DEEZEDBRAH
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 24, 2017
- Messages
- 6,096
- Reaction score
- 4,852
- Age
- 34
There's far too much armchair footy but never kicked a ball in their life. You see it on YT. Dweeb shilling ebook or rubbish programs. No infield or receipts. Can't pull. Hasn't approached in decades.You're absolutely right. In the past I have put way too much weight on girls that if I didn't approach, it would ruin my day. Now, as you said, I'm working on getting past that. I will admit though, it's hard sometimes.
I think one reason why it's so hard is there's so toxicity surrounding pickup. It's not hard to find it on this forum, and oftentimes getting rejected/ghosted by girls really sucks. There's not one place you can turn and get comforting praise sometimes it seems. Even the coaches want to sell you their product and will prey on your insecurities/sell you false hope of what's possible.
That's why I really appreciate everyone who responds to my log. You @DEEZEDBRAH , and also @Çharismo, @eli77 @Don Dark Horse @Modern Man Advice @mikedee @SW15 @mrskinnypantz .... yall real ones.
I hope to make everyone who reads this say wow, if that guy can do it, literally anyone can(with enough work).
+1 respect. Big ups!
Shout out @darksprezzatura who is on his purpose. Playboy is doing it right. Act accordingly. It's not about the girl or pulling and playing house. It's the long game. Stay on the grind. 3 approach minimum a day. Stack like in the gym. Get paper right. Level up. I went super sayain in pandemic. Hope you are too.
MEDITATE. For all the hate rsd Ty gets, meditation be it active or guided is king. Chase self actualization. Not girls. Take your shot. Just cause. Life's too ****in boring not to try.
The approach is just a skill set. Pull. But set priorities. I pissed away a decade on pickup. Women aren't that important. Most are ran through and a liability. But my D won't suck itself. 110% of my time is aimed at purpose. I run game just as a hobby. It's fun. Pickup is funny. Self amuse. Everything from pickup rejection pulling ghosting etc is all funny!
Wtf else is the alternative? You got this playboy. #nextset! Get the bag. Cultivate not just game but a lifestyle so great that you're indifferent to what women think or do.