AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Maybe you absorbed that perspective from people on my ignore list or something, I don't know, but at least I routinely propound the opposite of playing any games either with yourself or others. I'm all about an upfront and brutal focus on selfrespect, selfhonesty and what you feel like.Jesus, so many different viewpoints and recommendations here. I really appreciate everyone's feedback, but I'm starting to find that getting more and more into this "game" thing that I'm being less and less myself, and trying to do something just to get results, and that's probably not a good way to go.
Two men are walking down a street and you have mind reading powers.
- One is thinking "Does she think I'm alpha? does he think I'm alpha? do they think I'm alpha? Is my text alpha enough? Does it look like I'm scarce enough? Am I making her like me enough? Am I doing the right things to please her whims? Am I playing the right games with her like the internet told me "works" with women? Is my line/text/timing/tactic making her wet or do I need to try some other alpha game?"
- The other man is thinking "Am I respecting myself? am I being honest with myself? am I pleasing myself?"
Which one seems the most tranquil and selfassured to you? which one is acting out of a sense of insecurity?
PUA-style "game" is based on insecurity and being phony not just with others but yourself too. In the future I want to make a thread to help establish an antithesis philosophy to PUA-game.
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