How have you not lost the plot? Thats too long for a dry spell
Having had a similar hiatus myself, I can honestly say that with all the other BS going on in my
life I consider not having to be present and correct for a female is a blessing in disguise.
I have a pair of houses on the market, both 'sold' but both sales are being difficult to say the least.
For instance, one is tenanted and the tenant won't leave. I'm probably going to lose my buyer over
how my fvcking biatch tenant (62 years old, female) won't just get the hell out of my house.
I am having to formally evict her now which grants her several months of extra notice due to
temporary covid legislation increasing the rights of the tenant. The other sale has a collapsed chain
and I am about to return it to the market, it's been delayed so long the back garden looks like a jungle
and I need to head there soon and hack everything back again. Both houses are bought and paid for
and the money they will generate (£375,000+) is essentially my half of the estate. Once that hits my
bank account I can go buy a house to live in and at long last have my own space. I've never ever had
my own place and have always lived with parents/friends/gf/wife. They are just a couple of problems
and there are numerous others that I don't have the strength to sit here and type about for fear of
winding myself up again. To say I can't wait to have my own home is an understatement.
My temporary contract at Amazon is due to end in a matter of weeks and then I need to find another
income, which will likely be another gruelling warehouse job since that's all that's on offer that I can get
into and earning again quickly. Not that I'll miss the constant scrutiny of what is essentially a modern
day plantation. A very stressful environment in which to work and that's if you already have a settled home
life which I absolutely don't. Still, I am trying to convert to from temp to permanent staff at Amazon just so I
can have a steady income until the damned houses sell. I have a good reputation there and am well liked
it's just if they are hiring or not before my time is up there.
Still not divorced and with all of my stuff STILL in the house with my wife including my dearly missed motorcycles.
We are waiting until October which is when we can file a no fault divorce, there is a two year qualifying period
from the breakup before we can do this in UK law.
I'm looking down the final straight in a very long race to get out of the awful cramped bedsit I'm living in and
have been living in since splitting from my wife. The wife of my friend whose house it is is being an absolute cvnt
to me on a daily basis and makes sure I constantly know its HER house I'm living in. As such I sit in my room 99%
of the time I am at home as I don't feel very welcome here anymore. I can't have visitors, I'm not allowed and I have
to endure constant snide comments about everything from how loud my voice is to the amount of sound my cutlery
makes on my plate when I eat. With a daily insinuation or three about what a disgusting filthy human being I am in
general. I now also eat in my room to avoid her remarks. I pay to live here I hasten to add, but I'm rarely treated like
a paying customer. My mate is caught in the middle of this situation. I haven't spoken to his wife at all in three weeks
now. You can cut the atmosphere here with a knife. It comes to something when like last week I spent my day off sat in
Asda's car park in my van rather than be at 'home'.
I am in no place to entertain a woman amongst all this aggravation. In fact the vast majority of my BS has a woman at
the root of it, female tenant being a tw@, mates wife being an arsehole, soon to be ex wife champing at the bit to get my
sh1t out of her house so she can ride the carousel without reminders all around that she was once an honest married
woman.
Why on earth would I want to be dealing with another entitled, self serving, hypocritical harpie who takes
delight in tormenting men like the majority of them seem to these days...
