I welcome her here. I've only seen a few of her posts, but so far they've pretty good. A woman who has a man's back in 2022 where we are second class citizens are rare. She's not the one going around shaming men for cold approaching call them creepy. Those are the people that shouldn't be here.
Male feminists dont get it.
Man, it's because of guys like you that sexual harassment laws have been enacted and HR departments are busy with complaints from women against men. You simply can't get it trough your head that most women don't like cold approaching nor unwanted and persistent attention from males at work.
I just think it's inappropriate to have women as members given the nature of the topics discussed. If I were a woman I would understand that this forum is like a sanctuary for us and I would go play somewhere else. It's a bit disrespectful in my opinion. It shows a lack of civility
It's not harassment until she says she's not interested or she feels uncomfortable. Repeated, unwanted sexual advances. That's the way harassment has always been defined until this recent lunacy. Going to hr because a guy asked you out for coffee is a RAT snitch move. I'd say the the same thing to any guy who turned in one of him female workers into HR because she gave him a compliment. RAT. #equality.
Would most women be open to being approached from a guy they considered a dreamboat?
Totally disagree. A hot guy can go out and get a TON of numbers from women on the street. That would never happen if what you said were true. They simply don't want someone who they deem unattractive approaching. They've simply be trained that way with metoo. This is purely entitled princess nonsense. Also, they are not FORCED to interact with anyone they don't want to. A simple no thanks is too much work? Give me a break. In a FREE country you can approach anyone you want and ask them for coffee. It's literally protected free speech if it's only done once.
Of course most would, and they'd love the attention even if they weren't single.
Indeed, it's extreme but I'll make 2 comments: if that is the 3rd unasked for 'hi' on that day and comes from a guy with an aggressive look/body language and she's having a bad day, I can't blame her. I will brush aside one nuisance call, but the third one in a day annoys me.
Yeah, a hot guy can literally collect panties from random women or kiss them on the spot, or hand their phone for them to put the number in without saying a word, etc... Seen them on youtube vids in mid 10s.
I had to react to this then I'll ignore. The third approach in a day that annoys "me". Are you a woman? I think you just told on yourself. lol
To be fair, socal is a unique market. The male competition is such (too manydudes.chads) that women can afford to view street-approaching chads as desperate.
Hey man, I was talking about nuisance calls. Read the whole sentence, not just the part you bolded. I used it as an example to put myself in a woman's position and see where she's coming from. Even one nuisance call is too much.
You’re doing nothing besides seeking attention from a small swarm of posters here … you are essentially a case study in the other running thread “do words matter to women?”… clearly not. You have no legal experience. If you want to opine on how to type, make coffee, research what you’re told to look up, send emails etc. then yes, you’re a wealth of information… outside of that you’ve done nothing but attempt to create boogeyman scaremongering so that men here won’t go out and attempt to talk to women under the complete false pretenses that sexual harassment is possible striking normal workplace conversations (btw not the theme of the thread, just one you infested it with) ….. if you want to add value, which we all know you don’t, tell men here how to actually frame and defend if necessary…. But you can’t… again, because your a sexually frustrated housewife looking for attention under the fact that you sat in an office sending someone else’s faxes, cutting their checks and booking their lunches, and there are a couple posters here who will Grace you with it
So what it your goal with the thread? Do you wanna know something or teach us something? Are you just venting?
I know what paralegals do… none of which is attributed to your own professional opinion, you’re a typist. You’re repeating what I already said. You’re also not offering defense or recommendation- you’re entertaining yourself … and married for 5 months at 32 years old, enough said on that one
Never complained once about getting rejected. Did I? In fact I said they owe me nothing.
Mostly any time anyone is doing approaches in non-bar venues, there's a need to take a quick glance at a left hand for rings.
I have experience with law as well esp in my mid 20s in the early 00s. Learned everything there, motions, factums, appeal books, nothing like youthful energy along with a fight the power drive to drive a passion for DIY law. Not sure I could bring myself to that now being middle age.
Ok bye!
