jamesfromhouston
Senior Don Juan
Hey gents.
Over the weekend I met up with a married woman. We had been talking about meeting up for awhile. But I've been busy so she has been waiting to me to firm a date. (We had connected/met on Facebook because we work in the same industry.)
So I invited her to go to a cool bar with me.
I'm wondering whether she has romantic interest in me over a few things:
- she has been keen to meet up with me (claiming she wants to learn from me and my industry experience)
- she has always been responsive to me in our texts/chats
- when we met up she mentioned she was seeing someone but did not say she was married
- she told me upfront that she doesn't like it when guys are confused with her and chase her because she's "seeing someone". She also passingly mention that doesn't happen to us but it doesn't seem like a stern warning.
- the whole night she was very chatty and teasing, tells me she admires me
- she told me that she had told her girlfriends that she was meeting up with me. They had a little discussion apparently.
- she was giving light touches here and there and she was ok to my touches too. Heavy eye contact. Although no overt flirting.
- she wasn't watching the clock and seemed to enjoy my company and at times was nervous.
- she called me a friend.
- I waved goodbye end of night and she went in for a hug.
So I'm having a hard read whether there's any romantic possibility here. I don't know whether there's any IL. I mean to me going to a bar to network 1 on 1 with a guy, seems bogus to me.
What do you guys think?
Do you guys think I can take this further?
Any similar experiences?
- James
Over the weekend I met up with a married woman. We had been talking about meeting up for awhile. But I've been busy so she has been waiting to me to firm a date. (We had connected/met on Facebook because we work in the same industry.)
So I invited her to go to a cool bar with me.
I'm wondering whether she has romantic interest in me over a few things:
- she has been keen to meet up with me (claiming she wants to learn from me and my industry experience)
- she has always been responsive to me in our texts/chats
- when we met up she mentioned she was seeing someone but did not say she was married
- she told me upfront that she doesn't like it when guys are confused with her and chase her because she's "seeing someone". She also passingly mention that doesn't happen to us but it doesn't seem like a stern warning.
- the whole night she was very chatty and teasing, tells me she admires me
- she told me that she had told her girlfriends that she was meeting up with me. They had a little discussion apparently.
- she was giving light touches here and there and she was ok to my touches too. Heavy eye contact. Although no overt flirting.
- she wasn't watching the clock and seemed to enjoy my company and at times was nervous.
- she called me a friend.
- I waved goodbye end of night and she went in for a hug.
So I'm having a hard read whether there's any romantic possibility here. I don't know whether there's any IL. I mean to me going to a bar to network 1 on 1 with a guy, seems bogus to me.
What do you guys think?
Do you guys think I can take this further?
Any similar experiences?
- James
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