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Met Up With A Married Woman. Thoughts Needed.

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Alvafe

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Lol bro married women comming at you are part of your options. To guys with options. Iron sharpens iron.
Puszzy pulls puzzy. Don't hate the game I didn't make the rules
Man some of you guys.
part of options? maybe putting then in rotation is another thing, you don't entretain attention ***** just for the chance of puss, the whole thing is a waste of time, with again with option you can do more then entretain her, but hey each to his own if you don't understand this I don't think you can get it

Why? Whats the benefit of not spinning a married chic? Cause it "feels" right?
Doing the "right thing"
Is this the same "right thing" to do when you marry a chic by obligation? Worked for so many huh? Lol
In you are in over your head bro. The market is not 1950 anymore
again losing the point, i'm not even taking the whole he can come after you, or the crazy ***** use you just to make him jealous, i'm saying it a waste of time having damaged goods on a rotation, in a way you need to hide what you do, and reward bad behavior, only reason I can see a guy do so is for lack of options, if he had options he wouldn't have time to waste on a married woman
 
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Being married is NO BARRIER TO THE SMP. <------------------
Your pretty angel wife never leaves the game. Unplug dude
and for the looks not for the simp, also i'm against marriage so its never a issue to me, but hey I have better things to do then waste on a used puss, just don't get in love ok?
 

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Married women approach me and come on to me all the time. It's been a thing for years and years and years.
- she has been keen to meet up with me (claiming she wants to learn from me and my industry experience)

- she has always been responsive to me in our texts/chats

- when we met up she mentioned she was seeing someone but did not say she was married

Do you guys think I can take this further?

Any similar experiences?

- James
The only thing that's not mentioned here is your level of interest in HER. Are you actually into her? It seems like you enjoy the attention but you mention nothing about her looks, how sexy she is, etc. You make it sound like she's just a random generic female.

I get the impression that she's a 30 something broad who's still attractive enough but not really hot or else you would've mentioned it.

If your interest level is as low as it seems, why bother? Unless it's bragging rights to take down a taken woman.
 

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If a married woman decides to come out with a guy 1 on 1 or even decides to do more based on her own decision, there's not much I or anyone can do about it.
True, you could probably make something happen if you wanted. Women in committed relationships do not try and spend time alone with other men after hours... sure lunch and coffee, business meetings, that doesn't mean anything. She likely set up this meeting with you to see 'what might happen', to her worst case she makes a business network connection, which is still good.

Depending on how long she's been married and her current situation with her significant other, landing a married chick is just about the easiest thing in the world to do.

Having said that, it's really not worth the sh1t storm of grief you could launch. The best that could happen is you have to sneak around and always be available when she can break away: worst she leaves her husband and becomes a bunny boiling stalker, and you get drug into the family courts as a material witness.... or her husband kills you. Just this past year we've had three cases of a jealous husband shooting a lover within a mile of where my kids live with their mom.
 

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This.

For me it’s not even a morality play it is just a stupid risk. Her husband would be 100% right for protecting his wife from other men.
Sadly the law doesn't agree with you.
 

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This.

For me it’s not even a morality play it is just a stupid risk. Her husband would be 100% right for protecting his wife from other men.
some men are making the case that it's all on the girl. if they know a woman is married and can convince or game her into fcking it is her fault and they are innocent and should not have any part in the responsibility or anger of the cucked man.

personally, I think they are full of crap and making excuses just like a woman would do.

we all agree that women are stupid and only follow emotion and feeling. this is a contest of men.

it is like this; I fck your woman, what are you going to do about it ? o.. nothing, you are a chump.

remove men that step way out of line.

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as you may know, it is a huge rush to cuck another man, big power move.
 

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- she told me upfront that she doesn't like it when guys are confused with her and chase her because she's "seeing someone". She also passingly mention that doesn't happen to us but it doesn't seem like a stern warning.
I would have asked “what do you like?”
 

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Don’t deflect. Take me out of it.

How does it benefit a man to be the first option of a married (to another man) woman?
it's really simple.

a very animal aggressive powerful nut, and a feeling of stomping another man without even needing to do it. it's a very powerful feeling and can be very addictive. tyrant power. Many men don't know what to do about it so the dude will get away with it over and over until he doesn't.
 

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I've had to turn down the advances of many married women. In recent years, every such woman if I ever saw her again, or even on the spot, was PISSED.

Sometimes it's impossible to NOT piss someone off, create drama, gossip, etc.
 

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it's really simple.

a very animal aggressive powerful nut, and a feeling of stomping another man without even needing to do it. it's a very powerful feeling and can be very addictive. tyrant power. Many men don't know what to do about it so the dude will get away with it over and over until he doesn't.
What can you do about it, without risking time in a prison?
 

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as you may know, it is a huge rush to cuck another man, big power move.
This is why it is misplaced ego. Women aren’t that valuable. There are more productive avenues of competition; i.e. athletics and business.


a very animal aggressive powerful nut, and a feeling of stomping another man without even needing to do it.
No, that is bitchmade tbh. Just square up and get in the ring. Fvcking a man’s wife for “power” is deranged.
 

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What can you do about it, without risking time in a prison?
much better to be in prison of steel than the prison of the mind.

where I am it's pretty common to deal with some things directly but only if willing to do it. much of the west is harder to do, but it still happens... the crime of passion. ppl learn who can be stepped or not.
 

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Maybe that's what your motives were. This is not the thought process of every guy. @jamesfromhouston mentioned she is really hot, and he wants to fvck her. He didn't mention one-upping the husband or any kind of competitive talk. It was only about being with the woman.
perhaps but the mind of the cucked will always tie it together. the ONLY possible defense is "did not know".
 

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much better to be in prison of steel than the prison of the mind.

where I am it's pretty common to deal with some things directly but only if willing to do it. much of the west is harder to do, but it still happens... the crime of passion. ppl learn who can be stepped or not.
I guess it's a difference in cultures, but going to prison, massively hindering, if not destroying your life over a woman seems a dumb move.
 

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I guess it's a difference in cultures, but going to prison, massively hindering, if not destroying your life over a woman seems a dumb move.
I used to agree with you on that, I get it.
when dudes make the assessment that goes with what you just said, green light.

when they know or have an example they will not usually.

it's not about the woman as much as self-respect. a massively difficult lesson for me to learn for myself. the hardest thing I had to learn ever. basically, deal with men just as hard or harder than you deal with women. much better to lose in the real world than in our own minds.
Think... someone that wants to target married women wants all of us to think that we should do nothing about it. Now it's very easy for them.
 
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