate case law, wrote legal briefs, motions, discovery, met with clients.

My hourly rate ranged from $175-$250 per hour.

Receptionists and secretaries got coffee, made copies of documents etc.

I'm 32 and been married 5 months, hardly a "frustrated housewife," that's hilarious.

Look mate, I have no idea what up your butt other than I'm a female on a "men's" forum, but I suggest you place me on ignore, before you get a heart attack over me. Lol

I know what paralegals do… none of which is attributed to your own professional opinion, you’re a typist. You’re repeating what I already said. You’re also not offering defense or recommendation- you’re entertaining yourself … and married for 5 months at 32 years old, enough said on that one

 

[Don of the north]

So what it your goal with the thread? Do you wanna know something or teach us something? Are you just venting?

Oke so you are maybe too unattractive and women dont like you. Suck it up. Find other ways to get women. Become more attractive. You sound like a blackpiller. Mad at women because they do whatever the F they want with who ever they want. No woman owns you shyt. Who cares that she gives her panties to a Chad she doesn't know. I can already tell by the way how you argue over here you are a passive aggressive type of guy, who likes to blame others for your failures. No wonder women reject you.

And yeah, I agree with @pipeman84 .It went completely over your head that its men like you who pushed things so far that companies came up with strict HR policies. Just like you have the freedom to say whatever you want, any random woman has the freedom to have her own boundaries. Apparently it's necessary to give guys like you boundaries.

Stop acting the whole world is against you. I have approached 100's of women and NEVER something like this happened. At worst some friend of her that cuckblocked me.

If I were you I would take a few steps back, look in the mirror, improve your self where ever necessary and invent a new strategy.


@pipeman84 let's not forget most men think with their D. So a guy is at his job, simply simping HARD. You dont know how a dude looks out of eyes and his body language when he gives her a compliment. Maybe like you say, she subtlety ignores or politely answers , but many men lack the ability to read up social cues. If you deal with a hot woman(7+) you'll see just how pathetic men are. Some men simply have no quit in them and keep pushing. Some men believe " no means yes".

Never complained once about getting rejected. Did I? In fact I said they owe me nothing.
I never said no means yes. I said as soon as they say no I leave immediately.

 

[SW15]

How did he not see the wedding ring?

Mostly any time anyone is doing approaches in non-bar venues, there's a need to take a quick glance at a left hand for rings.

I can't count how many times the ring glance has saved me from likely wasting time doing an approach in certain venues. I tend to go to areas with a higher concentration of unmarried people and I've still encountered enough physically attractive married women to be annoying.

 

[corrector]

Lol, feel better now? After getting that off your chest?

Lord.

For the record and your information, paralegals do essentially what lawyers do except make court appearances.

They (I) did legal research, located appropriate case law, wrote legal briefs, motions, discovery, met with clients.

My hourly rate ranged from $175 - $250 per hour.

Receptionists and secretaries got coffee, made copies of documents, mailed letters etc.

I'm 32 and been married 5 months, hardly a "frustrated housewife," that's hilarious.

Look mate, I have no idea what's up your butt other than I'm a female on a "men's" forum, but I suggest you place me on ignore before you get a freaking heart attack over me. Lol

I have experience with law as well esp in my mid 20s in the early 00s. Learned everything there, motions, factums, appeal books, nothing like youthful energy along with a fight the power drive to drive a passion for DIY law. Not sure I could bring myself to that now being middle age.

You are sharing good info on here.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Yeah I type my own briefs, motions etc on a computer as do the lawyers.

What's your point again?

Oh that's right, I'm female. Got it.

Nuff said.

Ciao.

Ok bye!

 

[Gamisch]

Never complained once about getting rejected. Did I? In fact I said they owe me nothing.
I never said no means yes. I said as soon as they say no I leave immediately.

This seems like complaining to me bro. You sound bitter . Men that dont care whether they get rejected or not are mostly outgoing confident men who dont take themselves too serious. Maybe that's the key to more succes; change up your vibe around women. Rejection is just part of the game.

