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I'm often in & out of the hospital due to my lung condition & know many of the nurses who have taken care of me over the years. A few years back I even had sex with one while she was on shift at night ( dated a brief period shortly after that encounter).
I met this new nurse a few months back & didn't really go after her because I was super sick during the admission, but a few weeks ago I was admitted for a routine lung clean out (IV antibiotics for two weeks) & she had me as a patient one night. After the first admission we followed eachother on Instagram but never really talked. This night though she seemed far more interested in me &I even made a comment about how much she loved my Instagram page (I post mostly gym pics, shirtless pics & stuff relating to helping other patients with cystic fibrosis). She was very locked in wit the eye contact & would play with her hair & laugh at a lot of the stuff I said. I'm not the best at reading signs, but I took this as slight interest & that I should flirt with her.
Anytime she came to my room I would talk to her & ask her about stuff she's into.. When she talked about my arms p, I told her to flex &I felt her arms & she laughed (didn't pull away). She also mentioned she didn't have any pets, so when I said that I have five dogs she lit up & said she'd like to meet them. I told her when I get out of the hospital that we should get together for some food, maybe go to the gym ( she commented on my body & said she needed a workout partner) & meet the dogs. She seemed receptive & said to message her on Instagram & we will make plans.
I figured cool, maybe this can turn into someone to mess around with since I don't want a relationship at the moment.
Thre after I was discharged from the hospital I messaged her on Instagram & initiated a conversation. She had gone to a Dolphins game that day & I asked if she had more fun at the game or flexing for me & giving me medicine; she mentioned she had fun but also had fun talking to me, but made a point to say that she laughs at everything. Soon after the messages started getting vague & distant. When I asked what her schedule was like, it took her well over 24hrs to respond, yet she was still posting **** on her Instagram. I never like her pics, but I did notice that tidbit of info. When she did respond, she said she was busy all weekend for a friends birthday & would be getting trashed drunk with her friends until she had to go back to work. Didn't say anything regarding going out another time.
I waited a full day to respond (had other **** going on anyway & hung with friends) & said its all good & I made other plans to do something anyway, so maybe we go hang another time. She waits another full day to reply & says "have fun!" With smile emojis.
At this point Im thinking its a dead end & she's just an attention *****. I say this too because when I took long times to reply, she would go & like pictures of mine..maybe trying to get my attention.
How would you go about this? Is it a dead end, or is there something I'm missing here. I know genuine attraction can't be negotiated, so if it's a dead thing I have no problem just cutting off the little contact I have with her. I would like to have sex with her, & I'm pretty confident I could get a good response from her if we were to hangout- I'm just not sure if all she is looking for is an ego boost.
I met this new nurse a few months back & didn't really go after her because I was super sick during the admission, but a few weeks ago I was admitted for a routine lung clean out (IV antibiotics for two weeks) & she had me as a patient one night. After the first admission we followed eachother on Instagram but never really talked. This night though she seemed far more interested in me &I even made a comment about how much she loved my Instagram page (I post mostly gym pics, shirtless pics & stuff relating to helping other patients with cystic fibrosis). She was very locked in wit the eye contact & would play with her hair & laugh at a lot of the stuff I said. I'm not the best at reading signs, but I took this as slight interest & that I should flirt with her.
Anytime she came to my room I would talk to her & ask her about stuff she's into.. When she talked about my arms p, I told her to flex &I felt her arms & she laughed (didn't pull away). She also mentioned she didn't have any pets, so when I said that I have five dogs she lit up & said she'd like to meet them. I told her when I get out of the hospital that we should get together for some food, maybe go to the gym ( she commented on my body & said she needed a workout partner) & meet the dogs. She seemed receptive & said to message her on Instagram & we will make plans.
I figured cool, maybe this can turn into someone to mess around with since I don't want a relationship at the moment.
Thre after I was discharged from the hospital I messaged her on Instagram & initiated a conversation. She had gone to a Dolphins game that day & I asked if she had more fun at the game or flexing for me & giving me medicine; she mentioned she had fun but also had fun talking to me, but made a point to say that she laughs at everything. Soon after the messages started getting vague & distant. When I asked what her schedule was like, it took her well over 24hrs to respond, yet she was still posting **** on her Instagram. I never like her pics, but I did notice that tidbit of info. When she did respond, she said she was busy all weekend for a friends birthday & would be getting trashed drunk with her friends until she had to go back to work. Didn't say anything regarding going out another time.
I waited a full day to respond (had other **** going on anyway & hung with friends) & said its all good & I made other plans to do something anyway, so maybe we go hang another time. She waits another full day to reply & says "have fun!" With smile emojis.
At this point Im thinking its a dead end & she's just an attention *****. I say this too because when I took long times to reply, she would go & like pictures of mine..maybe trying to get my attention.
How would you go about this? Is it a dead end, or is there something I'm missing here. I know genuine attraction can't be negotiated, so if it's a dead thing I have no problem just cutting off the little contact I have with her. I would like to have sex with her, & I'm pretty confident I could get a good response from her if we were to hangout- I'm just not sure if all she is looking for is an ego boost.