Example of My Convo Skills

[SargeMaximus]

People been telling me I need convo skills with girls online. Pics below from today:

 

[DonJuanjr]

If I was having that convo, after her "guilty pleasures" text, I would have said "what other guilty pleasures do you have"

 

[SargeMaximus]

If I was having that convo, after her "guilty pleasures" text, I would have said "what other guilty pleasures do you have"

Yeah but here’s my issue: when I’m in conversation mode, I’m not sexual. It’s like the blood is either in my dlck or in my brain, but not both. I can’t do both. Because if I go sexual I become more and more direct till I just do what I did in the last thread

more pics below

 

[DonJuanjr]

Yeah but here’s my issue: when I’m in conversation mode, I’m not sexual. It’s like the blood is either in my dlck or in my brain, but not both. I can’t do both. Because if I go sexual I become more and more direct till I just do what I did in the last thread

more pics below

Maybe just that little bit of convo is enough to turn sexual and then run with the sexual talk just a little bit before going direct like usual.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Maybe just that little bit of convo is enough to turn sexual and then run with the sexual talk just a little bit before going direct like usual.

Yeah but I can’t switch that fast. My mind is like a tanker ship, I can’t just switch on a dime

 

[SargeMaximus]

Girl just ghosted me so there you go @Modern Man Advice , perfect example of me not being direct and sexual and losing the girl

 

[SargeMaximus]

Black and White thinking is a sign of mental illness. It's a personality disorder.

Communicating with women is not a black and white binary. Either you talk about "boring cooking recipes" or "I wanna shove ma d1ck in your ear." That's extremely mentally ill.

Conversation is nuanced. You're so far behind dude. You need to learn how to be human first.

This is why I ignore you. You’re missing the whole point.

edit: and for your information, she was responding quickly when we were talking about food and ghosted when I switched to dating talk.
Pics below

 

[SargeMaximus]

And my last message before she ghosted

 

[SW15]

And my last message before she ghosted

Ghosting is a sign of failure

 

[DonJuanjr]

Black and White thinking is a sign of mental illness. It's a personality disorder.

Communicating with women is not a black and white binary. Either you talk about "boring cooking recipes" or "I wanna shove ma d1ck in your ear." That's extremely mentally ill.

Conversation is nuanced. You're so far behind dude. You need to learn how to be human first.

Maybe a better way to help would be to show what you would have said in response to the woman's texts.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Ghosting is a sign of failure

Yes I know, I’m posting this for @Modern Man Advice to see that normal convos don’t work for me

 

[Robert28]

Oh I see what’s happening! This is plenty of fish. No wonder you’re getting ghosted. Dude that site hasn’t been worth a damn since like 2010.

 

[SargeMaximus]

l.

Oh I see what’s happening! This is plenty of fish. No wonder you’re getting ghosted. Dude that site hasn’t been worth a damn since like 2010.

Lol. Blame the site when your advice doesn’t work, got it

 

[Zimbabwe]

You could say

"There's this new cafe downtown that I've been meaning to try, you should come with me at X time"

 

[jaymbrs]

l.

Lol. Blame the site when your advice doesn’t work, got it

You're just not direct enough, dude. Ya'll can have this convo when you're actually on the date.

 

[DonJuanjr]

You're just not direct enough, dude.

@SargeMaximus can't make this shjt up haha.

@jaymbrs I'm not criticizing you... The whole point of this thread was for him to show how only being direct works.

 

[SargeMaximus]

You could say

"There's this new cafe downtown that I've been meaning to try, you should come with me at X time"

Why would I ask her out when she bores me?

 

[Zimbabwe]

Why would I ask her out when she bores me?

You're talking to her about food on a dating website, what did you honestly expect?

 

[DonJuanjr]

Because then Sarge said "I tried that and it doesn't work"

Sarge is self-admittedly autistic and refuses to learn, but simultaneously keeps asking for advice. That's the issue.

The issue is not that Sarge isn't getting advice. He's getting plenty of that.

I'm not talking about just helping him.. Showcase what you would have said in his place so others reading can get an idea. I'm interested in how you'd respond.

 

[SargeMaximus]

You're talking to her about food on a dating website, what did you honestly expect?

This is my point. Whenever I go direct you geniuses tell me to be less direct and have a conversation. Bull rapport, etc. So gtfo

I purposely did this because I knew it wouldn’t work but I needed an example for you guys to show you your advice doesn’t work.

also, why is it she ghosts me when I want to talk about the dating aspect but not when we talking about food eh?