Ignore it. She is looking for validation. She just wants to know that you are her safety net.Wow....not even 32 hours since dumping me and she already sent me an “I miss you!” text....
Ho-Lee Sheeite
Ignore it and delete it.
Ignore it. She is looking for validation. She just wants to know that you are her safety net.Wow....not even 32 hours since dumping me and she already sent me an “I miss you!” text....
Ho-Lee Sheeite
I'm with ya on that. Soooo hard though. I want to engage her just because the way she dumped me was kind of weird - with a bunch of confused texts saying she doesn't know what to do and she's not sure but you deserve better then me blah blah blah. And for months and months before that text it was nothing but "I love you soooo much!!!" But I know that if I do reply, I'll just get sucked back into her same swirl of crap that will go nowhere and eventually lead me right back to where I am. I mean, I'd take her as a side chick because she's super hot and the sex was great but I dunno if that's even worth it, or possible.Ignore it. She is looking for validation. She just wants to know that you are her safety net.
Ignore it and delete it.
Sounds like she was breaking up with you to go after another guy. Things didnt go as planned for her now she suddenly misses you. Dont fall for it. If she was all i love yous and the suddenly doesnt know what she wants then she blew it. She blew her chance with you. When you know youre the prize, you can hold your head high with confidence knowing she blew it, and you did nothing wrong,I'm with ya on that. Soooo hard though. I want to engage her just because the way she dumped me was kind of weird - with a bunch of confused texts saying she doesn't know what to do and she's not sure but you deserve better then me blah blah blah. And for months and months before that text it was nothing but "I love you soooo much!!!" But I know that if I do reply, I'll just get sucked back into her same swirl of crap that will go nowhere and eventually lead me right back to where I am. I mean, I'd take her as a side chick because she's super hot and the sex was great but I dunno if that's even worth it, or possible.
Damn, it pains me to read this, guy.I'm with ya on that. Soooo hard though. I want to engage her just because the way she dumped me was kind of weird - with a bunch of confused texts saying she doesn't know what to do and she's not sure but you deserve better then me blah blah blah. And for months and months before that text it was nothing but "I love you soooo much!!!" But I know that if I do reply, I'll just get sucked back into her same swirl of crap that will go nowhere and eventually lead me right back to where I am. I mean, I'd take her as a side chick because she's super hot and the sex was great but I dunno if that's even worth it, or possible.
Is this really needed because it is so easy?The "Just Got Dumped" GUIDE
Yes, it makes sense indeed. But the main point cases of dumping are because the guy has been too much of a nice guy. When she breakup, what does she expect from a nice guy? That he stay in the background, giving her validation for nothing, coming after her lifting her ego up until she can finally move on to someone else.This is far less true now than it was as written. That doesn't mean that no contact is bad advice, just that this part is outdated.The game moves much more quickly now. She is no longer jumping from you too one or a few guy ls be a monkey branch or she is not going out to a club and settling for some random guy she met for hedonistic sex she will regret. These are the types of actions that trigger regret and them to reach out.
Rather, she is going to be experiencing thousands of validation data points from online dating and going on dozens of dates with dozens of different men. She's going to become a strung out dopamine junkie and to the extent she even remembers your name enough to reach out it's going to be nothing like it used to be when this post was written. To the extent she ever reaches out or runs into you again, all she's going to know is that you're giving her something that conflicts with the easy high of dopamine she could get by pulling up her dating app or messaging one of her 10 orbiters online.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
That takes a lot of courage, kudos!!i know this post is super old, but i cannot thank the author of it. we are now in 2022, and this post saved me and it helped me tremendouly. going no contact, and ignoring all of the calls, texts, really helped me heal and at the same time see the ex go through some anxiety. she even called at 12 a.m., sent a stupid message saying she regrets calling me and me not answering, then advances two days later to call 3 times in a row. it's great to move on.