I guess it's a difference in cultures, but going to prison, massively hindering, if not destroying your life over a woman seems a dumb move.
I used to agree with you on that, I get it.
when dudes make the assessment that goes with what you just said, green light.
when they know or have an example they will not usually.
it's not about the woman as much as self-respect. a massively difficult lesson for me to learn for myself. the hardest thing I had to learn ever. basically, deal with men just as hard or harder than you deal with women. much better to lose in the real world than in our own minds.
Think... someone that wants to target married women wants all of us to think that we should do nothing about it. Now it's very easy for them.