DEEZEDBRAH
Master Don Juan
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There's a chapter in the Game by the OG about kicking the habit.
Think and grow rich by napoleon hill riffs about sex transmutation.
A big deal is creating the best process for yourself to succeed WHEN EVERYTHING IS SETUP TO **** YOU. I'm talking about the culture, feminism, education system, bend the knee, simp, pander to women etc.
You want to cultivate Being "THAT GUY." Eliminate and discard everything (people, places, TV etc) that hinders you. There's no ambiguity. Either way, people are with you or against you. It's a zero sum game. Winner takes all.
Even with game, corrective action, mindset in check, etc a number of things will always be there. Obstacles never go away. You find new problems. Handle the controllables. Approach, lift, diet, get the bag, etc.
Quit porn.Day 18
Sorry everyone I missed posting on Friday! 1 approach. The campus was pretty empty so it was harder to find hot girls.
Approach 1: 6.5/10. I was pretty exhausted because I literally walked for an hour before seeing her. A lot of me walking around was overcoming approach anxiety. I chickened out on about 5 girls before her. The conversation was actually really good, and she was into me from her body language, but she said she had a boyfriend.
Day 19
0 approaches.
Unfortunately I couldn't work myself up to it today. I used porn over the weekend, and had sex once, and my sex drive was pretty low. I'm upset at myself for that.
However, I did have a date that went really well! We met for coffee. The date started with us talking about school, her schedule, and her classes. Then we talked about what we want to do with our lives. After that(this is my signature move right here), I asked what tv shows she likes to watch. Then, I said "Show me" and I moved my chair and sat right next to her(I was previously sitting across from her). After that, I escalated a lot by touching her arm and her leg periodically for the next 30 minutes, and had my hand around her shoulder for a bit as well. Then I went for the kiss! She said no at first, because she was nervous. As soon as I pulled away, I said "I risked embarrassment right there" with a smile and she talked about kissing a bit. We talked chilly for 10 more minutes(same kino as before) and then I asked her to walk me back to my car to go home. We talked normally while walking, and then when we were back, I kissed her in front of my car, then told her to get in the car so it's "more private". We made out for 15 minutes!! I was so ****ing proud of myself. I then went for the pull but she said "not on the first date"... I'm working on researching how to get around that. Because obviously, she was into me, it's just a mental block she has somehow.
That's my new go to date for sure. Basically, coffee, play it cool for 15 minutes, then start escalating.
I have my FWB tomorrow, and also have another girl as well. 2 dates on the same day!! Will report back.
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You are absolutely right brother. It's hard sometimes because of the rejection and ghosting(ghosting hurts more than rejection on the approach imo), but it's worth it. Just look at the success the last 7 days compared to when I started the log. One thing I'm thinking about now is that pickup isn't a rollercoaster(meaning hot streaks/cold streaks), a lot of it is like growing up riding rollercoasters. When you begin(aka when you're young), you get denied from a lot of rollercoasters because you're too short. But you start growing, and you can slowly ride more rollercoasters(meaning handle more situations in game). However, sometimes you are thrown a tough situation out of the blue, without picking it. In this case, just like you are riding the biggest rollercoaster, you will get denied and lose until you are tall enough. I feel like that's what pickup really is - building your skill, getting wins along the way(easy to ride rollercoasters), and building your value until you can ride even the best rollercoasters. You are absolutely right in your response - I'm taking control of my own life and changing the narrative. Building my value. Thank you for reading my log and replying to me bro, it means a lot.
There's a chapter in the Game by the OG about kicking the habit.
Think and grow rich by napoleon hill riffs about sex transmutation.
A big deal is creating the best process for yourself to succeed WHEN EVERYTHING IS SETUP TO **** YOU. I'm talking about the culture, feminism, education system, bend the knee, simp, pander to women etc.
You want to cultivate Being "THAT GUY." Eliminate and discard everything (people, places, TV etc) that hinders you. There's no ambiguity. Either way, people are with you or against you. It's a zero sum game. Winner takes all.
Even with game, corrective action, mindset in check, etc a number of things will always be there. Obstacles never go away. You find new problems. Handle the controllables. Approach, lift, diet, get the bag, etc.