Totally disagree. A hot guy can go out and get a TON of numbers from women on the street. That would never happen if what you said were true. They simply don't want someone who they deem unattractive approaching. They've simply be trained that way with metoo. This is purely entitled princess nonsense. Also, they are not FORCED to interact with anyone they don't want to. A simple no thanks is too much work? Give me a break. In a FREE country you can approach anyone you want and ask them for coffee. It's literally protected free speech if it's only done once.

Of course most would, and they'd love the attention even if they weren't single.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I have experience with law as well esp in my mid 20s in the early 00s. Learned everything there, motions, factums, appeal books, nothing like youthful energy along with a fight the power drive to drive a passion for DIY law. Not sure I could bring myself to that now being middle age.

You are sharing good info on here.

No she isn’t- what defense or recommendation has she actually made? If you want to Fock her just say it

 

[corrector]

Never complained once about getting rejected. Did I? In fact I said they owe me nothing.
I never said no means yes. I said as soon as they say no I leave immediately.

Yeah, this statement that they down owe you anything comes like a cheap virtue signaling.

 

[Don of the north]

This seems like complaining to me bro. You sound bitter . Men that dont care whether they get rejected or not are mostly outgoing confident men who dont take themselves too serious. Maybe that's the key to more succes; change up your vibe around women. Rejection is just part of the game.

What are you talking about? The entire thread is about the police being called, which i'm sure has happened to a TON of guys. Arrested is rare, but cops being called is common nowadays post metoo. This has nothing to do with rejection. Anyway, this is pointless. I said my piece and I'm done. Bye. Pointless arguing with people on the internet who just want to fight.

I didn't think this was a feminist forum when I signed up. I'm out. Too bad because there are a few cool peeps like corrector and others, but it's ruined by a few man hating feminists on here who hijack threads.

 

[Divorced w 3]

What are you talking about? The entire thread is about the police being called, which i'm sure has happened to a TON of guys. Arrested is rare, but cops being called is common nowadays post metoo. This has nothing to do with rejection. Anyway, this is pointless. I said my piece and I'm done. Bye.

I’m with you. This whole concept is insane. Nobody is getting arrested for a cold approach. Has anyone posted any link of this actually happening?

 

[forcerecon01]

okcupid used to be a gold mine for women now all they want is money now. Not paying them.

 

[Don of the north]

I’m with you. This whole concept is insane. Nobody is getting arrested for a cold approach. Has anyone posted any link of this actually happening?

'Pick-up artist' Adnan Ahmed jailed for two years for threatening behaviour - BBC News
Then on appeal, he was released with no jail time and it was called a grave miscarraige of justice by the 3 judge panel.
Adnan Ahmed: 'Pick-up artist' conviction quashed on appeal - BBC News

This is the future people, wake up. The fact that there are multiple men on here who are attacking me and twisting my words and calling cold approach beta and siding with feminists says all you need to know. I wasn't expecting that on here. Look at the way they went at that other guy in thread because he waited 20 seconds before approaching. They called him a stalker. Outrageous. Twisted world.

 

[corrector]

I’m with you. This whole concept is insane. Nobody is getting arrested for a cold approach. Has anyone posted any link of this actually happening?

If the cop is mean or does not like you then you can get arrested over nonsense then get overchaged. People can get arrested for resisting arrest or looking suspicious or they can say STOP RESISTING and proceed to beat you up. Its more about the unchecked power that police have rather than technically being arrested for cold.approach and an encounter going bad. The more exposure to police is the higher the risk.

 

[Divorced w 3]

'Pick-up artist' Adnan Ahmed jailed for two years for threatening behaviour - BBC News
Then on appeal, he was released with no jail time and it was called a grave miscarraige of justice by the 3 judge panel.
Adnan Ahmed: 'Pick-up artist' conviction quashed on appeal - BBC News

This is the future people, wake up. The fact that there are multiple men on here who are attacking me and twisting my words and calling cold approach beta and siding with feminists says all you need to know. I wasn't expecting that on here. Look at the way they went at that other guy in thread because he waited 20 seconds before approaching. They called him a stalker. Outrageous.

Pick up artists do ridiculously stupid stuff. If you stay away from walking up so some girl and saying hey, if you can guess what number I’m thinking I’ll let you touch my D, you’ll be fine.